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Fuck this. Seriously fuck porn. Everything in my life would be great if I could stop being an addicted loser, I literally choose to watch porn in the bedroom while my gf is in the living room hoping she won't walk in and interrupt me. What the fuck do I do guys please help, I'm very very deep down a rabbit hole. It makes me have very little motivation when I go through a porn binge and I lose all my good energy. :pepefrown:

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I just wanna stop :feelswhy: but my brain is hooked on the act of scrolling through porn sites and flipping from one extreme video to the next, with tons of fetishes and unrealistic shit
 
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bruh imagine having a gf lying around and u choose that

would rather nut inside a foid raw

I’m forced to jerk off 6 times a day due to inceldom and only getting a new fuck every month or so

It’s over for me :feelsrope:
 
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@volcelfatcel you fat curry don't laugh at this post I'm legit worried that I'll never recover.
 
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@volcelfatcel you fat curry don't laugh at this post I'm legit worried that I'll never recover.
idk what to say son, take AI's and curb estrogen to a shitter, break up with your gf, move to tibet, join a buddhist monastery and detox
 
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Brag thread
 
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idk what to say son, take AI's and curb estrogen to a shitter, break up with your gf, move to tibet, join a buddhist monastery and detox
Just Tibet monk maxx bro
 
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kys sex drive haver
 
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bruh imagine having a gf lying around and u choose that

would rather nut inside a foid raw

I’m forced to jerk off 6 times a day due to inceldom and only getting a new fuck every month or so

It’s over for me :feelsrope:
I like to fuck a lot too. But about 30% of my horniness is exclusively to porn, it feels like I have to fap to porn to be fully satisfied. And it's very fringe porn that would horrify the average person if they saw what I was watching. I have a dopamine problem and it needs to be fixed now or else I'm literally screwed, porn literally is giving me ADHD and if I fap too much I can't be bothered to fuck and I get ED. My gf literally has to manipulate me to fuck her sometimes, or literally roleplaying that she's raping me to get my cum (which is something I fap too a lot unfortunately).

I'm drunk rn but these thoughts had to come out somehow...
 
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I said the same thing. Now I'm fapping once every 4-5 days instead of daily. Porn is poison for the mind and can give you pyrones if you fap too hard with no lube
 
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I like to fuck a lot too. But about 30% of my horniness is exclusively to porn, it feels like I have to fap to porn to be fully satisfied. And it's very fringe porn that would horrify the average person if they saw what I was watching. I have a dopamine problem and it needs to be fixed now or else I'm literally screwed, porn literally is giving me ADHD and if I fap too much I can't be bothered to fuck and I get ED. My gf literally has to manipulate me to fuck her sometimes, or literally roleplaying that she's raping me to get my cum (which is something I fap too a lot unfortunately).

I'm drunk rn but these thoughts had to come out somehow...
porn is more exciting dopamine wise than fucking a girl, fucking a girl is all mental just like it is for her.

Your hands and her vibrator give her bigger dopamine highs
 
Ask @OOGABOOGA to send me a picture of frame

I will give you a method to stop addiction
 
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I said the same thing. Now I'm gapping once every 4-5 days instead of daily. Porn is poison for the mind and can give you pyrones if you fap too hard with no lube
or hard flaccid
 
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Wished I never started...
 
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I was asked by a computer
A shadow on the wall
An image made by Virgil
To rule over us all
 
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I said the same thing. Now I'm fapping once every 4-5 days instead of daily. Porn is poison for the mind and can give you pyrones if you fap too hard with no lube
I quit porn for few months now completely and my libido basically vanished, my brain was so used to watching it and masturbating that it went into emergency mode and shut down ny libido. I couldn't have a proper erection in months after or get horny at all :feelsbadman:. I re introduced porn and masturbating the past 10 days and i get rock hard erections now again like i used to
 
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or literally roleplaying that she's raping me to get my cum (which is something I fap too a lot unfortunately)
Based role play, I'd love to be a part of it some day.
 
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And it's very fringe porn that would horrify the average person if they saw what I was watching.
Idk how extreme the kind of porn is but maybe you could implement the things out of this porn in your own sex life with your gf.
 
