DATING APPS HAVE RUINED THE ABILITY TO DATE/FIND A QUALITY WOMAN

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We are seeing a huge change in the dating marketplace. A few years ago I didn't have any dating apps at all. I would just go out to the bars and approach women with my friends. Although this wasn't easy and we got rejected it never affected our mental state like dating apps did. In the past we would just go out on the weekend approach women, we met some that wanted to hookup the same night, some that would give out their number and we would go on dates, and some that rejected us. But someone the whole experience felt healthier, being social IRL talking to women and making genuine connections.

Dating was something we did on the weekends, during the week we would focus on other things. After OLD came out I became addicted to the apps, swiping messaging etc all day long constantly checking my phone. This is definitely not healthy.

Fast forward 2024 and now we see that bars and clubs are totally dead. I still remember a few years ago seeing multiple makeouts at any bar at 12 AM. Now I barely see any. In fact I barely see any men even approaching women. ITS ALL DATING APPS NOW. And guess who benefits from dating apps? ALL WOMEN and the top 2% Chads.

Its truly over if you're a sub Chadlite and want to meet a nice girl nowadays.

EVEN IF YOU DO GET AN LTR, the girl will have IG and dating apps and if even one DM comes from a man that has something you don't she'll be done with you.

@6ft4 @Heatmiser @forevergymcelling @Xangsane @ercan @EliteMewing
 
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kill the founders
 
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Even as someone that benefited from dating apps (I got 80% of my laycount from them) now that I want a LTR its almost impossible to find one through dating apps
 
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Most of what you are saying is true.

But in reality you probably just went on a streak of a bad luck, ran into some AI bots and wannabe OF models advertising their social media, and if you continue you'll see something like your previous results once your luck comes back.
 
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kill the founders
Capitalism has infested everything in the west inlcuding dating. Now we are nothing more than products on display, women comb through these products and will reject them even if they find the slightest defect. Because they have 1000+ options
 
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Most of what you are saying is true.

But in reality you probably just went on a streak of a bad luck, ran into some AI bots and wannabe OF models advertising their social media, and if you continue you'll see something like your previous results once your luck comes back.
I know but Im not talking about myself I'm saying that finding a quality, low bodycount, feminine woman is nearly impossible nowadays because of dating apps and social media. Dating apps have weaponized hypergamy to the extent where even if you mog the girl in LTR she will always look for something better

Of the hundreds of dates I went on from OLD, probably 1% were feminine and trad women probably less tbh
 
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its so oever
 



We are seeing a huge change in the dating marketplace. A few years ago I didn't have any dating apps at all. I would just go out to the bars and approach women with my friends. Although this wasn't easy and we got rejected it never affected our mental state like dating apps did. In the past we would just go out on the weekend approach women, we met some that wanted to hookup the same night, some that would give out their number and we would go on dates, and some that rejected us. But someone the whole experience felt healthier, being social IRL talking to women and making genuine connections.

Dating was something we did on the weekends, during the week we would focus on other things. After OLD came out I became addicted to the apps, swiping messaging etc all day long constantly checking my phone. This is definitely not healthy.

Fast forward 2024 and now we see that bars and clubs are totally dead. I still remember a few years ago seeing multiple makeouts at any bar at 12 AM. Now I barely see any. In fact I barely see any men even approaching women. ITS ALL DATING APPS NOW. And guess who benefits from dating apps? ALL WOMEN and the top 2% Chads.

Its truly over if you're a sub Chadlite and want to meet a nice girl nowadays.

EVEN IF YOU DO GET AN LTR, the girl will have IG and dating apps and if even one DM comes from a man that has something you don't she'll be done with you.

@6ft4 @Heatmiser @forevergymcelling @Xangsane @ercan @EliteMewing

Do you think if i geomax approaching would still work like in Asia
 
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Do you think if i geomax approaching would still work like in Asia
Colombia Brazil LATAM is where I'm going to move brother bc I like Latinas. Eastern Europe and Asia are still good. It's time to leave western women behind
 
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At this point, one has fill the foid. We all reach a stage where all this stuff seems out of reach.

Find something to replace LTRs. That's the only way.

A decent cope would be a hobby that keeps your mind/body active and doesn't cost too much time or money.

That's the only way "solution"

It's over but not really "over" iykwim.

Healthy copes are all there is in the 21st century.
 
