Crying in front of your girlfriend

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

I was thinking about my feelings, and like any other person I have my shit like feeling unlovable, low self-esteem, dismorphy, heartbroken,etc.

And one thought crossed my mind, it was me venting on my hypothetical gf. The thing is, even if I feel bad with myself and a desire to cry or vent my emotions on her, considering we are in a LTR and im good looking (low htn 5'11), should I do this and vent her and cry in her arms or keep these things inside me?

I would feel relieved but I dont know if that is going to give her the ick or make me less masculine or whatever happens in a foid mind.

Maybe what I need is a therapist

 

[sh1rkah]

u should always cry in front of your gf

 

[idontlikemyself6]

Crying infront of your gf is like being 30 minutes late to work, don’t do it and if you do only do it once or twice

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

u should always cry in front of your gf

i will take it as a no

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

Crying infront of your gf is like being 30 minutes late to work, don’t do it and if you do only do it once or twice

but if i need it so bad?

 

[JbwKlassik]

I was thinking about my feelings, and like any other person I have my shit like feeling unlovable, low self-esteem, dismorphy, heartbroken,etc.

And one thought crossed my mind, it was me venting on my hypothetical gf. The thing is, even if I feel bad with myself and a desire to cry or vent my emotions on her, considering we are in a LTR and im good looking (low htn 5'11), should I do this and vent her and cry in her arms or keep these things inside me?

I would feel relieved but I dont know if that is going to give her the ick or make me less masculine or whatever happens in a foid mind.

Maybe what I need is a therapist

listen bhaijan, if you cry infront of your girlfriend and she leaves you for that, good for you, you just removed a girl who was gonna use you, and wasn’t gonna be any good to you, but if she accepts you and helps you, good because now you’re 100% sure that she’s the one

 

[idontlikemyself6]

but if i need it so bad?

no girls want to see u cry go get a fucking therapist or smth, girl want dominant chad not submissive sam

 

[sh1rkah]

i will take it as a no

y not

 

[DrRodger]

Do not do that

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

no girls want to see u cry go get a fucking therapist or smth, girl want dominant chad not submissive sam

yeah i know that, but I AM dominant in any other aspect. But imagine i have to vent one or twice because of my past mental health

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

u should always cry in front of your gf

Yes, exactly.

If she leaves bc of that ur just made sure she was not your wife

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

y not

it looked like sarcasm

 

[sh1rkah]

Yes, exactly.

If she leaves bc of that ur just made sure she was not your wife

yeahh

 

[ICXCLuvr]

u should always cry in front of your gf

No

 

[sh1rkah]

it looked like sarcasm

no i promise it's not

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

yeah i know that, but I AM dominant in any other aspect. But imagine i have to vent one or twice because of my past mental health

my brother, I was too in the last relationship, I cried in front of her a lot of times.

Shes my ex now and for the past 4 months since we broke up shes been following me everywhere and wants me back and makes sure I know it EVERYDAY

 

[sh1rkah]

No

why

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

listen bhaijan, if you cry infront of your girlfriend and she leaves you for that, good for you, you just removed a girl who was gonna use you, and wasn’t gonna be any good to you, but if she accepts you and helps you, good because now you’re 100% sure that she’s the one

Bhai, thanks for the words. The thing that bothers me is i will never know once I cry if she is gonna accept me or she is gonna leave me

 

[ICXCLuvr]

Yes, exactly.

If she leaves bc of that ur just made sure she was not your wife

No woman wants to see a man cry. It should only happen after years of connection and after your mom dies and it should be a few years streaming down your face not an ugly exaggerated baby cry

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

yeahh

these guys have no idea about the real world

 

[ICXCLuvr]

why

They’ll get turned off and you are supposed to be the leader you can’t really cry

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

Do not do that

I know broski i know, but for instance, right now i want to cry and i have nobody and any person would be great

 

[SoundnVision]

If you want her to leave then cry

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

No woman wants to see a man cry. It should only happen after years of connection and after your mom dies and it should be a few years streaming down your face not an ugly exaggerated baby cry

Men cry, thats the truth. If you dont show her your emotions she will understand you are afraid of her and afraid of her leaving or thinking something wrong, thats a BIG sign of weakness.

Different is if its not on you to cry but if you want to and you have a gf you should vent to her

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

Yes, exactly.

If she leaves bc of that ur just made sure she was not your wife

im sorry bro, but this forum is full of trolls and idk if people is just trolling me or not because your message looks very genuine

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

im sorry bro, but this forum is full of trolls and idk if people is just trolling me or not because your message looks very genuine

I am being genuine my guy, on my mother it is fr.

Man cry, thats the truth. If you dont show her your emotions she will understand you are afraid of her and afraid of her leaving or thinking something wrong, thats a BIG sign of weakness.

Different is if its not on you to cry but if you want to and you have a gf you should vent to her

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

my brother, I was too in the last relationship, I cried in front of her a lot of times.

