Crush was flirty but left me on delivered?

[boxing-cel]

for the first reason, its not socially unacceptable to sit next to a girl in one of your lectures and try to get to know her. or just going up to one and asking for their number. for the second reason, yea no shit you're gonna be treated different if you looked worse, this doesnt necessarily mean its gonna happen again. you're acting like a rejection is failure. its redirection, mere redirection.

So I could just randomly sit next to a girl and shit?

What if she doesn’t want anyone sitting next to her? And doesn’t it look weird if there’s empty seats around.

 

[Zagro]

Tbf if I like a girl I might not respond instantly and delay it but also it depends on if I feel like she’ll slip away.

She probably sensed I’m needy for her so she knows she can make me wait lol

Whatever makes you happy bro

 

[boxing-cel]

Whatever makes you happy bro

???

 

[NeedUndereyeSupport]

So I could just randomly sit next to a girl and shit?

What if she doesn’t want anyone sitting next to her? And doesn’t it look weird if there’s empty seats around.

you're a 6'4 muscular probably mtn and you're asking if you can randomly sit next to a girl..??? there isn't a rule forbidding you even if you were ugly. if she doesn't want anyone sitting next to her she'll move, and i doubt that because wtf does she expect in a fucking college class. if there's empty seats around, all the more reason to sit next to her, shows her that you're interested. but it could come off as creepy so you gotta read the room

 

[boxing-cel]

you're a 6'4 muscular probably mtn and you're asking if you can randomly sit next to a girl..??? there isn't a rule forbidding you even if you were ugly. if she doesn't want anyone sitting next to her she'll move, and i doubt that because wtf does she expect in a fucking college class. if there's empty seats around, all the more reason to sit next to her, shows her that you're interested. but it could come off as creepy so you gotta read the room

I guess, but it feels so risky lol. Just randomly sitting next to a foid when there’s like a dozen other empty chairs haha.

 

[NeedUndereyeSupport]

I guess, but it feels so risky lol. Just randomly sitting next to a foid when there’s like a dozen other empty chairs haha.

if you're confident with yourself and youre not some little bitch with his tail tucked between his legs, whoever you sit next to wouldn't mind. just ask them a question, if they reply with like 1 word leave them alone, but if they're continuing the conversation, then they're continuing the conversation. dude i dont understand you. its like your fucking king but afraid to use your wealth.

 

[boxing-cel]

if you're confident with yourself and youre not some little bitch with his tail tucked between his legs, whoever you sit next to wouldn't mind. just ask them a question, if they reply with like 1 word leave them alone, but if they're continuing the conversation, then they're continuing the conversation. dude i dont understand you. its like your fucking king but afraid to use your wealth.

Brutha I’m just a bit tall and have decent muscle and there’s lots of guys like that lmao

 

[NeedUndereyeSupport]

Brutha I’m just a bit tall and have decent muscle and there’s lots of guys like that lmao

im sure there are, do you think they're putting themselves out there and talking to girls?

 

[boxing-cel]

im sure there are, do you think they're putting themselves out there and talking to girls?

i mean ive had some success with women. I got one girl in my class ask me out 5 times after we talked a bit but i didnt like her and a handful of girls on tinder were down to hookup asap, but like overall the hot and pretty girls I want seem to just not give me the clear IOIs that i need

Generally I think you need some indicator she’s interested otherwise you just come off as creepy idk

 

[NeedUndereyeSupport]

i mean ive had some success with women. I got one girl in my class ask me out 5 times after we talked a bit but i didnt like her and a handful of girls on tinder were down to hookup asap, but like overall the hot and pretty girls I want seem to just not give me the clear IOIs that i need

Generally I think you need some indicator she’s interested otherwise you just come off as creepy idk

theres no harm in trying to get to know someone, theres bound to be a girl who you're interested in thats interested in you. theres nothing much you can do besides get ur charisma up or maybe get some surgery, though idk your flaws.

 

[BobDaDa]

She initiated conversation 1 to 2 times before this but this was our first convo.

We walked in class together and had a great vibe:

1. She initiated conversation

2. Asked me 6 to 10 questions about me, my background, life, living situations. We talked for like 15 min straight before class and like she was smiling and super sweet.

3. We stared into each others eyes silently for like 5 seconds then pulled away smiling, three times

4. Flicked her hair

5. I moved closer, made comments, she smiled and gave good responses and didn’t pull away

but when class ended she left fast cuz she said she was tired and hungry earlier and had been there all day, maybe that’s a lie but idk

I found her insta and sent it at like 2am and she accepted it around 7am Sat so fairly fast and then followed me back

then I messaged her and asked her out at 1:30pm

She didn’t respond, and didn’t all day, then posted stories at 8pm, which I didn’t open.

It’s Sunday morning now. Is she just not into me? Or is she playing some sort of female mind game or smth? Idk whether to hope or just cut my losses and move on. Which sucks cause like she seemed to really fuck with me irl.

i told your simp ass to call her hot in person but no you decided this and look what came with it.

