SamosaChutneyCel
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Am I the only one just sick and tired of this. I can't go onto tikok without girls my race literally making trends on how they want to be white acting like no one wants desi girls when that's not even true. I just try to go on desi tiktok and there's videos online saying every brown girl wanted to be blonde and blue eyed like I'm sorry but who? Saying it that maybe it was your own experience is one thing but saying all of us experienced that is just weird and I grew up in a white rural area. If u think being blonde and blue eyes mean u will automatically mean ur life will be easy is far from the truth and I know preety white girls who are 20 and never went on dates. If u think they don't get rejected now and then that's insane. And whenever any woc who shares my thought online mention it their immediately attacked saying we are invalidating their experience. Which is ironic especially when they say every brown girl experienced or shit like that's invalidating our experience. And do u know that non desis see that cuz those types of posts get so much attention ofc and translate that into real life. I'll legit had white ask me if I wanted to be white and I tell them no and they get surprised. If u think those posts will make us look better it won't it makes us look desperate, bitter and jealous. I never felt insecure ab being a desi until I seen creators my race act like we are inherently ugly. And the girl from never gave I ever going on ab how it's always the white girls getting chosen on tv. Girl there was no diversity for either men or women of color in Hollywood until now, white people were the majority in the USA for a while it's not that surprising but indian movies exist like. Funny thing is I know desi girls like this irl, one bashes desi men and only go for white dudes and one never even talks to her crushes. Like stop crashing over the fact that ur crush likes someone non desi. 9 times out of ten they like each other cuz they click better, have similar interests and hobbies imagine getting rejected once and immediately blaming your race for it christ. The save europa group literally cream at those videos. Desi girls who aren confident and have a personality have great time irl. Okay but fr even if they looked better than us what are u gonna do? Rcta? I'd say just live life than whining ab it. And if a rascist guy doesn't like u, you should be celebrating for dodging a bullet. And so many desi girls feel this way and I just refuse to be friends them cuz they project their insecurities on to me. I style my hair whatever way I want and they be like wow I didn't it would look good on desi girls and I feel ironically less insecure around white people as a result
