Dating was WAYY Easier in the 1990's and 2000's

[zyzz007 returns]

All you had to be was just a little above average/cute, slim and like 5' 8 and you would
have so many options even if you were not rich or popular. Even had girls paying for you and at least talking to you and giving you a shot.
I remember being 12 years old with harry potter glasses and bad acne and still getting asked out by a decent girl.

Also height was NOT an issue, I NEVER heard men being shamed for their heights in those eras. Only fat guys
got shamed and some ugly guys too.

Now in 2023 it seems even if you are a legit 6ft male model you can struggle if
you are not rich with a good social circle.

 

[FastBananaCEO]

Back when you could ask out a girl you liked and she’d actually say yes. Then you’d stay with her forever.

Now you have to jump through like 30 hoops just to get a girl below your looksmatch only for her to cuck you

 

[Slayer]

Even 10 years ago it was relatively normal

 

[Zer0/∞]

Back when you could ask out a girl you liked and she’d actually say yes. Then you’d stay with her forever.

Now you have to jump through like 30 hoops just to get a girl below your looksmatch only for her to cuck you

 

[Deleted member 23391]

water

 

[dantemaxxing]

social media has ruined everything.

 

[Deleted member 31944]

Or go back even further

My grandma and grandad stayed together from their teens until they died

 

[romanstock]

yes a woman was more likely to go on the date and give it a chance.

 

[aBetterMii]

Online dating RUINED the market

 

[Johanjohan]

All you had to be was just a little above average/cute, slim and like 5' 8 and you would
have so many options even if you were not rich or popular. Even had girls paying for you and at least talking to you and giving you a shot.
I remember being 12 years old with harry potter glasses and bad acne and still getting asked out by a decent girl.

Also height was NOT an issue, I NEVER heard men being shamed for their heights in those eras. Only fat guys
got shamed and some ugly guys too.

Now in 2023 it seems even if you are a legit 6ft male model you can struggle if
you are not rich with a good social circle.

Yet most girls are dating some oofy doofy

 

[zyzz007 returns]

Yet most girls are dating some oofy doofy

Would you say being tall matters most now and most
oofy doofy have a girl due to being tall?

 

[Johanjohan]

Would you say being tall matters most now and most
oofy doofy have a girl due to being tall?

No I see short guys with girls aswell

Hair and NT is everything tbh

 

[BoredPrince]

social media has ruined everything.

Online dating RUINED the market

Creation of social Media and dating apps changed everything forever

There is no going back, it's only going to get worse

 

[Deleted member 15164]

In 6th grade I pulled the biggest tit girl and she still likes me to this day annnd 7th grade I had a girl with a big ass liking me

 

[Deleted member 23391]

water

 

[zyzz007 returns]

No I see short guys with girls aswell

Hair and NT is everything tbh

so why are you on here if you dont believe in looks or height theory?

 

[Johanjohan]

so why are you on here if you dont believe in looks or height theory?

I think I believe in looks theory but most girls are dating ugly guys for some reason

 

[AscensionMan98]

All you had to be was just a little above average/cute, slim and like 5' 8 and you would
have so many options even if you were not rich or popular. Even had girls paying for you and at least talking to you and giving you a shot.
I remember being 12 years old with harry potter glasses and bad acne and still getting asked out by a decent girl.

Also height was NOT an issue, I NEVER heard men being shamed for their heights in those eras. Only fat guys
got shamed and some ugly guys too.

Now in 2023 it seems even if you are a legit 6ft male model you can struggle if
you are not rich with a good social circle.

My 6ft 2 blond friend who has 100+ lays reported consecutive flakes from online. He also got ghosted from numbers he got from foids at the bar and club , a few he made out with . Hypergamy has reached the point of no control.

He also got ghosted after a date he went on a few months ago. The foid was a slim white single mom who was 27 . To be fair they met on tinder.

He ain't a fan of cold approach though I recommended it to him as he looks good motion.

So the male model having difficulties in 2023 is a true thing as crazy as it sounds. The amount of attention that a female gets that is even average looking far exceeds that of any chad. The online dating game has forever destroyed dating and women no longer have any respect for men these days

 

[Primalsplit]

In 6th grade I pulled the biggest tit girl and she still likes me to this day annnd 7th grade I had a girl with a big ass liking me

Mirin.

 

[Johanjohan]

My 6ft 2 blond friend who has 100+ lays reported consecutive flakes from online. He also got ghosted from numbers he got from foids at the bar and club , a few he made out with . Hypergamy has reached the point of no control.

He also got ghosted after a date he went on a few months ago. The foid was a slim white single mom who was 27 . To be fair they met on tinder.

He ain't a fan of cold approach though I recommended it to him as he looks good motion.

So the male model having difficulties in 2023 is a true thing as crazy as it sounds. The amount of attention that a female gets that is even average looking far exceeds that of any chad. The online dating game has forever destroyed dating and women no longer have any respect for men these days

Then why are most girls dating some oofy doofy? How does that make sense

 

[AscensionMan98]

Then why are most girls dating some oofy doofy? How does that make sense

Social circle . He's anti feminist and has lot of red pill principles so deeply dislikes normies and hence has no social circle and finds cold approach too weird .

Also said he got rejected doing it

 

[mulattocel]

Gymmaxxing and general all-around looksmaxxing made you a GOD in the 90s>. Now, you can be a pear-shaped MTN tallfag who happens to be moderately funny and NT and still get a HTB/Stacylite gf.