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Hello everyone. I am in my late 20s though people here already told me I look 40. So I studied engineering now working in company. I live in a poor country in asia similar to India. My father died when I was very young. Have no siblings. So after posting my pic here almost everyone said I am a low ltn. In my childhood I used to think I will be a chad and around 6'2 like mt father but ended up being 5'8.
As arranged marriage is very popular here so I can get stacy or stacy light level wife. But I don't want to get married due to my looks. btw I am Muslim and I support marriage. But I don't wanna do it as I am scared my wife wil be attracted to chads whenever we will go out.

Now I have decided to stay single forever. But now I can spend my life either by coping with destructive things like junk food and other bad habits and seek pleasure or I can totally be focused on my carrer, studying engineering harder and applying for higher degrees abroad, taking care, self improvement, entrepreneurship, looksmaxxing etc. But I feel like looksmax is not for me as I am already in bad condition. Btw I will also not look at any girls or talk to them due to my looks.

Now guys please tell me seriously what should I do? Here are my pictures for your understanding




 
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aint reading all this shit you think we in the library or something bitch ass nigga
 
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Hello everyone. I am in my late 20s though people here already told me I look 40. So I studied engineering now working in company. I live in a poor country in asia similar to India. My father died when I was very young. Have no siblings. So after posting my pic here almost everyone said I am a low ltn. In my childhood I used to think I will be a chad and around 6'2 like mt father but ended up being 5'8.
As arranged marriage is very popular here so I can get stacy or stacy light level wife. But I don't want to get married due to my looks. btw I am Muslim and I support marriage. But I don't wanna do it as I am scared my wife wil be attracted to chads whenever we will go out.

Now I have decided to stay single forever. But now I can spend my life either by coping with destructive things like junk food and other bad habits and seek pleasure or I can totally be focused on my carrer, studying engineering harder and applying for higher degrees abroad, taking care, self improvement, entrepreneurship, looksmaxxing etc. But I feel like looksmax is not for me as I am already in bad condition. Btw I will also not look at any girls or talk to them due to my looks.

Now guys please tell me seriously what should I do? Here are my pictures for your understanding





Ts brutal bhai, there is really no other opciont besides cope. Atleast do the good ones like gym, reading etc :forcedsmile:
 
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I mean if you get a good paying job just hardmax
 
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I mean if you get a good paying job just hardmax
Won't go against religion man. Better to rot here than eternal hell fire. But should I max out every aspect I can control or cope with drugs, anime, junkfood, sleeping?
 
Get ghkcu,dut+min

Infra implants if your willing to do something haram to become more attractive
 
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Stop bitching and go for arranged marriage with stacy, I bet 90/100 ppl in your country looks same as you and also arranged marriage where man isn’t that good and women is stacy is kinda common practice all over the history in every corner of the world u just infected your brains with looksmax while most of all other ppl are bluepilled
 
Stop bitching and go for arranged marriage with stacy, I bet 90/100 ppl in your country looks same as you and also arranged marriage where man isn’t that good and women is stacy is kinda common practice all over the history in every corner of the world u just infected your brains with looksmax while most of all other ppl are bluepilled
Thank you man. Yeah you are right. I believe I can do very well if I fully focus on engineering and ai. Should I work on moneymaxxing statusmaxxing? I believe I can do very well if I start a focusing on AI and start a company as I can work hard. But now I am alomost doing nothing but just wasting time on internet and acting to like a mentalcel infront of my mother. I told her I will destroy my life due to my looks
 
Thank you man. Yeah you are right. I believe I can do very well if I fully focus on engineering and ai. Should I work on moneymaxxing statusmaxxing? I believe I can do very well if I start a focusing on AI and start a company as I can work hard. But now I am alomost doing nothing but just wasting time on internet and acting to like a mentalcel infront of my mother. I told her I will destroy my life due to my looks
I’m a program engineer too and I doubt focusing on AI now gonna make a shit tbh, the niche is literally filled with megacorps with multibillion dollars investment in the field, ai is an instrument and not a niche to explore anymore
 
I’m a program engineer too and I doubt focusing on AI now gonna make a shit tbh, the niche is literally filled with megacorps with multibillion dollars investment in the field, ai is an instrument and not a niche to explore anymore
Then what would be right field to focus on?
 
