Debunking "the Third Places/Spaces" Cope/Myth (GTFIH)

[irrumator praetor]

TLDR: due to hypergamy (even in non inter-sexual interactions) you get mogged, shamed and BTFO by normies. The people that are actually apt at using third spaces 1) still use it btw 2) supplement it with online spaces or simply DGAF

Which makes YOU (the hypothetical supporter of this bullshit theory), the youtubecel FAGGOT, reminiscing about some third spaces BULLSHIT when, actually, what you need is society to change and people to become better (and leforte 3) (so in another reincarnation) or to LDAR. Femcels (chad starved) also (no coincidence) complain about muh third spaces, holy cope foid go back to flicking the bean to millionaire minotaur books BITCH.

Reality is, the shift towards literally going out less for (probably) most non-top 30% men (6+/10) is the fact you'll get mogged, disrespected, neglected or achieve nothing. It's not fun because, actually, the people are WORSE NOW (YES, including YOU and ME. I am a PIECE OF SHIT evil person and SO ARE YOU).

Also like would you go to a third space in some african country with cannibals? Or some piece of shit slavic, balkan, caucasus, middle eastern country in a shitty area? Oh whats that, you wouldn't because the people are shitty? If people were so wonderful and not psychotic maybe you'd go out more (including your friends) to third spaces.

Reality is, neither you or me wanna 1) meet each other (I don't wanna meet you faggots) 2) or any contemporary of my generation because lowkey we as a generation are weak, neglected, annoying and GAY. FAGGOTS, retards, low IQ neglected zombies, socially uncalibrated either rude or outright fucking retarded people with 0 patience or understanding. Society is degenerating and the part of that, as a consequence, is us at least admitting we don't wanna go to third spaces and most of us are evil or retarded

 

[irrumator praetor]

bump

 

[irrumator praetor]

It could be said that it showcases the disconnect between good and bad looking people. Bad looking people will be the ones complaining about third spaces while the good looking people would agree on the part that screen addiction is rising

 

[exvh]

I just realized that I use this space as a third space lol

I dont believe im high IQ enough to provide a decent reply but I wanted to bump so heres a thought

 

[Roara]

This is assuming society can "actually change" though, also most users of "the third space/place" just take what they can get

 

[irrumator praetor]

I just realized that I use this space as a third space lol

I dont believe im high IQ enough to provide a decent reply but I wanted to bump so heres a thought

Yes because it's more tolerable besides being more accessible, while giving shit (total) ROI (ie. you don't actually socialmax)

Unrelated but some YT video set me off, was mentioning how "muh society is falling because we have no third spaces, phone addiction" jfl.

Never gonna address the actual cause, and it's literally hypergamy (mate selection as part of social status and success determination) ie. foids and existing power structures ie. delusional faggots and then chads. Of course the existing structure, however, never benefits even these groups on the long-term, they are just deceived on the short-term to uphold and defend it. A spiral of retardation and, of course, ignoring the main uncomfortable truth

 

[irrumator praetor]

This is assuming society can "actually change" though, also most users of "the third space/place" just take what they can get

lowkey when I enter a third space and meet leftists, femcels, faggots, normies, some chads. I gotta accept that 1) I don't like these people and they probably don't like me either 2) I gotta pretend to like them, and they probably need to pretend as well

and it's been like this for so long, even without political polarization, even when society was cohesive you had the usual social commentary/critique how, sometimes we gotta be fake and pretend to like people whom we don't like... That's when society was normal, now it's far from normal and people are far less mentally stable too. Some conflict is normal but too much mental instability and lowkey a big drop in social skills = powder keg

the metaphor would be giving a bunch of monkeys rocket launchers

Men and women interacting in third spaces or just in general will forever have a constant hidden political tension and difference which is fundamentally a powder keg and dysfunctional

 

[exvh]

Yes because it's more tolerable besides being more accessible, while giving shit (total) ROI (ie. you don't actually socialmax)

Unrelated but some YT video set me off, was mentioning how "muh society is falling because we have no third spaces, phone addiction" jfl.