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I quit porn for few months now completely and my libido basically vanished, my brain was so used to watching it and masturbating that it went into emergency mode and shut down ny libido. I couldn't have a proper erection in months after or get horny at all :feelsbadman:. I re introduced porn and masturbating the past 10 days and i get rock hard erections now again like i used to
Fucking brutal.

But honestly, maybe you should have waited longer. There was a study where a guy who had porn-induced ED waited for 8 months after fapping to porn daily for his libido to become normal again.
 
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Fucking brutal.

But honestly, maybe you should have waited longer. There was a study where a guy who had porn-induced ED waited for 8 months after fapping to porn daily for his libido to become normal again.
I could start over again, not like its hard to have a non existing libido, it's just scary af and i was scared of having perma brain damage if i continued. But i didn't really have ED problems before, only when i would do porn and fapping daily, 1-2 times porn and masturbating a week with a very soft grip wouldn't have caused me any problems during sex
 
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I quit porn for few months now completely and my libido basically vanished, my brain was so used to watching it and masturbating that it went into emergency mode and shut down ny libido. I couldn't have a proper erection in months after or get horny at all :feelsbadman:. I re introduced porn and masturbating the past 10 days and i get rock hard erections now again like i used to
That was you chance to quit forever. Just fuck your gf man wtf
 
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That was you chance to quit forever. Just fuck your gf man wtf
Couldn't fuck her like I used to, my libido was just very weak, used to fuck her like crazy when i would watch porn in the past, but from stopping porn my brain ascended to a different plain of human consciousness where sex became meaningless
 
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Couldn't fuck her like I used to, my libido was just very weak, used to fuck her like crazy when i would watch porn in the past, but from stopping porn my brain ascended to a different plain of human consciousness where sex became meaningless
Your posts are so amusing, you need to post more.
 
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Sorry to hear that man. I still have my battles with it too but at least for me it’s vanilla. Historically I’ve found that it’s easiest to stay off porn when I’m having sex a couple of times per week. Whenever that’s the case I’m able to truly take the days off in between. I might be satisfied with fucking two nights per week but when I’m back on porn habits the frequency is higher bc I’m craving the dopamine dump.

Recently(last couple of weeks) I’ve fallen back into watching porn after a good month to month and a half without porn. The time away from porn started when I got that new fwb. And I started falling back to porn as I got bored of her. Maybe if you were able to fuck other girls that novelty would help but obviously that’s not really on the table.

That may not be helpful but just know there are a lot of people who struggle with this and as a result there are a lot of resources online to help that should have better advice for you than I do
 
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You'll get to the point where the feelings of shame and disgust associated to craving and fapping to porn are so strong that they will override your need for dopamine

Speaking from experience here

However the flatline someone talked about above is very real, whenever I go on noporn I become asexual and it's scary. I wish I could turn back time and go back to being a teenager who would get horny at the sight of random cleavage. My porn addiction got really bad over the years and I needed more and more fucked up porn to get off
 
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Couldn't fuck her like I used to, my libido was just very weak, used to fuck her like crazy when i would watch porn in the past, but from stopping porn my brain ascended to a different plain of human consciousness where sex became meaningless
This is true, the less you fap in my experience you should replace it with an equal amount of fucking if you want to keep your libido and avoid the flatline.
 
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This is true, the less you fap in my experience you should replace it with an equal amount of fucking if you want to keep your libido and avoid the flatline.
Yeah this basically, i do have a girlfriend but we don't live together and because i study medicine we would have sex only like once a week and since finals got near we wouldn't have sex at all and that was when my libido truly went off, i started masturbating again and feel horny now :feelsgood:, also my concentration is better and overall mood. Honestly porn is maybe beneficial in small quantities, if you are used to it all your life that is at least. Don't fix something that isn't broken, I shouldn't have quit porn cause i was never addicted to it, would coom on average once daily with porn and that was it, like 30 minutes, and would go on with my life
 
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Sorry to hear that man. I still have my battles with it too but at least for me it’s vanilla. Historically I’ve found that it’s easiest to stay off porn when I’m having sex a couple of times per week. Whenever that’s the case I’m able to truly take the days off in between. I might be satisfied with fucking two nights per week but when I’m back on porn habits the frequency is higher bc I’m craving the dopamine dump.

Recently(last couple of weeks) I’ve fallen back into watching porn after a good month to month and a half without porn. The time away from porn started when I got that new fwb. And I started falling back to porn as I got bored of her. Maybe if you were able to fuck other girls that novelty would help but obviously that’s not really on the table.

