Dad issues

[Ereh.dv]

M16

My relationship with my father got alot of issues, What I mean is ever since I was a kid I've always started distancing myself from him for a couple of reasons.

When we got into an heated argument he wouldn't hold himself back, sometimes he would hit back like punch or kick. That's not the only reason I've grown distant from him, Towards my whole life I felt like there has been visible favouritism towards my younger siblings. Spending time with them much more you get and I've seen how he has been treating my mom pretty sure he was trying to cheat on her I dont know the full story on that one, but that has added alot towards that ongoing hatred towards him.

All of that really took a toll on my mental health and just growing up over all and I can't even bring myself to call him dad when needing to call him. But why I'm even making this paragraph is for the best few months he's been trying to act nicer I think or trying to get closer to me which I've still haven't given in yet, Because I can't bring myself to like him neither want too. What I mean is, He's been trying to ask about my grades, Not fighting with me,trying to hang out with me you get it.

What I wanna ask is, should I give him another chance?

 

[Deleted member 288009]

Yes. I think if hes making an effort you should give him a second chance.

 

[Clqs]

Nig got daddy issues

 

[hello kitty]

M16

My relationship with my father got alot of issues, What I mean is ever since I was a kid I've always started distancing myself from him for a couple of reasons.

When we got into an heated argument he wouldn't hold himself back, sometimes he would hit back like punch or kick. That's not the only reason I've grown distant from him, Towards my whole life I felt like there has been visible favouritism towards my younger siblings. Spending time with them much more you get and I've seen how he has been treating my mom pretty sure he was trying to cheat on her I dont know the full story on that one, but that has added alot towards that ongoing hatred towards him.

All of that really took a toll on my mental health and just growing up over all and I can't even bring myself to call him dad when needing to call him. But why I'm even making this paragraph is for the best few months he's been trying to act nicer I think or trying to get closer to me which I've still haven't given in yet, Because I can't bring myself to like him neither want too. What I mean is, He's been trying to ask about my grades, Not fighting with me,trying to hang out with me you get it.

What I wanna ask is, should I give him another chance?

fatherless here. kill that nigga.

 

[Ereh.dv]

Nig got daddy issues

Nigga got #womenpower in his #

 

[Ereh.dv]

Yes. I think if hes making an effort you should give him a second chance.

Its really hard for me to even look at him without feeling some sort of hatred I dont think I can do anything else besides being less mean when talking to him

 

[Deleted member 288009]

Its really hard for me to even look at him without feeling some sort of hatred I dont think I can do anything else besides being less mean when talking to him

Its going to be a long process rebuilding your relationship with him, but its worth having a good connection to your father

 

[Ereh.dv]

Its going to be a long process rebuilding your relationship with him, but its worth having a good connection to your father

I'll do my best to even get the word dad when calling him

 

[Ereh.dv]

Its going to be a long process rebuilding your relationship with him, but its worth having a good connection to your father

An update: Today my father came to my room and said we needed to talk, He said that the social worker I got weekly meetings with had told him what I told the social worker. So my father told me that the social worker (Nickname D) Had told him that I said I dont really care he had gone through surgery and that I don't wanna strengthen our distant relationship, And he told me that he didn't know what he did to make me feel hatred towards him and I was just denying and request to open to my father and so he said, I think that I know it started a few years ago when me and my sibling had fought and I pushed him and my father came towards me and kicked me in the stomach and I said yes and kept quiet and kept saying that he's sorry and he wants things to change and that he's trying to get closer to me and he said that sometimes he opens my room while I'm asleep and he said he wants to hug me I think but then he goes to the balcony and cries or something and so I just kept quiet and I almost shed tears for some reason I dont even know why. but I kept them in to stay strong and not weak and so he went up after I kept quiet he said he loves me and that he's sorry and left.

 

[DrRodger]

Dnr

 

[Ereh.dv]

Dnr

Dnr yet you feel the need to comment what a genuine retard