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So I was standing across the street from my bus stop, just listening to music with my usual resting bitch face (I genuinely just look angry for no reason).


Out of nowhere, this guy rolls up on a ped, stops, and starts looking right at me. I pause my music and yell, "What?"


He goes: "R u good bro?"


Me: "Yeh im good."


Him: "Ur looking at me like im trying to kill u like im an opp."


I just stared back and said, "That's just my face, bro." He smiled, said "alright," and went into a shop.


When he came back out, I was looking off into the distance, not even looking at him. As he got back on his ped, he side-eyed me, and right after that, my bus pulled up so I dipped.

be honest did i handle myself or no, felt like i got walked on my ego took a hit like who tf is he pressing me for? and now im tlaking about in a forum last time someone spoke to me like dis i took him to the corner and sorted him this time i just couldnt be asked for a fight but now im replaying that moment in my head
 
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So I was standing across the street from my bus stop, just listening to music with my usual resting bitch face (I genuinely just look angry for no reason).


Out of nowhere, this guy rolls up on a ped, stops, and starts looking right at me. I pause my music and yell, "What?"


He goes: "R u good bro?"


Me: "Yeh im good."


Him: "Ur looking at me like im trying to kill u like im an opp."


I just stared back and said, "That's just my face, bro." He smiled, said "alright," and went into a shop.


When he came back out, I was looking off into the distance, not even looking at him. As he got back on his ped, he side-eyed me, and right after that, my bus pulled up so I dipped.

be honest did i handle myself or no, felt like i got walked on my ego took a hit like who tf is he pressing me for? and now im tlaking about in a forum last time someone spoke to me like dis i took him to the corner and sorted him this time i just couldnt be asked for a fight but now im replaying that moment in my head
Over + giga dnr
 
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Hes calling you pussy here
🤣🤣🤣🤣 like i just see some random guy swerve his ped he spoke couldnt hear him the first time than i paused music and that how interaction started he kinda was giving of like he was tryna confront me for a fight or some shit than smiled when i deescalated the situation
 
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Nah, just sounds like he was genuinely concerned of you, nothin to do with ego-ing.
 
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So I was standing across the street from my bus stop, just listening to music with my usual resting bitch face (I genuinely just look angry for no reason).


Out of nowhere, this guy rolls up on a ped, stops, and starts looking right at me. I pause my music and yell, "What?"


He goes: "R u good bro?"


Me: "Yeh im good."


Him: "Ur looking at me like im trying to kill u like im an opp."


I just stared back and said, "That's just my face, bro." He smiled, said "alright," and went into a shop.


When he came back out, I was looking off into the distance, not even looking at him. As he got back on his ped, he side-eyed me, and right after that, my bus pulled up so I dipped.

be honest did i handle myself or no, felt like i got walked on my ego took a hit like who tf is he pressing me for? and now im tlaking about in a forum last time someone spoke to me like dis i took him to the corner and sorted him this time i just couldnt be asked for a fight but now im replaying that moment in my head
should have chased after him and killed him
 
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nah imagine he pulled up in a ice cream truck

that’d be really scary
 
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Nah didnt get bitched but why is a rando pulling up on u with a ped lol
2 in the morning by the way was recovering from my broken thumb that i broke against this crackhead just genuinely couldnt be asked for a scrap
 
So I was standing across the street from my bus stop, just listening to music with my usual resting bitch face (I genuinely just look angry for no reason).


Out of nowhere, this guy rolls up on a ped, stops, and starts looking right at me. I pause my music and yell, "What?"


He goes: "R u good bro?"


Me: "Yeh im good."


Him: "Ur looking at me like im trying to kill u like im an opp."


I just stared back and said, "That's just my face, bro." He smiled, said "alright," and went into a shop.


When he came back out, I was looking off into the distance, not even looking at him. As he got back on his ped, he side-eyed me, and right after that, my bus pulled up so I dipped.

be honest did i handle myself or no, felt like i got walked on my ego took a hit like who tf is he pressing me for? and now im tlaking about in a forum last time someone spoke to me like dis i took him to the corner and sorted him this time i just couldnt be asked for a fight but now im replaying that moment in my head
"I'm minding my business. Maybe you should try it. You got a problem besides those fucking pants?"

Something like this should have been your response. And when he came out you should have stared at him till he's out of sight, swiveling your head and not just your eyes to follow him.

He was trying to assert dominance for sure.
 
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"I'm minding my business. Maybe you should try it. You got a problem besides those fucking pants?"

Something like this should have been your response. And when he came out you should have stared at him till he's out of sight, swiveling your head and not just your eyes to follow him.

He was trying to assert dominance for sure.
dat would have been a much better reply and yeh he was defo was trying to assert dominance, did i handle it ok tho
 
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dat would have been a much better reply and yeh he was defo was trying to assert dominance, did i handle it ok tho
No, dont ever explain yourself to people when they do that type of shit. And don't avoid looking at anything because of somebody else. When he left you purposefully avoided looking in his direction right?

It's no big deal. Don't beat yourself up over it. Just live and learn.
 
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dat would have been a much better reply and yeh he was defo was trying to assert dominance, did i handle it ok tho
And don't ever worry about being overly aggressive or assertive with people because you might be mistaking their intentions. You can always apologize afterwards if it turns out they were innocent.

"I'm sorry, I just though you were trying to mess with me or something."

It's no problem. Whether they accept your apology or not says more about them than it does about your initial mistake in handling the interaction.
 
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No, dont ever explain yourself to people when they do that type of shit. And don't avoid looking at anything because of somebody else. When he left you purposefully avoided looking in his direction right?

It's no big deal. Don't beat yourself up over it. Just live and learn.
exactly thats the bit that hit me who is he to check me for looking at him a certain way why tf does me looking at him affect him carry on with your night fucking dickhead, should have just said “no ones worried about u jog on” but what i shouldve, couldve, wouldve done is irrelevant now, just learn from it like u said
 
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exactly thats the bit that hit me who is he to check me for looking at him a certain way why tf does me looking at him affect him carry on with your night fucking dickhead, should have just said “no ones worried about u jog on” but what i shouldve, couldve, wouldve done is irrelevant now, just learn from it like u said
Bingo, you'll be alright. Celebrate mistakes and move on accordingly.
 
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