Depressed even when successful in life

[Zev]

After successfully looksmaxing, dating the hottest girl in my friends group , I have a high paying job + a startup on the side that is getting traction
I have money
I have friends
A successful career
Successful with chicks
Good health

But I feel empty and disconnected from others, and I feel lonely asf even with all the people around me and going out all the time

What the fuck, I thought fixing my life would make me happy
I am bored and I think I'm getting boring, don't know how I still have so much friends

Where is the mega guide to feel fulfilled and happy please

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

maybe visit a therapist man

 

[5aesar]

Therapy

 

[hybobu]

over if u are not happy with this

 

[Charles the Fat]

Brutal brain chemistry pill

 

[lestoa]

if you are not happy you are not truly good looking

 

[Zev]

maybe visit a therapist man

Therapy

Did you guys go to therapy and did it help ?
I know a fair amount of people who see a therapist but it doesn't seem to fix the problem even after several years, it looks like they go there for a quick relief
Did it work for you ?

 

[Bdot]

its all in the mind

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

id you guys go to therapy and did it help ?

personally for me, yes

but its different for everyone

 

[5aesar]

Did you guys go to therapy and did it help ?
I know a fair amount of people who see a therapist but it doesn't seem to fix the problem even after several years, it looks like they go there for a quick relief
Did it work for you ?

Yes I’m going to therapy every week or two I go once, it’s helped a small bit but it really depends on how you are and what’s wrong/upsetting you (ie doesn’t work same for everyone since everyone is different with different traumas and response)

 

[Zev]

Brutal brain chemistry pill

To be fair I am no porn / low fap since 2017, no alcohol for 2 years I have a good diet and get 8 to 9 hours of sleep.
I don't know what can I do to fix this
I need to try magic mushrooms i think

 

[5aesar]

its all in the mind

True

 

[5aesar]

To be fair I am no porn / low fap since 2017, no alcohol for 2 years I have a good diet and get 8 to 9 hours of sleep.
I don't know what can I do to fix this
I need to try magic mushrooms i think

Could just be genuine mental illness

 

[Zev]

its all in the mind

I know, how can I control it

Could just be genuine mental illness

Which kind of illness ?

Yes I’m going to therapy every week or two I go once, it’s helped a small bit but it really depends on how you are and what’s wrong/upsetting you (ie doesn’t work same for everyone since everyone is different with different traumas and response)

Don't really have traumas tbh, had a pretty normal life, why did you go there if you don't mind me asking

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

Yes I’m going to therapy every week or two I go once, it’s helped a small bit but it really depends on how you are and what’s wrong/upsetting you (ie doesn’t work same for everyone since everyone is different with different traumas and response)

may i ask why ur going to therapy?

 

[Zev]

Maybe achieving success in the material world isn't enough and being exploring spirituality would make a change

 

[RICHCELDOM]

wow you must have something very wrong with you biochemically /genetically

 

[don187]

personally for me, yes

but its different for everyone

You wouldn’t be here if it really helped jfl

 

[RICHCELDOM]

This post reminded me of this nigga

 

[Disrupted Gene]

After successfully looksmaxing, dating the hottest girl in my friends group , I have a high paying job + a startup on the side that is getting traction
I have money
I have friends
A successful career
Successful with chicks
Good health

But I feel empty and disconnected from others, and I feel lonely asf even with all the people around me and going out all the time

What the fuck, I thought fixing my life would make me happy
I am bored and I think I'm getting boring, don't know how I still have so much friends

Where is the mega guide to feel fulfilled and happy please

Very possibly poor gut health. The gut is the regulator of mood.

 

[BigPoppa]

All of this stuff seems very conventional, nothing you listed actually seems like it stems from a personal interest. You could likely just be lacking intrinsic passion for something.

Basically go pick up a hobby that you like for the sake of liking and has nothing to do with conventional shit like respect, status, and success and nerd out on that. It could give you that spark which makes you wanna go out and do something for the entire day and makes the rest of the things complimentary to that, easier said than done though.

 

[kam246]

Very possibly poor gut health. The gut is the regulator of mood.

how to fix this

 

[Zev]

wow you must have something very wrong with you biochemically /genetically

so not fixable ?

