Dad said: "if you take female members of the family they would want to spend as much as possible on restaurants, souvenirs, clothes and 4 star hotels"

[Xangsane]

To be fair when we went as a family we'd stay either with family or in large deluxe 4 star hotel rooms. Going with dad alone typically meant staying in hostels.

 

[Xangsane]

@Enfant terrible

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Buddy u need to explore the world. Go on some holidays on your own or with a close friend, spend some well-earned money on yourself.

 

[Bojack]

fek that nigguh they're going to the 1 star hotel w ith me

 

[Xangsane]

Buddy u need to explore the world. Go on some holidays on your own or with a close friend, spend some well-earned money on yourself.

Dad: "I think you shouldn't waste your money on a holiday. Put it towards a home instead"

I was attempting to book a flight to Tokyo (stopover in Seoul via Istanbul) but Dad walked in my bedroom and sat down, and said I've worked very hard with keeping and maintaining my savings for the last 2 and a half years and not spending a thing, and it would be disappointing to drop the money...

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[Deleted member 17578]

Dad: "I think you shouldn't waste your money on a holiday. Put it towards a home instead"

I was attempting to book a flight to Tokyo (stopover in Seoul via Istanbul) but Dad walked in my bedroom and sat down, and said I've worked very hard with keeping and maintaining my savings for the last 2 and a half years and not spending a thing, and it would be disappointing to drop the money...

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Idiotic advice from your dad tbh

 

[Xangsane]

Idiotic advice from your dad tbh

Why?
When I go overseas I always like small company.

 

[Deleted member 27729]

Are you from a country where consumerism is high ?

 

[Xangsane]

Are you from a country where consumerism is high ?

UK

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Why?
When I go overseas I always like small company.

going on holidays when you are young is not a waste of money. You need to explore who you are, what you like and get new experiences that might alter how you see the world.

Wasting that opportunity and going for a down-payment for a house is absolutely dumb as fuck. Don't listen to your dad

 

[Deleted member 27729]

UK

Yeah it's a country with high consumerism altough not as severe as in the U.S

 

[Gonthar]

To be fair when we went as a family we'd stay either with family or in large deluxe 4 star hotel rooms. Going with dad alone typically meant staying in hostels.

Why?

 

[mortis]

 

[Xangsane]

Why?

Cheaper. Dad believes taking female family members on holidays mean staying in more expensive hotels for their safety whereas two men = travel cheaper and rougher (if not staying with family).

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

Buddy u need to explore the world. Go on some holidays on your own or with a close friend, spend some well-earned money on yourself.

Aren't you a 28 year old neet that is still stuck on doing his bachelors and in 60k debt?

But good on you for still providing financial advice to other mentally ill subhumans

 

[Xangsane]

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Would

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah it's a country with high consumerism altough not as severe as in the U.S

My mum spends a lot JFL. Sometimes she asks me or dad to give her money to spend because "she sees good bargains".

 

[mortis]

Would

 

[Deleted member 27729]

My mum spends a lot JFL. Sometimes she asks me or dad to give her money to spend because "she sees good bargains".

Damn that sucks , consumerism is rough on the wallet

 

[Xangsane]

going on holidays when you are young is not a waste of money. You need to explore who you are, what you like and get new experiences that might alter how you see the world.

I did go on trips abroad often as a kid, but most of the time we'd stay with family members. That one time we went as a family to Canada we had to stay at a 4 star hotel as we don't have known family members there. When I'm with dad alone as a party of two men I stayed at hostels.

Wasting that opportunity and going for a down-payment for a house is absolutely dumb as fuck. Don't listen to your dad

Why not?

 

[Xangsane]

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[thereallegend]

Idiotic advice from your dad tbh

while arabs are thinking bout muh generational wealth, whites are snorting ketamine with jbs. brutal!

 

[Gonthar]

Cheaper. Dad believes taking female family members on holidays mean staying in more expensive hotels for their safety whereas two men = travel cheaper and rougher (if not staying with family).

He swindled you, why doesn't he try to sell the same bullshit story to the female family members...Ohhh, wait! He knows they won't buy his crap!

 

[Deleted member 17578]

while arabs are thinking bout muh generational wealth, whites are snorting ketamine with jbs. brutal!

For real though.

U could get into a traffic accident next week, or get serious health issues 1 year from now. Enjoying the present is more important than holding out for the future.

Snorting ketamine with JBs has been the best experience I've had in a LONG time. It keeps me from roping ngl, knowing that there is still stuff out there that is this amazing.

 

[mecha72]

trusting women with money is retarded my sister got a job at 14 and blew over 3 thousand dollars shopping for useless plushies and shit on amazon

 

[Xangsane]

trusting women with money is retarded my sister got a job at 14 and blew over 3 thousand dollars shopping for useless plushies and shit on amazon

Why?

 

[mecha72]

Why?

They don’t think about the future as much as they won’t have to support a family like a man and women are always the biggest consumers they see it they want it

 

[Gonthar]

Your dad doesn't respect you if he cheapens out on you. You need to tell him "Bros before hoes!"

 

[Whatashame]

To be fair when we went as a family we'd stay either with family or in large deluxe 4 star hotel rooms. Going with dad alone typically meant staying in hostels.

I think your dad is right and would advise the same to my son. Anyways its good that you have the money so independent of what you choose theres benefits. What you did in the end?