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I know but Im not talking about myself I'm saying that finding a quality, low bodycount, feminine woman is nearly impossible nowadays because of dating apps and social media. Dating apps have weaponized hypergamy to the extent where even if you mog the girl in LTR she will always look for something better

Of the hundreds of dates I went on from OLD, probably 1% were feminine and trad women probably less tbh
all foids are whores for gigachads tbh theres nothing we can do
 
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At this point, one has fill the foid. We all reach a stage where all this stuff seems out of reach.

Find something to replace LTRs. That's the only way.

A decent cope would be a hobby that keeps your mind/body active and doesn't cost too much time or money.

That's the only way "solution"

It's over but not really "over" iykwim.

Healthy copes are all there is in the 21st century.
gigatrue all we can do is try to cope in peace
 
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At this point, one has fill the foid. We all reach a stage where all this stuff seems out of reach.

Find something to replace LTRs. That's the only way.

A decent cope would be a hobby that keeps your mind/body active and doesn't cost too much time or money.

That's the only way "solution"

It's over but not really "over" iykwim.

Healthy copes are all there is in the 21st century.
I refuse to give up on my goals of finding a feminine LTR. I have ottoman blood I'll do whatever it takes
 
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all foids are whores for gigachads tbh theres nothing we can do
Even obese women are chasing billionaire 6'5 gigachads in 2024. I still remember seeing Tik toks of the 6'5 blue eyes meme and amny of them were subhuman women there was one that was like a fat asian girl prob 4/10
 
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Even obese women are chasing billionaire 6'5 gigachads in 2024. I still remember seeing Tik toks of the 6'5 blue eyes meme and amny of them were subhuman women there was one that was like a fat asian girl prob 4/10
i know bro ive been saying that but they called me schizo
its not like what it was even just 2 years ago
hypergamy has reached its limit
 
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My best friend told me "It doesn't matter if you're black or white, short or tall, rich or poor - ALL MEN ARE AT A DISADVANTAGE IN THE WEST"
 
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quality women aren't on dating apps.
 
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i know bro ive been saying that but they called me schizo
its not like what it was even just 2 years ago
hypergamy has reached its limit
You are not shizo....If you are then I should be in a mental asylum
 
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quality women aren't on dating apps.
Then where are they?? I live in America brother all women are on dating apps
 
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Most women don't use dating apps and a lot of the ones that do just use it for validation.
 
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Most women don't use dating apps and a lot of the ones that do just use it for validation.
The MOST FRUSTERATING thing is that I would match with countless HTB and stacylite that would just ghost after 1-2 messages even if THEY opened me first or they would ghost over text
 
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The MOST FRUSTERATING thing is that I would match with countless HTB and stacylite that would just ghost after 1-2 messages even if THEY opened me first or they would ghost over text
Don't take it the wrong way, they were never serious to begin with, they just are attention seekers looking for validation. Foids are actually emotional as fuck they get a massive dopamine hit knowing she has a simp army every time she gets a like on a dating app
 
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Legit
Despite finally getting my dating app profile to a level where I match with a lot of the girls I swipe right on (only swipe right on girls Im genuinely attracted to) I cant get them to meet

At least with clubs you dedicate like 4 hours a week of mental capacity to it and you either get a slay or you dont, whereas with apps the investment is dragged out 24/7 and works as a constant distraction and constant reminder that you feel lightyears away from an actual meetup despite girls giving you maybes about meeting up

In a club even if you dont slay you at least get some dopamine release in the moment where youre interacting with a foid and are unsure which way its gonna go.
While messaging foids you dont get any of that
 
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Then where are they?? I live in America brother all women are on dating apps
they meet their partners on social events (network) and work (high degree)
 
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they meet their partners on social events (network) and work (high degree)
Agree tbh but if you don’t have social circle it’s impossible
 
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Legit
Despite finally getting my dating app profile to a level where I match with a lot of the girls I swipe right on (only swipe right on girls Im genuinely attracted to) I cant get them to meet

At least with clubs you dedicate like 4 hours a week of mental capacity to it and you either get a slay or you dont, whereas with apps the investment is dragged out 24/7 and works as a constant distraction and constant reminder that you feel lightyears away from an actual meetup despite girls giving you maybes about meeting up

In a club even if you dont slay you at least get some dopamine release in the moment where youre interacting with a foid and are unsure which way its gonna go.
While messaging foids you dont get any of that
I couldn’t have said it better brother
 
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We are seeing a huge change in the dating marketplace. A few years ago I didn't have any dating apps at all. I would just go out to the bars and approach women with my friends. Although this wasn't easy and we got rejected it never affected our mental state like dating apps did. In the past we would just go out on the weekend approach women, we met some that wanted to hookup the same night, some that would give out their number and we would go on dates, and some that rejected us. But someone the whole experience felt healthier, being social IRL talking to women and making genuine connections.