That may not be helpful but just know there are a lot of people who struggle with this and as a result there are a lot of resources online to help that should have better advice for you than I do
Think I'm gonna join NoFap forum. Bruh I have easy access to sex and she always caters to my weird fetishes, I feel so pathetic that I even think of watching porn under those circumstances.

And then last night I got so drunk at a party that I ended up in the bathroom throwing up for 30 minutes followed by sleeping on the bathroom floor and then I sat on the couch with a bucket. I told myself "I'm done with this shit. I'm doing a dopamine detox and stop porn and stop overdrinking and all the other shit I do"

Next week I'm going to fast for 4-5 days and avoid all PMO (might fuck her but I won't allow myself to cum) and avoid all alcohol/weed and stick to a strict schedule because I have exams. And log off the forums too. Just as an experiment I need to see what happens to my brain and energy when I stop the overloaded dopamine lifestyle.
 
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Think I'm gonna join NoFap forum. Bruh I have easy access to sex and she always caters to my weird fetishes, I feel so pathetic that I even think of watching porn under those circumstances.

And then last night I got so drunk at a party that I ended up in the bathroom throwing up for 30 minutes followed by sleeping on the bathroom floor and then I sat on the couch with a bucket. I told myself "I'm done with this shit. I'm doing a dopamine detox and stop porn and stop overdrinking and all the other shit I do"

Next week I'm going to fast for 4-5 days and avoid all PMO (might fuck her but I won't allow myself to cum) and avoid all alcohol/weed and stick to a strict schedule because I have exams. And log off the forums too. Just as an experiment I need to see what happens to my brain and energy when I stop the overloaded dopamine lifestyle.
Worth a try but extreme cold turkey crash diet type shit often leads to bingeing and an even unhealthier relationship with whatever you’re avoiding. But yeah try different things until you figure it out. You know the goal is achievable bc plenty of people achieve it. One method might not work for you but just remember the only way to fail to reach your goal is to give up!
 
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Fuck this. Seriously fuck porn. Everything in my life would be great if I could stop being an addicted loser, I literally choose to watch porn in the bedroom while my gf is in the living room hoping she won't walk in and interrupt me. What the fuck do I do guys please help, I'm very very deep down a rabbit hole. It makes me have very little motivation when I go through a porn binge and I lose all my good energy. :pepefrown:

@Baldingman1998 @OOGABOOGA @volcelfatcel @TsarTsar444 @lutte
Idk. Bimax?
 
Worth a try but extreme cold turkey crash diet type shit often leads to bingeing and an even unhealthier relationship with whatever you’re avoiding. But yeah try different things until you figure it out. You know the goal is achievable bc plenty of people achieve it. One method might not work for you but just remember the only way to fail to reach your goal is to give up!
Also going to be trying high doses of Cerebrolysin (the pig neuropeptides that Leo talked about)

 
I like to fuck a lot too. But about 30% of my horniness is exclusively to porn, it feels like I have to fap to porn to be fully satisfied. And it's very fringe porn that would horrify the average person if they saw what I was watching. I have a dopamine problem and it needs to be fixed now or else I'm literally screwed, porn literally is giving me ADHD and if I fap too much I can't be bothered to fuck and I get ED. My gf literally has to manipulate me to fuck her sometimes, or literally roleplaying that she's raping me to get my cum (which is something I fap too a lot unfortunately).

I'm drunk rn but these thoughts had to come out somehow...
I know what you're wanting. To watch a guy fuck the shit out of your gf while you jerk off to that. But here's the thing, Mr MicroKing, a woman knows more than you can imagine. It's their talent. A natural endowment, you can say. So she's already getting fucked real good by one she loves with all her heart but he's probably a playa and doesn't want to commit OR you're full of shit and have no gf and just another perverted femboy that larps as a normal straight guy. A vagina knows when you're viewing porn. Trust me! So if she's not saying anything, it's not bothering her because her heart belongs to another. And it's not for you. So I call bullshit on your story. Because you don't resemble one that could get a real vagina gf. Word, microman.
 
