Crippling Loneliness (No natives, no friends, no family)

[UMIRINBRAH?]

For the last 4 months i have called just one friend, that was just once, i've only called mom

This is the most isolated I have ever been

I am desperate to have some social life

I buzzed my hair, so that doesn't help

I can't go out without hoodiemaxxing for the next 6 months

Its painful, this much extreme isolation hurts

 

[sqm]

how old ru

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

how old ru

20

 

[sqm]

20

you should start a combat sport, it’s easy asf to make friends, the feeling of beating the shit out of each other in sparring then going out to eat after is unmatched

 

[standardcel]

Go live close to your parents then you can visit them often or move in with them

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

you should start a combat sport, it’s easy asf to make friends, the feeling of beating the shit out of each other in sparring then going out to eat after is unmatched

Yeah, i really miss those times cz I used to box when i was in my home country, im out of there now...

 

[LTNUser]

20

Go fuck some girl bro

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

Go live close to your parents then you can visit them often or move in with them

im planning to go to uni just for the purpose of making some friends and have a social life tbh,

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

Go fuck some girl bro

i scared of girl

 

[vincentzygo]

It gets easier, im on year 3

U will start imagining people and talking to them in your head soon

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

It gets easier, im on year 3

U will start imagining people and talking to them in your head soon

fuck man...

 

[sqm]

Yeah, i really miss those times cz I used to box when i was in my home country, im out of there now...

no combat sport gyms near you? even at a normal gym u can make friends but it’s harder since you don’t really have a reason to interact with others

 

[LTNUser]

It gets easier, im on year 3

U will start imagining people and talking to them in your head soon

I just feel like masturbating everyday at this point
I lead quite a boring life with zero social interaction

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

no combat sport gyms near you? even at a normal gym u can make friends but it’s harder since you don’t really have a reason to interact with others

the gooks here don't speak english, and i feel so ostracized cz im a currycel in a gook country

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

I just feel like masturbating everyday at this point
I lead quite a boring life with zero social interaction

tbh

 

[standardcel]

im planning to go to uni just for the purpose of making some friends and have a social life tbh,

If you don’t find friends do as I said

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

If you don’t find friends do as I said

yes but i literally have one parent...over tbh

 

[sqm]

the gooks here don't speak english, and i feel so ostracized cz im a currycel in a gook country

fuck, you moved there recently? kinda over since it’s not like you can go to school or some shit and make friends

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

fuck, you moved there recently? kinda over since it’s not like you can go to school or some shit and make friends

i was supposed to hop from country to country, shit happened and i got stuck here...ill be able to get out from here soon

 

[svarddre]

School and church. Fags here clown on religion but there is no better community than a church

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

no better community than a church

agree

 

[thales20]

I can't go out without hoodiemaxxing for the next 6 months

Use a cap, better then using a hoodie and wont make you look like you want to shoot up a school

Also whats holding you to get out, go to a park or somewhere else?

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

Use a cap, better then using a hoodie and wont make you look like you want to shoot up a school

Also whats holding you to get out, go to a park or somewhere else?

I have a tall skull, looks shit with a cap

+ i go out to places, seeing people there and me being the only one waling around alone makes me feel even more shit

 

[thales20]

+ i go out to places, seeing people there and me being the only one waling around alone makes me feel even more shit

Try talking to someone, someone in your class, work get friends at least try it. Dont buy this incel bullshit that you need to look like a 6''5 chadlite to be friends or even get a girlfriend.

I would say even tho you have a tall skull, it still would be better than using a hoodie all the time. Because its just a pain in the ass having a hoodie while its 40 °C outside and if you care that much with what you are wearing, i'd say it still looks better. And I honestly stopped caring of what I wear in normal places like college or class. Its like setting you free from chains.

 

[iblamexyz]

For the last 4 months i have called just one friend, that was just once, i've only called mom

This is the most isolated I have ever been

I am desperate to have some social life

I buzzed my hair, so that doesn't help

I can't go out without hoodiemaxxing for the next 6 months

Its painful, this much extreme isolation hurts

hey bro you may not like this advice but this simply the most important reply here bro

I strongly advise you to find a Church even if you don't have faith in Jesus.

people in Churches should be nice and welcoming and kind to you and maybe you can make friends and interact wth ppl there

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

hey bro you may not like this advice but this simply the most important reply here bro

I strongly advise you to find a Church even if you don't have faith in Jesus.

people in Churches should be nice and welcoming and kind to you and maybe you can make friends and interact wth ppl there

you are right.

but..

lookism exists in the church too tho, + can't wear hoodie there (temp prob)

I will look into church community when my hair grows back

 

[iblamexyz]

you are right.

but..

lookism exists in the church too tho, + can't wear hoodie there (temp prob)

I will look into church community when my hair grows back

it does I am gonna be a dumbass but people should approach you first and be kind to you regardless who you are what you are that's a Christian motto we love the world as Jesus did

so yes it does exist but bro you could be going to a church full of old ppl where no one there gives a fuck

I think the best idea is to start NOW, your mental health is just going to get worse right now bro and we can't afford that to happan please just go to if not this week please let it happen next week

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

it does I am gonna be a dumbass but people should approach you first and be kind to you regardless who you are what you are that's a Christian motto we love the world as Jesus did

so yes it does exist but bro you could be going to a church full of old ppl where no one there gives a fuck

I think the best idea is to start NOW, your mental health is just going to get worse right now bro and we can't afford that to happan please just go to if not this week please let it happen next week

I appreciate this bro.

Tbh people making me feel less than in there will fuck my mental health further.

I will go in there when I feel good enough, cz its s good environment to make some connections

 

[iblamexyz]

I appreciate this bro.

Tbh people making me feel less than in there will fuck my mental health further.

I will go in there when I feel good enough, cz its s good environment to make some connections

okay bro I just don't want your mental health to get worse, but dm anytime my bro