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Now this is gonna be most likely water to some, but I just wanted to rant a bit, but also wanted to give some advice to those who are just starting to get dates, and or are just starting to talk to a girl.

If she off rip mentions how “my ex sucked”, “this guy did x y z to me”, or anything along the lines of “wow no guy has seen me the way u do”, run to the fkin hills immediately, she’s setting you up to be her good little cuck pup and is already planning her escape, but the other thing to note is

Notice how no No girl ever says “this one guy brought me flowers”, “this one guy put his coat on the puddle for me”, nothing good ever is brought up, only the bad, because they need to plant the seed of manipulation somehow, she mentions how every guy did her wrong, but somehow she’s not the issue after all this time, do not ever fall for this love bombing tatic nor be “the first guy to treat me good” you will be cucked severely as we speak, and also why should other men even be discussed if you 2 have set aside time to get to know each other? I do have a deeper thread about narcissism and this is a tatic used, but not all love bombers are narcs, and vice versa, but I hope this can help someone, because if you don’t have much experience, when you hear someone tell you “wow you really are the best guy I’ve met” or feel like your somehow special because she’s sharing in depth info about her, you aren’t tbh, at least to her, you’re just a sucker.
 
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Now this is gonna be most likely water to some, but I just wanted to rant a bit, but also wanted to give some advice to those who are just starting to get dates, and or are just starting to talk to a girl.

If she off rip mentions how “my ex sucked”, “this guy did x y z to me”, or anything along the lines of “wow no guy has seen me the way u do”, run to the fkin hills immediately, she’s setting you up to be her good little cuck pup and is already planning her escape, but the other thing to note is

Notice how no No girl ever says “this one guy brought me flowers”, “this one guy put his coat on the puddle for me”, nothing good ever is brought up, only the bad, because they need to plant the seed of manipulation somehow, she mentions how every guy did her wrong, but somehow she’s not the issue after all this time, do not ever fall for this love bombing tatic nor be “the first guy to treat me good” you will be cucked severely as we speak, and also why should other men even be discussed if you 2 have set aside time to get to know each other? I do have a deeper thread about narcissism and this is a tatic used, but not all love bombers are narcs, and vice versa, but I hope this can help someone, because if you don’t have much experience, when you hear someone tell you “wow you really are the best guy I’ve met” or feel like your somehow special because she’s sharing in depth info about her, you aren’t tbh, at least to her, you’re just a sucker.
can confirm my ex blames everyone but wonders how she breaks up every 6 months
 
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ngl whenever foid speaks about her ex most of the time she misses him lol

especially when you know her for short period of time
 
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ngl whenever foid speaks about her ex most of the time she misses him lol

especially when you know her for short period of time
Exactly, but the main thing I’ve noticed also is literally u will never hear about anything anything good a guy or even their ex did for them, even if bro spent his last 10$ and even overdrafted just to buy her something, no mention ever.
 
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