Dating was something we did on the weekends, during the week we would focus on other things. After OLD came out I became addicted to the apps, swiping messaging etc all day long constantly checking my phone. This is definitely not healthy.

Fast forward 2024 and now we see that bars and clubs are totally dead. I still remember a few years ago seeing multiple makeouts at any bar at 12 AM. Now I barely see any. In fact I barely see any men even approaching women. ITS ALL DATING APPS NOW. And guess who benefits from dating apps? ALL WOMEN and the top 2% Chads.

Its truly over if you're a sub Chadlite and want to meet a nice girl nowadays.

EVEN IF YOU DO GET AN LTR, the girl will have IG and dating apps and if even one DM comes from a man that has something you don't she'll be done with you.

@6ft4 @Heatmiser @forevergymcelling @Xangsane @ercan @EliteMewing

@Amnesia
 
its the opposite bars and clubs arent dead , dating apps are actually starting to take a decline since most women are purley on their for attention seeking etc and most men arent chads so do you really think that normies and sub chads are actually getting anything on OLD?
 
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its the opposite bars and clubs arent dead , dating apps are actually starting to take a decline since most women are purley on their for attention seeking etc and most men arent chads so do you really think that normies and sub chads are actually getting anything on OLD?
So basically dating apps are dying bars are dying and girls are gravitating towards social circle
 
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its the opposite bars and clubs arent dead , dating apps are actually starting to take a decline since most women are purley on their for attention seeking etc and most men arent chads so do you really think that normies and sub chads are actually getting anything on OLD?
What percentage of women on OLD do you think are looking to meet someone?
 
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So basically dating apps are dying bars are dying and girls are gravitating towards social circle
I am afraid so brother, or right place right time is indeed law .
 
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I am afraid so brother, or right place right time is indeed law .
Right place right time is EVERYTHING. Hardest pill for me to swallow bht that’s why you see normies with HTB
 
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What percentage of women on OLD do you think are looking to meet someone?
I cant say an exact number but i reckon its quite low , the % goes higher the more gl u are but even then you’re pictures have to be nt on point as well
 
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Just go away and Talk to Girls lol IS that easy
 
Colombia Brazil LATAM is where I'm going to move brother bc I like Latinas. Eastern Europe and Asia are still good. It's time to leave western women behind
dont come to Brazil hypergamy in big cities here is insane and absolutely zero loyal women, i bet its even worse them were you live. when i say zero i mean zero, its easier to get a taken women here them fucking singles
 
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I cant say an exact number but i reckon its quite low , the % goes higher the more gl u are but even then you’re pictures have to be nt on point as well
So if you’re htn it’s over
 
ITS ALL DATING APPS NOW. And guess who benefits from dating apps? ALL WOMEN and the top 2% Chads.
I wholeheartedly agree on everything you stated besides this sentence.

Sex and female attention get boring and cheap very, very quickly and becomes an addiction which eats your soul.
Women hate (beyond words) getting pumped and dumped. It eats their soul alive.

Nobody wins in the end.
 
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@enchanted_elixir Curious to hear your take
 
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I wholeheartedly agree on everything you stated besides this sentence.

Sex and female attention get boring and cheap very, very quickly and becomes an addiction which eats your soul.
Women hate (beyond words) getting pumped and dumped. It eats their soul alive.

Nobody wins in the end.
I pumped and dumped many women that wanted LTR with me. Many of them told they liked me and I just ghosted them without any explanation. Why should I be nice if they aren’t?

Everybtibt they did to me I did it right back to them
 
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I wholeheartedly agree on everything you stated besides this sentence.

Sex and female attention get boring and cheap very, very quickly and becomes an addiction which eats your soul.
Women hate (beyond words) getting pumped and dumped. It eats their soul alive.

Nobody wins in the end.
How are chads not benefiting bro
 
How are chads not benefiting bro
They get sex, yes.
But most chads (which don't go into LTRs) just turn into sex addicts because their brains are fried due to female attention and access overload.
 
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They get sex, yes.
But most chads (which don't go into LTRs) just turn into sex addicts because their brains are fried due to female attention and access overload.
What percentage of men do you consider Chad?
 
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