Dad won’t let me get surgery

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I’ll never be able to fix my subhuman eyes, he won’t let me do surgery even with my own money, saying he will kick me out of the house if I try to do it

No motivation for anything now, was getting lifefuel from the thought I could maybe one day fix it

Need to cope or else I’m gonna kill my self I can’t look at the my eyes in the mirror
 
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Why does he not want you to get it. How old are you
 
My parents gaslight me
 
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Maybe try to fix everything around the eyes to maximize appeal without having to get surgery. Atleast you can cope for now till you can move out and get surgery later when you're a bit older.
 
haha said:
18, says he’s scared it goes wrong
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are you going to college? is he going to pay for it? How much longer are you dependent on him

Also is he unhappy you are unhappy with your apperance as well?

Also what surgery you getting
 
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slop slinger said:
are you going to college? is he going to pay for it? How much longer are you dependent on him

Also is he unhappy you are unhappy with your apperance as well?

Also what surgery you getting
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Yes, college will be free im pretty sure but I live with him and I depend on it
 
Why did you feel the need to talk to your dad about it ?

Haven't you learned anything here ? First rule of looksmaxxing is don't talk about looksmaxxing.

If you weren't a dumbfuck you would have gaslighted him with a bluepill functional surgery.

Lesson learned : shut the fuck up and ascend in silence.
 
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slop slinger said:
are you going to college? is he going to pay for it? How much longer are you dependent on him

Also is he unhappy you are unhappy with your apperance as well?

Also what surgery you getting
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Lower eye lid retraction but idk if I’ll get it anymore…
 
VenatorLuparius said:
Why did you feel the need to talk to your dad about it ?

Haven't you learned anything here ? First rule of looksmaxxing is don't talk about looksmaxxing.

If you weren't a dumbfuck you would have gaslighted him with a bluepill functional surgery.

Lesson learned : shut the fuck up and ascend in silence.
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How am I supposed to get surgery without him knowing ???
 
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haha said:
Lower eye lid retraction but idk if I’ll get it anymore…
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He probably wouldnt notice a difference if you got it, if you were able to stay away from home at least until the swelling is over
 
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slop slinger said:
He probably wouldnt notice a difference if you got it, if you were able to stay away from home at least until the swelling is over
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How that’s impossible, where will I sleep??

How long does the swelling last ??
 
haha said:
How that’s impossible, where will I sleep??

How long does the swelling last ??
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how are you planning to book this surgery and not know how long the swelling lasts
 
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slop slinger said:
how are you planning to book this surgery and not know how long the swelling lasts
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I know only a bit but haven’t talked to an actual surgeon, me and my dad used to talk that we both didn’t like my dropped eye lid cause it makes me look sad and tried and hungry and he said he’d let me do it but he randomly got home today and started yelling that I’m never gonna do it and if I do it I’ll be fucked etc etc
 
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I feel for you brother.

I CAN'T FUCKING UNDERSTAND AND ABSOLUTELY HATE IT WHEN CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE BLUEPILLED AND AGAINST ANY CHANGES FOR THE BETTER.

Bluepilled Cucks, they have no idea of how blind they are.
 
Can you pm your eyes?
 
Lord&Master said:
I feel for you brother.

I CAN'T FUCKING UNDERSTAND AND ABSOLUTELY HATE IT WHEN CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE BLUEPILLED AND AGAINST ANY CHANGES FOR THE BETTER.

Bluepilled Cucks, they have no idea of how blind they are.
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What now?
 
haha said:
What now?
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You have to manipulate him into doing so.

Start making him believe you're going to genuinely have suicidal thoughts unless he allows you
 
Krakowski said:
What do they tell you?
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They say I don't need to fix my overbite and narrow palate because "it's not noticable" and literally just tell me to talk to some nice girls:feelsgood:
 
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finnarope said:
They say I don't need to fix my overbite and narrow palate because "it's not noticable" and literally just tell me to talk to some nice girls:feelsgood:
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Brutal
 
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Lord&Master said:
You have to manipulate him into doing so.

Start making him believe you're going to genuinely have suicidal thoughts unless he allows you
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Surely gonna end well
 
Lord&Master said:
You have to manipulate him into doing so.

Start making him believe you're going to genuinely have suicidal thoughts unless he allows you
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How can I manipulate him?
 
haha said:
How can I manipulate him?
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Act sad and indifferent around him.

Start leaving random papers around hinting at the fact that you hate your life and want to end it all.

If he goes into your room sometimes, go on your computer, search up "Least painful way to die" on your browser and leave it wide open for him to see. Act embarrassed when he mentions it to you
 
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Lord&Master said:
Act sad and indifferent around him.

Start leaving random papers around hinting at the fact that you hate your life and want to end it all.

If he goes into your room sometimes, go on your computer, search up "Least painful way to die" on your browser and leave it wide open for him to see. Act embarrassed when he mentions it to you
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That’s brutal man are you trolling or serious
 
haha said:
That’s brutal man are you trolling or serious
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If this option is too much for you, get the surgery anyway.

Claim to your father you got into a fight. Tell him the swelling is making your eyelid seem normal JFL.

You can even fake it somehow if he's that skeptical.
 
Lord&Master said:
If this option is too much for you, get the surgery anyway.

Claim to your father you got into a fight. Tell him the swelling is making your eyelid seem normal JFL.

You can even fake it somehow if he's that skeptical.
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I live with him, sleep every night in his house how can I fake something so brutal
 
Just look up make up tutorials on youtube for a black eye.
 
haha said:
I live with him, sleep every night in his house how can I fake something so brutal
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I really doubt he will kick you out even if he finds out.

It's always a bluff. Don't fall for it.

Assuming he is not a psychopath, he will definitely either kick you out, but tell you to come back eventually,
or not kick you out at all but scold the fuck out of you.
 
Whztv
 
VenatorLuparius said:
Why did you feel the need to talk to your dad about it ?

Haven't you learned anything here ? First rule of looksmaxxing is don't talk about looksmaxxing.

If you weren't a dumbfuck you would have gaslighted him with a bluepill functional surgery.

Lesson learned : shut the fuck up and ascend in silence.
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Yeah maybe you don't live with your parents but the modern UK system is expensive and they don't allow you to spend it on none cope things there fine with sub human copes like vedio and eating like shit but care about your looks and your offending them personally
 
Send a picture of your eyes First of all. Then you Need to know parents are just overcaring. They might be blackpilled as well, but they just love you for the Person who are. You should appreciate tha, because the world will judge you and sometimes dont respect yo for who you are. Maybe I would wait and then do surgery, when you dont live there anymor. I cant promise you but I think it is a empty threat. He will still love you and let you live in their hous. However i dont know your dad and your relationship
 
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haha said:
I’ll never be able to fix my subhuman eyes, he won’t let me do surgery even with my own money, saying he will kick me out of the house if I try to do it

No motivation for anything now, was getting lifefuel from the thought I could maybe one day fix it

Need to cope or else I’m gonna kill my self I can’t look at the my eyes in the mirror
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Your parents are the ones that should be paying and getting the surgery for you, cause they caused it.
 
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your dad Is right you're already a chad you don't Need any surgery, you can't improve anything as you're a god
 
Just focus on getting good grades so you don't have to wage slave in mcdonalds.
Then once you got a good job move out and get the surgery.

In reality you shouldn't of told your dad anything about it, just act like you're not going to get it now but save up for it.
 
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