Dating/sex/relationships are a develomental milestone

[Deleted member 21735]

Unlike other skills like sports, instruments, driving, etc which can be learnt at ANY point in life, sexual communication with the opposite sex must be developed when you are young. You should lose your virginity by 19 at the LATEST. And thats a veeeery generous age. You wont imagine how much easier girls are at that age. I remember when i was 18 girls were insanely easy to talk to. Sadly none of them were attractive now that i think about it.

But the point is that you gotta start this before a certain age. Sex, relationships, apporaching, this stuff needs to be wired in your brain and be NATURAL as an adult. Personally, i cant even communicate with guys anymore due to all the bullying i got. Its over for me. Because the neural patheways are just not there and cant be there. Sexual maturity isnt about losing your virignity.

If it was that easy you could just fuck a hooker and you would be NT. But its not. Its also emotinal maturity, the ablity to deal with people and force yourself upon others. I have kicked opportunities because of fucking autism and the fact that it took me too long to mature sexually. I could not fap before i was 20. I could not get it up and hold an erection and that shit destroyed me