Then what would be right field to focus on?
You can’t predict it, how would you spot on next big thing on a purpose while something like ai appeared in 60s, started becoming niche popular 15 years ago and became big thing only 5 years ago? I doubt ppl who were exploring topic in 2010 though it’s gonna bang in 2020 and became a world phenomenon in a few years after. Just do what u r interested in and if u r lucky it may bang, but may not. Anyway you should be retarded to think you can predict something like that, all u can do is develop something cool and brand new so it may take attention by some audience. Left those illusions to kids and maximalist teens, it’s an individualistic propaganda telling you everyone can become rich, well-known and etc. if working hard enough, it’s a cope and it’s indeed a survival bias, literally logical error and chances to become someone out of nowhere are minimal but you still should do something as hard as possible to even get not benefits but chances to get some benefits. Just do something you like at least so maybe your eagerness could light up something otherwise chasing trends you won’t have a chance to get benefit at all.
 
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Hello everyone. I am in my late 20s though people here already told me I look 40. So I studied engineering now working in company. I live in a poor country in asia similar to India. My father died when I was very young. Have no siblings. So after posting my pic here almost everyone said I am a low ltn. In my childhood I used to think I will be a chad and around 6'2 like mt father but ended up being 5'8.
As arranged marriage is very popular here so I can get stacy or stacy light level wife. But I don't want to get married due to my looks. btw I am Muslim and I support marriage. But I don't wanna do it as I am scared my wife wil be attracted to chads whenever we will go out.

Now I have decided to stay single forever. But now I can spend my life either by coping with destructive things like junk food and other bad habits and seek pleasure or I can totally be focused on my carrer, studying engineering harder and applying for higher degrees abroad, taking care, self improvement, entrepreneurship, looksmaxxing etc. But I feel like looksmax is not for me as I am already in bad condition. Btw I will also not look at any girls or talk to them due to my looks.

Now guys please tell me seriously what should I do? Here are my pictures for your understanding





Nah bro definitely marry a muslim girl. If you make good money and provide for her she will like you independent from your looks
 
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You can’t predict it, how would you spot on next big thing on a purpose while something like ai appeared in 60s, started becoming niche popular 15 years ago and became big thing only 5 years ago? I doubt ppl who were exploring topic in 2010 though it’s gonna bang in 2020 and became a world phenomenon in a few years after. Just do what u r interested in and if u r lucky it may bang, but may not. Anyway you should be retarded to think you can predict something like that, all u can do is develop something cool and brand new so it may take attention by some audience. Left those illusions to kids and maximalist teens, it’s an individualistic propaganda telling you everyone can become rich, well-known and etc. if working hard enough, it’s a cope and it’s indeed a survival bias, literally logical error and chances to become someone out of nowhere are minimal but you still should do something as hard as possible to even get not benefits but chances to get some benefits. Just do something you like at least so maybe your eagerness could light up something otherwise chasing trends you won’t have a chance to get benefit at all.
Thanks man. I really appreciate your effort and time for the information
 
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Nah bro definitely marry a muslim girl. If you make good money and provide for her she will like you independent from your looks
Bro I have two options in my hand now. One is coping with porn, flapping, wasting time on internet, junk food, behaving bad and acting like a mentalcel with my mother and tell her I will destroy my life. Another is self improvement, gym, taking care, looksmaxxing as much i can, money and statusmaxxing, behave good with my mom and relatives and marry a muslim girl. Which path to take? I believe I have very high potential in engineering
 
Bro I have two options in my hand now. One is coping with porn, flapping, wasting time on internet, junk food, behaving bad and acting like a mentalcel with my mother and tell her I will destroy my life. Another is self improvement, gym, taking care, looksmaxxing as much i can, money and statusmaxxing, behave good with my mom and relatives and marry a muslim girl. Which path to take? I believe I have very high potential in engineering
Take the second. It be harder but infinitely more worth it
 
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Thanks man. I really appreciate your effort and time for the information
Like what I’m trying my say it’s anyway better to run for arranged marriage and continue working as an engineer and try as hard as possible in some of tech topics you feel you r interested in. Also wouldn’t statusmaxing on purpose counted as a pride? And isn’t pride also a sin in the islam as well as in christianity? I mean I doubt getting implants or surgeons to look better is bigger or smaller sin tbh but I’m agnostic so wouldn’t insist
 
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Like what I’m trying my say it’s anyway better to run for arranged marriage and continue working as an engineer and try as hard as possible in some of tech topics you feel you r interested in. Also wouldn’t statusmaxing on purpose counted as a pride? And isn’t pride also a sin in the islam as well as in christianity? I mean I doubt getting implants or surgeons to look better is bigger or smaller sin tbh but I’m agnostic so wouldn’t insist
True man, pride is definitely a sin in islam. When I said statusmaxxing it's actually not came from pride. I mean if I moneymaxx and chase something great the status will come as a byproduct
 
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True man, pride is definitely a sin in islam. When I said statusmaxxing it's actually not came from pride. I mean if I moneymaxx and chase something great the status will come as a byproduct
Btw, may I ask if it’s okay if you are getting ordinary medical help or surgery due to health issue from islamic pov?
 