Shes my ex now and for the past 4 months since we broke up shes been following me everywhere and wants me back and makes sure I know it EVERYDAY

Lifefuel thx man

 

[ICXCLuvr]

Man cry, thats the truth. If you dont show her your emotions she will understand you are afraid of her and afraid of her leaving or thinking something wrong, thats a BIG sign of weakness.

Different is if its not on you to cry but if you want to and you have a gf you should vent to her

I personally can handle my own problems so there’s no need to vent and also I don’t even cry alone so

 

[1beaker1]

I was thinking about my feelings, and like any other person I have my shit like feeling unlovable, low self-esteem, dismorphy, heartbroken,etc.

And one thought crossed my mind, it was me venting on my hypothetical gf. The thing is, even if I feel bad with myself and a desire to cry or vent my emotions on her, considering we are in a LTR and im good looking (low htn 5'11), should I do this and vent her and cry in her arms or keep these things inside me?

I would feel relieved but I dont know if that is going to give her the ick or make me less masculine or whatever happens in a foid mind.

Maybe what I need is a therapist

Chad cry’s in front of his gf

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

They’ll get turned off and you are supposed to be the leader you can’t really cry

u are talking like im not the fucking leader in every other aspect of the relationship

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

I personally can handle my own problems so there’s no need to vent and also I don’t even cry alone so

thats on you tho, Its obvious you are not gonna cry infront of your girlfriend if its not on you to cry.

Literally seen girls of all type romanticize the idea of marrying a masculine guy and them crying when they are about to marry them

 

[Hess]

Ive opened up with my girl but im never going to cry infront of her

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

If you want her to leave then cry

I am being genuine my guy, on my mother it is fr.

i swear im imagining you like alain delon himself and im crying of happyness everytime i see a message from you. u the goat

 

[SoundnVision]

i swear im imagining you like alain delon himself and im crying of happyness everytime i see a message from you. u the goat

Yes fella

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

I personally can handle my own problems so there’s no need to vent and also I don’t even cry alone so

i also can handle my own problems but sometimes i need time to solve them, and in the meantime i would love to have someone to talk about it. I hardly ever cry, even when i want i cant physically

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

i swear im imagining you like alain delon himself and im crying of happyness everytime i see a message from you. u the goat

Im not alain but its okay my dude, you can cry infront of her, thats more masculine than hiding your emotions because you are afraid of showing emotions.

Thanks brah, u the goat too.

 

[DrRodger]

I know broski i know, but for instance, right now i want to cry and i have nobody and any person would be great

Don't ever show too much emotion to a girl especially, you'll regret it

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

Ive opened up with my girl but im never going to cry infront of her

u think she accepted u?

 

[Hess]

u think she accepted u?

Considering I can tell she is still very much attracted to me and we are both in love todsy still yes

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

Im not alain but its okay my dude, you can cry infront of her, thats more masculine than hiding your emotions because you are afraid of showing emotions.

Thanks brah, u the goat too.

I hope you do great in life and ascend to your full potential, good luck ignacio

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

Considering I can tell she is still very much attracted to me and we are both in love todsy still yes

u think if u cry in front of her because mental problems she will care?

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

Don't ever show too much emotion to a girl especially, you'll regret

i already know, happened to me

 

[milkshake_addict]

dont the second you do that the relationship isnt gonna be the same anymore and it hs way more cons than pros

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

I was thinking about my feelings, and like any other person I have my shit like feeling unlovable, low self-esteem, dismorphy, heartbroken,etc.

And one thought crossed my mind, it was me venting on my hypothetical gf. The thing is, even if I feel bad with myself and a desire to cry or vent my emotions on her, considering we are in a LTR and im good looking (low htn 5'11), should I do this and vent her and cry in her arms or keep these things inside me?

I would feel relieved but I dont know if that is going to give her the ick or make me less masculine or whatever happens in a foid mind.

Maybe what I need is a therapist

You gotta space it out and only do it when it really matters to you

 

[Hess]

u think if u cry in front of her because mental problems she will care?

I think women in general are instinctually repulsed by thay so rsther not test my luck, a man shouldnt cry in front of anyone anyway

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

dont the second you do that the relationship isnt gonna be the same anymore and it hs way more cons than pros

False, you can't be strong if you aren't occasionally weak.

But it has to be well chosen

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

I think women in general are instinctually repulsed by thay so rsther not test my luck, a man shouldnt cry in front of anyone anyway

Women are repulsed by face and bloated gymcels

Behavior doesn't even register for them

 

[Chainsaw-HTN-Man]

dont the second you do that the relationship isnt gonna be the same anymore and it hs way more cons than pros

and what if i only vent and i dont cry?

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

I hope you do great in life and ascend to your full potential, good luck ignacio

thank you brother same for you.

 

[milkshake_addict]

False, you can't be strong if you aren't occasionally weak.

But it has to be well chosen

true but it still isnt worth it if i can tell this is probs a highschool relationship and it will be brought up if they split

and what if i only vent and i dont cry?

depends if you have a good relationship if you do vent but be selective and dont go way too deep into your problems