Never gonna address the actual cause, and it's literally hypergamy (mate selection as part of social status and success determination) ie. foids and existing power structures ie. delusional faggots and then chads. Of course the existing structure, however, never benefits even these groups on the long-term, they are just deceived on the short-term to uphold and defend it. A spiral of retardation and, of course, ignoring the main uncomfortable truth

haha the ROI part is real ngl, you just say funny shit on here and then get dopamine from reps, nothing from here transfers to the real world most of the time but thats what I like about this forum as a form of escape, although I have seen some slight negative effects in my irl life due to this forum that I intend to fix

I always thought that this extreme hypergamy was caused by phones and the ability to connect with a large group of people around you instantly. Hypergamy has always existed in nature but it was reserved for just singular tribes and whatnot so they got their "looksmatch". Idk maybe im just ill-formed, thoughts?

 

[normanx]

TLDR: due to hypergamy (even in non inter-sexual interactions) you get mogged, shamed and BTFO by normies. The people that are actually apt at using third spaces 1) still use it btw 2) supplement it with online spaces or simply DGAF

Which makes YOU (the hypothetical supporter of this bullshit theory), the youtubecel FAGGOT, reminiscing about some third spaces BULLSHIT when, actually, what you need is society to change and people to become better (and leforte 3) (so in another reincarnation) or to LDAR. Femcels (chad starved) also (no coincidence) complain about muh third spaces, holy cope foid go back to flicking the bean to millionaire minotaur books BITCH.

Reality is, the shift towards literally going out less for (probably) most non-top 30% men (6+/10) is the fact you'll get mogged, disrespected, neglected or achieve nothing. It's not fun because, actually, the people are WORSE NOW (YES, including YOU and ME. I am a PIECE OF SHIT evil person and SO ARE YOU).

Also like would you go to a third space in some african country with cannibals? Or some piece of shit slavic, balkan, caucasus, middle eastern country in a shitty area? Oh whats that, you wouldn't because the people are shitty? If people were so wonderful and not psychotic maybe you'd go out more (including your friends) to third spaces.

Reality is, neither you or me wanna 1) meet each other (I don't wanna meet you faggots) 2) or any contemporary of my generation because lowkey we as a generation are weak, neglected, annoying and GAY. FAGGOTS, retards, low IQ neglected zombies, socially uncalibrated either rude or outright fucking retarded people with 0 patience or understanding. Society is degenerating and the part of that, as a consequence, is us at least admitting we don't wanna go to third spaces and most of us are evil or retarded

i mean what else did older gens have to do anyway we get to rot on org

 

[irrumator praetor]

i mean what else did older gens have to do anyway we get to rot on org

I got the joke and you could argue rotting in a pub versus org is kind of the same except we lose out on even more social skills, becoming even more retarded, deepening the spiral of social retardation, lowering societal cohesion and total IQ

 

[irrumator praetor]

haha the ROI part is real ngl, you just say funny shit on here and then get dopamine from reps, nothing from here transfers to the real world most of the time but thats what I like about this forum as a form of escape, although I have seen some slight negative effects in my irl life due to this forum that I intend to fix

I always thought that this extreme hypergamy was caused by phones and the ability to connect with a large group of people around you instantly. Hypergamy has always existed in nature but it was reserved for just singular tribes and whatnot so they got their "looksmatch". Idk maybe im just ill-formed, thoughts?

Yep bingo its the increase in human over-connectedness as well as other things that just amplify the situation (it perhaps could've stabilized on the market-level but things such as lack of commitment, easier divorce, and political shit slinging increase resentment)

 

[normanx]

I got the joke and you could argue rotting in a pub versus org is kind of the same except we lose out on even more social skills, becoming even more retarded, deepening the spiral of social retardation, lowering societal cohesion and total IQ

agreed but early gen z is prolly the only gen that experienced like outisde play n shi before we all become digital retards

 

[Roara]

lowkey when I enter a third space and meet leftists, femcels, faggots, normies, some chads. I gotta accept that 1) I don't like these people and they probably don't like me either 2) I gotta pretend to like them, and they probably need to pretend as well

and it's been like this for so long, even without political polarization, even when society was cohesive you had the usual social commentary/critique how, sometimes we gotta be fake and pretend to like people whom we don't like... That's when society was normal, now it's far from normal and people are far less mentally stable too. Some conflict is normal but too much mental instability and lowkey a big drop in social skills = powder keg

the metaphor would be giving a bunch of monkeys rocket launchers

Men and women interacting in third spaces or just in general will forever have a constant hidden political tension and difference which is fundamentally a powder keg and dysfunctional

dude... this feels like nothinggurger lowk, I think the goal is to just find like 10 guys who you could see yourself being good friends with, and then you just stop entering these more niche spaces, at least you can use these "third places" to understand social dynamics jfl