Btw, may I ask if it’s okay if you are getting ordinary medical help or surgery due to health issue from islamic pov?
If I am using different products for looksmaxxing it's ok but it's a sin if I change my face through surgery only for beautification. So I guess Hardmaxxing is not permissible. I even thought about leg lengthening surgery but due to the cost and religious perspective I changed my mind
 
If I am using different products for looksmaxxing it's ok but it's a sin if I change my face through surgery only for beautification. So I guess Hardmaxxing is not permissible. I even thought about leg lengthening surgery but due to the cost and religious perspective I changed my mind
I mean if you can get ordinary medical help due to some health issues than u just get implants or facial surgery to fix a mental health issues connected to your appearance like depression, it’s also a health problem not just a simple beautification, perspective matters
 
I mean if you can get ordinary medical help due to some health issues than u just get implants or facial surgery to fix a mental health issues connected to your appearance like depression, it’s also a health problem not just a simple beautification, perspective matters
Bro I already see multiple psychologist but none of them could help me. One of my main problems is that I balme my mother for my looks and height. I tell her that she didn't give me enough nutrition in my teen age that's why my jaw is not wide and bone structure is bad and I couldn't become 6'2 like father. But I was growing taller when I 10-12. Everyone thought I will become 6'1 or 6'2 like my father. So I behave very bad with my mother everyday though she actually supported my financially and medically to study engineering otherwise I might not have studied engineering
 
Bro I already see multiple psychologist but none of them could help me. One of my main problems is that I balme my mother for my looks and height. I tell her that she didn't give me enough nutrition in my teen age that's why my jaw is not wide and bone structure is bad and I couldn't become 6'2 like father. But I was growing taller when I 10-12. Everyone thought I will become 6'1 or 6'2 like my father. So I behave very bad with my mother everyday though she actually supported my financially and medically to study engineering otherwise I might not have studied engineering
So again, while you have mental issues and can’t fix it with a psychologist you can fix them with jaw surgery and implants and it won’t be counted as a sin as you r doing it for your health (mental health). Again, perspective matters
 
So again, while you have mental issues and can’t fix it with a psychologist you can fix them with jaw surgery and implants and it won’t be counted as a sin as you r doing it for your health (mental health). Again, perspective matters
Bro, surgery is very expensive. I don't have money to do it. So if I can't afford it what will you tell me about living life?
 
Bro, surgery is very expensive. I don't have money to do it. So if I can't afford it what will you tell me about living life?
Than moneymax then looksmax, common route here in most cases. Save money -> looksmax -> ascend
 
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Hello everyone. I am in my late 20s though people here already told me I look 40. So I studied engineering now working in company. I live in a poor country in asia similar to India. My father died when I was very young. Have no siblings. So after posting my pic here almost everyone said I am a low ltn. In my childhood I used to think I will be a chad and around 6'2 like mt father but ended up being 5'8.
As arranged marriage is very popular here so I can get stacy or stacy light level wife. But I don't want to get married due to my looks. btw I am Muslim and I support marriage. But I don't wanna do it as I am scared my wife wil be attracted to chads whenever we will go out.

Now I have decided to stay single forever. But now I can spend my life either by coping with destructive things like junk food and other bad habits and seek pleasure or I can totally be focused on my carrer, studying engineering harder and applying for higher degrees abroad, taking care, self improvement, entrepreneurship, looksmaxxing etc. But I feel like looksmax is not for me as I am already in bad condition. Btw I will also not look at any girls or talk to them due to my looks.

Now guys please tell me seriously what should I do? Here are my pictures for your understanding





Improve my nigga always improve never give up stay determined my nigger
 
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Bro, is it possible to ascend only with softmaxxing? I know my bone structure is cooked. I will definitely moneymax though
Nah, only hardmaxing, you may fix skin issues with softmaxing but it won’t give u much. Trimax + implants will fix everything or most
 
@imontheloose can help you ig
Hey man. I don’t think it’s going to get much better facially, but you’re an engineer like me! You should really just forget about all of this, or at least try. You’ve had a tough life and you should focus on studying and doing well in engineering. You could get surgery later down the line if you still feel down about it which I suppose you will, but that requires money!

Why don’t you go make something new? You can always send me your designs or CADs lol. I’d be more than happy to talk about them. I do wish you the best no matter what you do, OP.
 

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