Did anyone here go from being socially awkward to charismatic?

[lilhorizontal32]

If so, then how did you do it

 

[damnit]

not personally, but I have read countless people claimin on the internet they changed their personalities after megadsoing psychedelics....

 

[Deleted member 14323]

only for a short period in my life, with benzos and modafinil. But that shit isn't worth tbh you turn into a zombie.

 

[isis_Bleach]

I started school 2 weeks ago and started approaching a lot of people, saying whatever comes to my mind
and yea now i feel very little social anxiety, versus being super anxious at the beginning of the year
idk if im charismatic, im still working on being more interesting in convo, but people told me i have character

 

[hebbewem]

No

 

[Deleted member 275]

I went from charismatic to socially awkward. So I am sure the opposite is also possible.

 

[efidescontinuado]

just be good looking, personality is cope

 

[Deleted member 1476]

I'm trying to

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

Somewhat yeah. I used to be socially awkward because I had subhuman teeth and as a result hated interacting with people so that they wouldn’t see my teeth JFL.

Fixed my teeth, started practicing talking to myself in the mirror daily and eventually having artificial convos with myself where I’d think of good responses.
For example when someone used to ask me “Wyd” I’d respond with “not much/nothing really” which just makes you seem boring.

Instead I respond and ask a question. “I went to the beach today and tanned a bit, was really fun bc I also ran into two old friends. Wbu?”

That response just seems more interesting. It’s all fake, but you just need to be prepared to answer and ask questions that aren’t boring.

 

[coolguy1]

I started school 2 weeks ago and started approaching a lot of people, saying whatever comes to my mind
and yea now i feel very little social anxiety, versus being super anxious at the beginning of the year
idk if im charismatic, im still working on being more interesting in convo, but people told me i have character

What do you do with ur hands I think it's my biggest problem jfl I dont know what to do if I just relax my arms I look aspie as fuck

 

[Deleted member 3672]

i know a friend who did, he was your typical shy gamer kid and then for a long time he trained himself to become more confident

for example, everytime he talked he sweat out his armpits, he used this as an opportunity to show his pits off and dgaf it was super hard from the beginning but as he got used to it he began gaining more and more confidence .

not only that he also practiced nofap and worked out a lot he became a chad both mentally and physically and then eventually after being a chad mentally and physically for a while it seemed he was rewarded with becoming a chad facially

 

[Deleted member 8244]

yeah, it was me

 

[Deleted member 14826]

Somewhat yeah. I used to be socially awkward because I had subhuman teeth and as a result hated interacting with people so that they wouldn’t see my teeth JFL.

Fixed my teeth, started practicing talking to myself in the mirror daily and eventually having artificial convos with myself where I’d think of good responses.
For example when someone used to ask me “Wyd” I’d respond with “not much/nothing really” which just makes you seem boring.

Instead I respond and ask a question. “I went to the beach today and tanned a bit, was really fun bc I also ran into two old friends. Wbu?”

That response just seems more interesting. It’s all fake, but you just need to be prepared to answer and ask questions that aren’t boring.

damn bro i have same shit, my teeth are subhuman tier, but im fixim them soon, thx for lifefuel

 

[TITUS]

Only for short bursts of time, like parties, then back to autism.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Only for short bursts of time, like parties, then back to autism.

This also lmao. Ive been to festivals where i tried my absolute best to be outgoing, funny, interesting. Had some good vibes with a few ppl there that wanted to meetup again but cant be bothered to be high energy nonstop lol. They wouldnt recognise me

 

[isis_Bleach]

What do you do with ur hands I think it's my biggest problem jfl I dont know what to do if I just relax my arms I look aspie as fuck

I actually talk with my hands a lot but yea I don’t really think about it
I had your problem sometimes but tbh it’s probably cause you’re very anxious and thinking about how everything you’re doing looks etc
Basically just don’t think about it bro. That will come naturally when you have low anxiety.

 

[PURE ARYAN GENETICS]

yes. I redpillmaxxed. but no redpill for my maxilla

 

[fvolkek]

Lots of people I know did, but it was during their teenage years at most. So it’s really unlikely that you go from an awkward sperg to “charismatic” unless you for some reason aesthetically ascend and start going out a lot, thus developing your social skills.

 

[Deleted member 8856]

not personally, but I have read countless people claimin on the internet they changed their personalities after megadsoing psychedelics....

Dont do this, OP

 

[lilhorizontal32]

I went from charismatic to socially awkward. So I am sure the opposite is also possible.

Damn man. How did that happen?

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Somewhat yeah. I used to be socially awkward because I had subhuman teeth and as a result hated interacting with people so that they wouldn’t see my teeth JFL.

Fixed my teeth, started practicing talking to myself in the mirror daily and eventually having artificial convos with myself where I’d think of good responses.
For example when someone used to ask me “Wyd” I’d respond with “not much/nothing really” which just makes you seem boring.

Instead I respond and ask a question. “I went to the beach today and tanned a bit, was really fun bc I also ran into two old friends. Wbu?”

That response just seems more interesting. It’s all fake, but you just need to be prepared to answer and ask questions that aren’t boring.

