SharpOrange
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Dating is just as terrible at age 20 as it is at age 30. At best, you just deal with different problems.
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I swear, people who think dating in one’s early 20s is less difficult live in a fantasy.
Just to immediately list the problems:
You're dealing with people with unhealed childhood traumas.
Similarly, you're dealing with people’s untreated/undiagnosed mental illnesses.
Situationships happening more often.
Situationships happening because people are learning what they want, what they don’t want, boundaries, etc.
In a nutshell, less likely to understand/detect red flags.
The common complaints I hear about people dating nearing or after 30 is kids and baggage. It’s very weird seeing people act like only people in their 30s have baggage. Not only does that sound extremely sheltered, but that sounds like someone who doesn’t touch grass. And most people have standards that go beyond “no kids,” so wanting to deal with an awful person just because they are childless says a lot about you.
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At 20 you dont get any girl.
At 30 you get a town hoe slut maybe with a kid
But you dont judge as you dont have options.
Just accept a hoe after being too desperate at age 30
Debate
I swear, people who think dating in one’s early 20s is less difficult live in a fantasy.
Just to immediately list the problems:
You're dealing with people with unhealed childhood traumas.
Similarly, you're dealing with people’s untreated/undiagnosed mental illnesses.
Situationships happening more often.
Situationships happening because people are learning what they want, what they don’t want, boundaries, etc.
In a nutshell, less likely to understand/detect red flags.
The common complaints I hear about people dating nearing or after 30 is kids and baggage. It’s very weird seeing people act like only people in their 30s have baggage. Not only does that sound extremely sheltered, but that sounds like someone who doesn’t touch grass. And most people have standards that go beyond “no kids,” so wanting to deal with an awful person just because they are childless says a lot about you.
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At 20 you dont get any girl.
At 30 you get a town hoe slut maybe with a kid
But you dont judge as you dont have options.Just accept a hoe after being too desperate at age 30