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This post reminded me of this nigga

WHo is he

Very possibly poor gut health. The gut is the regulator of mood.

should I serotonin maxx ?

All of this stuff seems very conventional, nothing you listed actually seems like it stems from a personal interest. You could likely just be lacking intrinsic passion for something.

Basically go pick up a hobby that you like for the sake of liking and has nothing to do with conventional shit like respect, status, and success and nerd out on that. It could give you that spark which makes you wanna go out and do something for the entire day and makes the rest of the things complimentary to that, easier said than done though.

Yeah I'm also in a band, brings me fun but not purpose

 

[Disrupted Gene]

should I serotonin maxx ?

Increase your consumption of probiotics (pill, kefir, sauerkraut, kimchi, greek yogurt), prebiotics (fiber), and avoid high sugar and gluten which negatively impact the gut.

 

[Deleted member 74669]

That’s a retarded way to think, none of those things guarantee happiness, such a low iq take from people in general, happiness comes from within

Just rope

 

[shieldzz]

Listen to me since im a medical student and ignore other replies

Can you feel happines ? it will be something like now if it would happen give you joy ?

If you cant feel happy anymore whatever you do it means you are depressed chronically and should visit a psychiatrist

Also check your hormones / vitamins levels

 

[shieldzz]

Very possibly poor gut health. The gut is the regulator of mood.

underrated comment

 

[5aesar]

may i ask why ur going to therapy?

Uh various family related issues and the fact I can’t regulate my mood (not trying to self diagnose but I might have BPD) which is gonna be shit

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

Uh various family related issues and the fact I can’t regulate my mood (not trying to self diagnose but I might have BPD) which is gonna be shit

sorry to hear that man

my therapy was for family related shit too

bpd sounds awful, hope it isnt the case

 

[Santafinitu]

After successfully looksmaxing, dating the hottest girl in my friends group , I have a high paying job + a startup on the side that is getting traction
I have money
I have friends
A successful career
Successful with chicks
Good health

But I feel empty and disconnected from others, and I feel lonely asf even with all the people around me and going out all the time

What the fuck, I thought fixing my life would make me happy
I am bored and I think I'm getting boring, don't know how I still have so much friends

Where is the mega guide to feel fulfilled and happy please

Autist comment:
Start killing people and find thrill in getting away with it

 

[addem]

Maybe achieving success in the material world isn't enough and being exploring spirituality would make a change

Explore the scrumptious circumference of my balls

 

[Part-Time Chad]

You need 3 things for happiness:

1 Something to do
2 Someone to love
3 Something to hope for

 

[5aesar]

sorry to hear that man

my therapy was for family related shit too

bpd sounds awful, hope it isnt the case

Yeah family shits the worst cuz u can’t escape it

 

[Roge]

One of those:
1) something telling me at least portion of those claims are larp
2) you are doing something wrong (not spending money right, being monogamous etc)
3) kys may be an option
4) rotting not enough here

 

[Roge]

One of those:
1) something telling me at least portion of those claims are larp
2) you are doing something wrong (not spending money right, being monogamous etc)
3) kys may be an option
4) rotting not enough here

I know what you need. You 100% never was beaten up properly, you wouldn't feel that way after going to the boxing gym. All the stupidity will evaporate after third round with someone already trained.

Mark my words

 

[p1sswinkle]

Seemed funny DNRD tho

 

[BroMinBoss]

nice larp . High paying job and still depressed niga? Unless u are abused dog that is genetic trash? thats possible then ig

 

[Manfrommars]

After successfully looksmaxing, dating the hottest girl in my friends group , I have a high paying job + a startup on the side that is getting traction
I have money
I have friends
A successful career
Successful with chicks
Good health

But I feel empty and disconnected from others, and I feel lonely asf even with all the people around me and going out all the time

What the fuck, I thought fixing my life would make me happy
I am bored and I think I'm getting boring, don't know how I still have so much friends

Where is the mega guide to feel fulfilled and happy please

Do drugs

 

[aids]

See a professional about clinical depression.
Hope you get better, man!
Hit my PMs and we can talk.

