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I am 15 she's 13. I am like 178 cm she is like 155 cm.
I met her on instagram and she agreed to a date. ( giga surprised that she showed up.)
I came up behind her as she was talking to a female friend of her. Kinda like a stalker. She likes dexter and the mentalist. (kinda stalkish movies)
We chatted about school, hobbies and passions. I was surprised about how comunicative she was. She would make up stuff when we were in an awkward moment of no talking.
She bought herself a lemonade for like 1.2 euros.
I paid like 2 euros from some tokens on arcade games.
Here comes the bad parts and my giga autism kicking in
When we were walking and talking she would literally make almost no eye contact. I swear. We would be sitting on a bench and she would look forward and talk to me.. WTF.... We would be walking forward and she wouldn't look at me either... Surely my face can't be that unattractive. I see myself in the mirror and selfies and I always look good. Could it be that IRL my face is assymetrical? Maybe she was anxious af. I literally have no idea.
I tried to count shoulders with her. She said that she knows about it. I asked if I should try it and I got aired.
At the end I got a hug so lowkey shit might not be that bad.
MISTAKE I REALIZED THE NEXT DAY..... MOST AUTISTIC RESPONSE EVER..... She said that 3 pakistanis were following her. Maybe it was a test. I was already way gone by then so obviously I couldn't do anything about it. My responses didn't show any concern about her situation. It was broad daylight and my city has a very low crime rate
Our messages are kinda dry. Maybe I'll invite her to another date and break the touch barrier? As the older person I defenitly should have tried a little more but I was genuinely anxious and my counting shoulders attempt went bad.
Thanks for reading.
I met her on instagram and she agreed to a date. ( giga surprised that she showed up.)
I came up behind her as she was talking to a female friend of her. Kinda like a stalker. She likes dexter and the mentalist. (kinda stalkish movies)
We chatted about school, hobbies and passions. I was surprised about how comunicative she was. She would make up stuff when we were in an awkward moment of no talking.
She bought herself a lemonade for like 1.2 euros.
I paid like 2 euros from some tokens on arcade games.
Here comes the bad parts and my giga autism kicking in
When we were walking and talking she would literally make almost no eye contact. I swear. We would be sitting on a bench and she would look forward and talk to me.. WTF.... We would be walking forward and she wouldn't look at me either... Surely my face can't be that unattractive. I see myself in the mirror and selfies and I always look good. Could it be that IRL my face is assymetrical? Maybe she was anxious af. I literally have no idea.
I tried to count shoulders with her. She said that she knows about it. I asked if I should try it and I got aired.
At the end I got a hug so lowkey shit might not be that bad.
MISTAKE I REALIZED THE NEXT DAY..... MOST AUTISTIC RESPONSE EVER..... She said that 3 pakistanis were following her. Maybe it was a test. I was already way gone by then so obviously I couldn't do anything about it. My responses didn't show any concern about her situation. It was broad daylight and my city has a very low crime rate
Our messages are kinda dry. Maybe I'll invite her to another date and break the touch barrier? As the older person I defenitly should have tried a little more but I was genuinely anxious and my counting shoulders attempt went bad.
Thanks for reading.