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I know what you're wanting. To watch a guy fuck the shit out of your gf while you jerk off to that. But here's the thing, Mr MicroKing, a woman knows more than you can imagine. It's their talent. A natural endowment, you can say. So she's already getting fucked real good by one she loves with all her heart but he's probably a playa and doesn't want to commit OR you're full of shit and have no gf and just another perverted femboy that larps as a normal straight guy. A vagina knows when you're viewing porn. Trust me! So if she's not saying anything, it's not bothering her because her heart belongs to another. And it's not for you. So I call bullshit on your story. Because you don't resemble one that could get a real vagina gf. Word, microman.
Wtf is this nonsense. I'm hungover so nothing is funny to me, was this supposed to be funny?
 
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Wtf is this nonsense. I'm hungover so nothing is funny to me, was this supposed to be funny?
How do you see it? Because I don't find anything funny here. Having a gf and watching porn behind her back is making a fool of her. But she knows. You think she doesn't know. So like I said, if she knows and doesn't say anything means it doesn't hurt her that you watch other women naked performing sex. A girl that loves her man would get hurt, embarrassed, ashamed, belittled by such disturbance. Fact! But you take that how you would like.
 
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How do you see it? Because I don't find anything funny here. Having a gf and watching porn behind her back is making a fool of her. But she knows. You think she doesn't know. So like I said, if she knows and doesn't say anything means it doesn't hurt her that you watch other women naked performing sex. A girl that loves her man would get hurt, embarrassed, ashamed, belittled by such disturbance. Fact! But you take that how you would like.
She wants me to quit too bro, she's aware that its affecting me negatively in my ability to focus on things and lowers my sexual performance when we have sex.

She told me to stop but I still do it. Swear to God
 
I quit porn for few months now completely and my libido basically vanished, my brain was so used to watching it and masturbating that it went into emergency mode and shut down ny libido. I couldn't have a proper erection.
Ideal. I'm going no fap. I hope this happens to me.

I was like 20 years no fap and I didn't have that much libido. Then I started watching porn and now I am a coomer like everyone else.

It's painful having libido when you are subhuman.
 
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Ideal. I'm going no fap. I hope this happens to me.

I was like 20 years no fap and I didn't have that much libido. Then I started watching porn and now I am a coomer like everyone else.

It's painful having libido when you are subhuman.
Watching porn raises your testosterone
 
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She wants me to quit too bro, she's aware that its affecting me negatively in my ability to focus on things and lowers my sexual performance when we have sex.

She told me to stop but I still do it. Swear to God
If you feel guilty after you do it, or don't want to get caught, it's the same as cheating on her. And you don't want her to feel cheated on. Ugh. There are too many other guys out there and playas that seek such vulnerabilities in females. You need to own up to this! Perhaps, get a cuckold going. She'll understand.
 
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The final argument for eliminating porn is that our pre-internet ancestors didn't need porn, and people back then were horny dogs without fucked up fetishes. Tbh "watching porn in small quantities" when you have a history of addiction is wrong, IMO. You need to put it off completely until your brain repairs itself. The flatline is something you must go through as your dopamine goes back to baseline. It's literally no different than drug addicts feeling like crap when they're off.
 
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The final argument for eliminating porn is that our pre-internet ancestors didn't need porn, and people back then were horny dogs without fucked up fetishes. Tbh "watching porn in small quantities" when you have a history of addiction is wrong, IMO. You need to put it off completely until your brain repairs itself. The flatline is something you must go through as your dopamine goes back to baseline. It's literally no different than drug addicts feeling like crap when they're off.
Sure they did. Shiet, 70/80s porn flicks were the bomb! Then add the mags to that. Ugh. But you're right. This internet reality began solely on the transmission of pornography through BBS. Bulletin Board Systems. Thus a list of phone numbers/servers. So you connect your 486 using a 2400 to a phone line and pull up your Dial-Up and connect to a BBS. There you'll be greeted along with a list of folders. Pornography folders.
 
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Sure they did. Shiet, 70/80s porn flicks were the bomb! Then add the mags to that. Ugh. But you're right. This internet reality began solely on the transmission of pornography through BBS. Bulletin Board Systems. Thus a list of phone numbers/servers. So you connect your 486 using a 2400 to a phone line and pull up your Dial-Up and connect to a BBS. There you'll be greeted along with a list of folders. Pornography folders.
You seem like a crackhead I barely keep up with what you're saying lmao
 
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