 

[LilJojo]

After successfully looksmaxing, dating the hottest girl in my friends group , I have a high paying job + a startup on the side that is getting traction
I have money
I have friends
A successful career
Successful with chicks
Good health

But I feel empty and disconnected from others, and I feel lonely asf even with all the people around me and going out all the time

What the fuck, I thought fixing my life would make me happy
I am bored and I think I'm getting boring, don't know how I still have so much friends

Where is the mega guide to feel fulfilled and happy please

Money doesn’t buy happiness, if the only time you feel happy with life is when you achieve your goals and set higher ones it’s the same as a drug. Chasing the high

I used to be the same a couple years ago where I used to set my whole mood depending on how well my business did. If bad I was sad, if good I was happy.

 

[Zev]

Listen to me since im a medical student and ignore other replies

Can you feel happines ? it will be something like now if it would happen give you joy ?

If you cant feel happy anymore whatever you do it means you are depressed chronically and should visit a psychiatrist

Also check your hormones / vitamins levels

Which hormones / vitamins do you recommend to check specifically

You need 3 things for happiness:

1 Something to do
2 Someone to love
3 Something to hope for

2 seems hard to maintain in time tbh

Money doesn’t buy happiness, if the only time you feel happy with life is when you achieve your goals and set higher ones it’s the same as a drug. Chasing the high

I used to be the same a couple years ago where I used to set my whole mood depending on how well my business did. If bad I was sad, if good I was happy.

I feel what you're saying, honestly the high of improving myself was something very motivating, but once you've maxxed several areas you get to a point where each marginal gain is very small and not very captivating, once you've reach your goals it's hard to find new ones.
How did you get a hold of your mood ?

I know what you need. You 100% never was beaten up properly, you wouldn't feel that way after going to the boxing gym. All the stupidity will evaporate after third round with someone already trained.

Mark my words

Maybe that's true, maybe getting into real fights might provide me some excitement but i doubt it will be fulfilling on a deeper level

 

[shieldzz]

Which hormones / vitamins do you recommend to check specifically


2 seems hard to maintain in time tbh



I feel what you're saying, honestly the high of improving myself was something very motivating, but once you've maxxed several areas you get to a point where each marginal gain is very small and not very captivating, once you've reach your goals it's hard to find new ones.
How did you get a hold of your mood ?

Maybe that's true, maybe getting into real fights might provide me some excitement but i doubt it will be fulfilling on a deeper level

check t levels,free t- levels, iron level,vit b b12 levels,vit d3 levels,iron level,check if you have anemia. Magnesium level also

you should talk to a doctor about your symptoms first and will guide you

 

[Saint Casanova]

The brain chemistry pill also broke me

 

[TheArchitect]

After successfully looksmaxing, dating the hottest girl in my friends group , I have a high paying job + a startup on the side that is getting traction
I have money
I have friends
A successful career
Successful with chicks
Good health

But I feel empty and disconnected from others, and I feel lonely asf even with all the people around me and going out all the time

What the fuck, I thought fixing my life would make me happy
I am bored and I think I'm getting boring, don't know how I still have so much friends

Where is the mega guide to feel fulfilled and happy please

might seem retarded but start reading philosophy, especially Hellenistic ones: you can try stoicism, epicureanism, pythagoreanism, ancient greeks where based @Saint Casanova might help you too
but please actually read at least a couple books not the retard 30 seconds tiktok breakdown of stoicism

 

[mikrofon]

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[ItsOver999]

After successfully looksmaxing, dating the hottest girl in my friends group , I have a high paying job + a startup on the side that is getting traction
I have money
I have friends
A successful career
Successful with chicks
Good health

But I feel empty and disconnected from others, and I feel lonely asf even with all the people around me and going out all the time

What the fuck, I thought fixing my life would make me happy
I am bored and I think I'm getting boring, don't know how I still have so much friends

Where is the mega guide to feel fulfilled and happy please

Sounds like autism

 

[tom69]

I'd probably start gambling, start off light with some mines and plinko, and then start spinning the slots Christmas bonanza etc

Hope this helps

 

[R@m@]

See my latest post I completely relate to you

 

[BeatleJuiceFanBoy10]

therapymaxxing is the way 2 go for u

 

[cucklord70]

Psychologist for ssri now