Mirin man. Was this all you did?

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Lots of people I know did, but it was during their teenage years at most. So it’s really unlikely that you go from an awkward sperg to “charismatic” unless you for some reason aesthetically ascend and start going out a lot, thus developing your social skills.

Do you think it would be possible to do this as an adult?

 

[lilhorizontal32]

I'm trying to

Same. Let me know how it goes, or pm if you want to talk about it further

 

[lilhorizontal32]

yes. I redpillmaxxed. but no redpill for my maxilla

You became confident even while not being gl?

how’d you do it and did you notice many positive effects?

 

[lilhorizontal32]

I actually talk with my hands a lot but yea I don’t really think about it
I had your problem sometimes but tbh it’s probably cause you’re very anxious and thinking about how everything you’re doing looks etc
Basically just don’t think about it bro. That will come naturally when you have low anxiety.

The “just be confident” advice unironically worked for you.

But I wonder why it doesn’t for other people though

 

[fvolkek]

Do you think it would be possible to do this as an adult?

Really hard to, ngl, but it is possible.

 

[PURE ARYAN GENETICS]

You became confident even while not being gl?

how’d you do it and did you notice many positive effects?

I fell for the pua cringe. I mean it works with old sluts I guess. lowinhibmaxxing works with any foid if you're not too subhuman but cold approaching is dubious at best. I mean if you can approach a lot it's ok I guess I'm somewhat of a standardcel. I watched a lot of simple pickup videos even torrented the paid ones. a few people still treated me like shit but some thought I was cool. a lot of foids you can fool by being a 'social butterfly' if it actually seems genuine. it kind of has to be so it takes some practice and skill I guess. even cucked a guy inadvertently

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

Mirin man. Was this all you did?

Yeah I also started seeking out opportunities to go out with friends and with time I became more social. Took me like two years to really be comfortable and somewhat charismatic though.

 

[Linoob]

If so, then how did you do it

Yes bro, 100%. From shy and narcissistic incel to mostly cool, friendly and charismatic in social situations.

I'll DM you soon btw. Been really busy.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Yes bro, 100%. From shy and narcissistic incel to mostly cool, friendly and charismatic in social situations.

I'll DM you soon btw. Been really busy.

damn man, would definitely be interested to hear it.

and take your time, its no big deal

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Yeah I also started seeking out opportunities to go out with friends and with time I became more social. Took me like two years to really be comfortable and somewhat charismatic though.

did you looksmax at all during this time?

because maybe you became more confident as a result of people treating you better due to your improved looks

 

[coolguy1]

Yes bro, 100%. From shy and narcissistic incel to mostly cool, friendly and charismatic in social situations.

I'll DM you soon btw. Been really busy.

tell us how

 

[JamesHowlett]

Just talk loud and confidently; fake it until you make it.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

Just talk loud and confidently; fake it until you make it.

are you charismatic though? as in has anyone ever told you that?

 

[poloralf]

you need to stack up wins and go david goggins on exposure therapy:
100% Cure (but you pussies wont be able to bear with it):

Roid tan and tats +
change location to new environment +
become a barman or work in a social environment +
join a toastmasters and force yourself to start improv comedy +
Train MMA.
=
Charismatic outspoken bully roided up beastlike low bf winner chad in 6 months.

You'll shit bricks destroy your comfort zone, cry to sleep and go through 100 lifetimes in terms of experience compared to neeting so its for true soldier: inceldiers. those that seriously contemplate sui should do this 100% success rate guaranteed.

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

did you looksmax at all during this time?

because maybe you became more confident as a result of people treating you better due to your improved looks

not really but i used to grow a shitty beard bc i thought i looked awkward without one, so i decided to fully shave off my beard and i had a strong prettyboy halo at 16 that i used to literally stare at myself whenever there was a mirror nearby and i'd get showered in compliments at school. it was a good time tbh.... i should probably get that look again and grow my hair out and shave my beard off.

 

[JamesHowlett]

are you charismatic though? as in has anyone ever told you that?

In social settings when I have enough energy, yes.

 

[coolguy1]

not really but i used to grow a shitty beard bc i thought i looked awkward without one, so i decided to fully shave off my beard and i had a strong prettyboy halo at 16 that i used to literally stare at myself whenever there was a mirror nearby and i'd get showered in compliments at school. it was a good time tbh.... i should probably get that look again and grow my hair out and shave my beard of

Can I see pics in pm?

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

Can I see pics in pm?

look like shit rn but I'll likely post a public rate me thread soon enough

I'm 4.5-5PSL btw, so nothing special

 

[coolguy1]

look like shit rn but I'll likely post a public rate me thread soon enough

I'm 4.5-5PSL btw, so nothing special

Ok good bro, post pics without and with beard

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

Ok good bro, post pics without and with beard

without beard I looked better aesthetically but in terms of attracting chicks a two-day stubble REALLY works well IMHO (in terms of appeal)

 

[Deleted member 2968]

No,althought i am still trying to improve with my incel damaged brain from all childhood traumas and bad development