Dateapps and online validation is a meme in the end

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I know I've done a lot of experiments on dating apps, but everything online is incredibly fake. In real life, that's your real competition. Getting compliments online doesn't mean anything, tbh, especially because everything is so artificial. Online compliments are more derived from herd mentality and the heat of the moment behind a screen than from real feelings. 90% are incredibly fake, and women online are extremely needy. Let's say you get a compliment online, but you go to meet a girl in real life, and there are two white, blue-eyed htns with the Tom Selleck archetype who moggle you to death, and out of nowhere she'll see you're mediocre. The date might end, but nothing will happen in the end because she's already compared you to a bigger fish. Real-life competition is what really dictates things, and if there's one thing I've learned, you can't compete against white guys above or within the htn range in real life as an ethnic, especially if the white guy is tall and blue-eyed. I swear to God, being in the presence of a guy... So, it's really disturbing because they look like fucking superheroes.
 
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especially if the white guy is tall and blue-eyed. I swear to God, being in the presence of a guy... So, it's really disturbing because they look like fucking superheroes.
Yes ik a guy who has a recessed chin with a big nose but he's blonde with curly hair and has blue eyes so he still pulls a lot.
 
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Yes ik a guy who is recessed with a big nose but he's blonde with curly hair and has blue eyes so he still pulls a lot.
Everything online is fake because no one is really focused on the face; for example, a guy with "drip" might have high SMV online, but when he shows up for the date in real life and she sees his face clearly, no amount of drip is going to save him, that’s what I mean.
 
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Everything online is fake because no one is really focused on the face; for example, a guy with "drip" might have high SMV online, but when he shows up for the date in real life and she sees his face clearly, no amount of drip is going to save him, that’s what I mean.
Like gorilla 68
 
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