dating multiple foids is overrated advice

[Deleted member 72469]

It is:

-exhausting
-expensive
-demoralising
-time consuming
-hard keep track of everything you talk about with each girl
-leads to errors since you are likely to treat each girl the same (which is a critical mistake)
-unnecessary to cultivate abundance

Personally, I think it's much better to screen hard and only pursue attractive, high IL women, period. If that means foregoing sex/dates for a while, so be it. I am guilty of having the attitude of "well, maybe she's not an ideal girl to meet, but it's good practice and who knows where it'll go". Or I'd find myself thinking "she's just a backup." I think this sort of mindset is harmful. It can erode your self-confidence to date subpar women anyway beccause in all likelihood, they're more entitled and delusional and straight up toxic.

Related to this discussion is another common piece of bad advice: "don't quit a job without another one lined up". Nah. Unless you have a family to support and are living paycheck to paycheck, or live in a small town with a highly specialized background, I completely disagree. All this does is force you to settle for another subpar job so you can have the "security" to leave your current one. Quitting a job outright without another lined up can bring you a great deal of confidence and it takes balls.

The same can be applied to women. Even if you're only seeing 1 girl, there's absolutely no reason you cannot maintain an abundance mindset and be willing to walk away from her even if you do not have other chicks in your sex roster. True abundance comes from the self-assurance that you know you can find another, better girl.

 

[Swarthy Knight]

As if you experienced this before inkel

 

[Deleted member 6305]

LoL
Everything in life is exhausting

 

[LegitTheory]

having multiple baby mommas isnt.

 

[Brus Wane]

True slayers and players can do this no problem and even excel in it

Just like a grandmaster can play 30 chess games simultaneously and win most of them

People who can't simply aren't good enough... That's all there is to it

 

[SecularIslamist]

Bro you're gonna be in my position so quickly. I think 27 is the last time you can actually say you're in your 20s.

 

[Archimedes]

LOL at caring about the women you date

 

[thereallegend]

Quitting your job to go homeless is retard tier IQ.

Same thing with not maintaining a LTR or FWB.

LTR gap on a resume is the same as an employment gap.

 

[Tusseleif]

Yeah it's exhausting but at the same time it feels so good cuz of validation from multiple foids

 

[kusaila]

It is:

-exhausting
-expensive
-demoralising
-time consuming
-hard keep track of everything you talk about with each girl
-leads to errors since you are likely to treat each girl the same (which is a critical mistake)
-unnecessary to cultivate abundance

Personally, I think it's much better to screen hard and only pursue attractive, high IL women, period. If that means foregoing sex/dates for a while, so be it. I am guilty of having the attitude of "well, maybe she's not an ideal girl to meet, but it's good practice and who knows where it'll go". Or I'd find myself thinking "she's just a backup." I think this sort of mindset is harmful. It can erode your self-confidence to date subpar women anyway beccause in all likelihood, they're more entitled and delusional and straight up toxic.

Related to this discussion is another common piece of bad advice: "don't quit a job without another one lined up". Nah. Unless you have a family to support and are living paycheck to paycheck, or live in a small town with a highly specialized background, I completely disagree. All this does is force you to settle for another subpar job so you can have the "security" to leave your current one. Quitting a job outright without another lined up can bring you a great deal of confidence and it takes balls.

The same can be applied to women. Even if you're only seeing 1 girl, there's absolutely no reason you cannot maintain an abundance mindset and be willing to walk away from her even if you do not have other chicks in your sex roster. True abundance comes from the self-assurance that you know you can find another, better girl.

you talk to women? and not just that but MULTIPLE of them??

 

[Deleted member 87180]

It is:

-exhausting
-expensive
-demoralising
-time consuming
-hard keep track of everything you talk about with each girl
-leads to errors since you are likely to treat each girl the same (which is a critical mistake)
-unnecessary to cultivate abundance

Personally, I think it's much better to screen hard and only pursue attractive, high IL women, period. If that means foregoing sex/dates for a while, so be it. I am guilty of having the attitude of "well, maybe she's not an ideal girl to meet, but it's good practice and who knows where it'll go". Or I'd find myself thinking "she's just a backup." I think this sort of mindset is harmful. It can erode your self-confidence to date subpar women anyway beccause in all likelihood, they're more entitled and delusional and straight up toxic.

Related to this discussion is another common piece of bad advice: "don't quit a job without another one lined up". Nah. Unless you have a family to support and are living paycheck to paycheck, or live in a small town with a highly specialized background, I completely disagree. All this does is force you to settle for another subpar job so you can have the "security" to leave your current one. Quitting a job outright without another lined up can bring you a great deal of confidence and it takes balls.

The same can be applied to women. Even if you're only seeing 1 girl, there's absolutely no reason you cannot maintain an abundance mindset and be willing to walk away from her even if you do not have other chicks in your sex roster. True abundance comes from the self-assurance that you know you can find another, better girl.

Just fuck em and leave if your chad they won’t care they’ll miss it (free test gain method without gym maxxing)

 

[PSLdemigod]

Completely agree with you. Though a slight nuance, is that it's a very good idea to date tonne of girls, but not lead them on, which I beleive is what you are referring to. This keeps your life simple and peaceful, to actually focus on things that actually matter to you, like your goals. Not some entertainment distraction of neverending women.