 

[boxing-cel]

theres no harm in trying to get to know someone, theres bound to be a girl who you're interested in thats interested in you. theres nothing much you can do besides get ur charisma up or maybe get some surgery, though idk your flaws.

Yea true but also most girls are in big groups

 

[Navity]

Grok says the same thing sir

read the first half u dumb nigger

 

[boxing-cel]

i told your simp ass to call her hot in person but no you decided this and look what came with it.

That’s a different girl…

 

[BobDaDa]

That’s a different girl…

does not matter you still went the same approach you kept thinking about.

 

[boxing-cel]

does not matter you still went the same approach you kept thinking about.

Ok nigga

 

[BobDaDa]

Ok nigga

Are u gonna finally be a man and take action?

 

[boxing-cel]

Are u gonna finally be a man and take action?

How?

 

[BobDaDa]

How?

you're a lost cause bro. I gave you game the other day for like an hour

 

[boxing-cel]

you're a lost cause bro. I gave you game the other day for like an hour

Yeah, just randomly tell a chick she’s hot jfl

 

[max.fuechsle]

no options in real life at this moment, unlimited options on her phone after

 

[boxing-cel]

no options in real life at this moment, unlimited options on her phone after

Yeah she’s probably talking to half a dozen other guys she’s more into

 

[BobDaDa]

Yeah, just randomly tell a chick she’s hot jfl

yeah if you are what you say you are you have the genetics to approach direct game. But nah bru keep asking chicks out over text. If you called her and she heard your tone of voice i'd understand, but texting? Homo shit

 

[boxing-cel]

yeah if you are what you say you are you have the genetics to approach direct game. But nah bru keep asking chicks out over text. If you called her and she heard your tone of voice i'd understand, but texting? Homo shit

Don’t know what else I was supposed to when I wasn’t really gonna see her again

 

[BobDaDa]

Don’t know what else I was supposed to when I wasn’t really gonna see her again

In your post you stated you talked to her during the day or some shit then you requested to follow her and then asked her out. Think bro, you shoudlve asked her out when you had the chance face to face. But idk dude you do you

 

[boxing-cel]

In your post you stated you talked to her during the day or some shit then you requested to follow her and then asked her out. Think bro, you shoudlve asked her out when you had the chance face to face. But idk dude you do you

She left abruptly

 

[BobDaDa]

She left abruptly

you said yall talked for like 15 minutes her asking you gay shit like questions about yourself. Meaning you had the chance. Dude you're seriously all cope bro you dont want the help. Maybe just validation of reasoning on why she ignored you. But im telling you dude, take action when opportunity is in your face. I feel bad for you bro, not in a pity way.

 

[NeedUndereyeSupport]

Yea true but also most girls are in big groups

is that when they sit for class? its not rare finding a girl alone. i cant lie, you have the attitude of a fat chud indian not the 6'4 buff ass mtn. lock in, talk to girls, enthrall them, love them.

 

[boxing-cel]

is that when they sit for class? its not rare finding a girl alone. i cant lie, you have the attitude of a fat chud indian not the 6'4 buff ass mtn. lock in, talk to girls, enthrall them, love them.

Yeah in class, that’s only really when I see em

 

[boxing-cel]

you said yall talked for like 15 minutes her asking you gay shit like questions about yourself. Meaning you had the chance. Dude you're seriously all cope bro you dont want the help. Maybe just validation of reasoning on why she ignored you. But im telling you dude, take action when opportunity is in your face. I feel bad for you bro, not in a pity way.

Dude, what was i supposed to do? Scream “waittttt come on a date with me?”

I asked her if she was going, she said yeah and walked away.

 

[BobDaDa]

Dude, what was i supposed to do? Scream “waittttt come on a date with me?”

I asked her if she was going, she said yeah and walked away.

you cant read. Good luck on your endeavors dude. Only you can save yourself.

 

[sigmablud42069]

She initiated conversation 1 to 2 times before this but this was our first convo.

We walked in class together and had a great vibe:

1. She initiated conversation

2. Asked me 6 to 10 questions about me, my background, life, living situations. We talked for like 15 min straight before class and like she was smiling and super sweet.

3. We stared into each others eyes silently for like 5 seconds then pulled away smiling, three times

4. Flicked her hair

5. I moved closer, made comments, she smiled and gave good responses and didn’t pull away

but when class ended she left fast cuz she said she was tired and hungry earlier and had been there all day, maybe that’s a lie but idk

I found her insta and sent it at like 2am and she accepted it around 7am Sat so fairly fast and then followed me back

then I messaged her and asked her out at 1:30pm

She didn’t respond, and didn’t all day, then posted stories at 8pm, which I didn’t open.

It’s Sunday morning now. Is she just not into me? Or is she playing some sort of female mind game or smth? Idk whether to hope or just cut my losses and move on. Which sucks cause like she seemed to really fuck with me irl.

damn dude updates to the tales