 

[irrumator praetor]

dude... this feels like nothinggurger lowk, I think the goal is to just find like 10 guys who you could see yourself being good friends with, and then you just stop entering these more niche spaces, at least you can use these "third places" to understand social dynamics jfl

Dude, even the whole trend of "smaller social circles" is a negative trend. It means people trust each other less now. You need larger social exposure for social skill and also OPPORTUNITIES, etc. Thats a shrinking of friend groups as people become LESS likeable that's BAD

You're always gonna have a few people closest to you by definition but the shrinking trend is negative and you need bigger social spaces for other equally important reasons

 

[irrumator praetor]

agreed but early gen z is prolly the only gen that experienced like outisde play n shi before we all become digital retards

brutal for gen alpha

gen beta won't even learn how to walk if they even exist

 

[Roara]

Dude, even the whole trend of "smaller social circles" is a negative trend. It means people trust each other less now. You need larger social exposure for social skill and also OPPORTUNITIES, etc. Thats a shrinking of friend groups as people become LESS likeable that's BAD

jfl, I don't think most niggas actually want to change society as a whole, so they compromise,
honestly though, if you want to understand better WHY society is unchangeable, look at the hippies, it was literally a whole generation of boomers trying to make this world super altruistic or whatever, and they all FAILED , sometimes you just need to understand when to stop caring

 

[normanx]

Dude, even the whole trend of "smaller social circles" is a negative trend. It means people trust each other less now. You need larger social exposure for social skill and also OPPORTUNITIES, etc. Thats a shrinking of friend groups as people become LESS likeable that's BAD

You're always gonna have a few people closest to you by definition but the shrinking trend is negative and you need bigger social spaces for other equally important reasons

agreed i mean think about it post work or school its still shit to do to escape boredom (aka ur existential thoughts) and its sm easier nowadays w tech compared to naything else its not surprising were all becoming socially retarded

 

[exvh]

Yep bingo its the increase in human over-connectedness as well as other things that just amplify the situation (it perhaps could've stabilized on the market-level but things such as lack of commitment, easier divorce, and political shit slinging increase resentment)

I think all of the things you listed that destabilize the market was pushed by "jews" for the lack of a better word. Genuinely sucks for me as I am a high schooler that has yet to experience anything relating to adult life. I have already experienced 10% of the childhood by parents and grandparents experienced. My brother is 10, even worse for him

Dude, even the whole trend of "smaller social circles" is a negative trend. It means people trust each other less now. You need larger social exposure for social skill and also OPPORTUNITIES, etc. Thats a shrinking of friend groups as people become LESS likeable that's BAD

You're always gonna have a few people closest to you by definition but the shrinking trend is negative and you need bigger social spaces for other equally important reasons

Yes bigger friend groups always mog, I tried to make this work by joining multiple friend groups at once but I just became the floater friend so im sticking to 2 now. Being somewhat popular in middle school set me up for success ngl although I got a lot more to do.

Mirin the high-iq replies compared to mine, breath of fresh air tbh

 

[irrumator praetor]

floater friend

they're a time commitment. Pick the best, drop the worst. 2 is a reasonable number at highschool level

Mirin the high-iq replies

thanks G, thanks for not dnring

 

[enlightful]

brutal for gen alpha

gen beta won't even learn how to walk if they even exist

Gen beta will have to watch jerk off instructions to learn how to jerk off

 

[exvh]

they're a time commitment. Pick the best, drop the worst. 2 is a reasonable number at highschool level


thanks G, thanks for not dnring

oh yeah one more question

for someone in high school that also shitposts on org, what is one advice you would give them on how to better their life (other than delete if your thinking about that)?

 

[irrumator praetor]

Gen beta will have to watch jerk off instructions to learn how to jerk off

if their dicks can work

 

[irrumator praetor]

oh yeah one more question

for someone in high school that also shitposts on org, what is one advice you would give them on how to better their life (other than delete if your thinking about that)?

org doesn't necessarily need to negatively influence your life, like how tiktok doesn't either etc. It depends on how you use it. Without going into excessive detail unnecessarily, stop using it if you think its effecting you negatively, return if you think it can benefit you

instead of having tiktok + ig I just keep IG. Instead of having the app, I use the desktop/web version. Highest ROI, least bullshit, same functions

instead of ldaring in a bunch of alternative platforms (telegram, rumble, org) I just visit here whenever I want and dip as easily