Devastated after girlfriend left me

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Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship
 
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Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship
Wish u the best bro, read the whole thing and tbh nowadays relationships are really complicated. Hope u will be able to get back on ur feet soon bro
 
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Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship
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Makes me so sad as she fell in love first and wanted to date I gave her everything and tried to listen. She would never tell me what’s wrong she would always get moody then get mad when I mirror her energy. I don’t get it I wait 3 months over the summer for a long distance relationship just to get broken up with 2 days after coming back in person.

I’ve managed to improve myself so much since two years ago (knew her after I ascended since December-January) and when I asked her she said it wasn’t a looks thing and that I just wasn’t considerate or affectionate enough. I don’t believe her despite her always calling me cute or pretty randomly. When I brought up stuff I was upset by just said she’d be willing to change but not for me because I’m not worth the effort.

This all escalated because of a mean reply I sent after she was bitchy to me yesterday (guessing the plan b she took 2 days ago made her moody). She showed her friend and an hour later she texts me that we are broken up I invite her over to talk and she just tells me everything above

I was okay last night but this morning I woke up devastated and couldn’t fall back asleep. She was my first real love and I was hers.
I’m sure I’ll find someone else but maybe I won’t either way I know I’ll still be scarred months from now because of her words and know this will happen in my next relationship
JBF theory is real
 
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