Did I have my first IOI today? Or is It just my imagination?

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So today I had to meet up with a girl from my class to do a group project. We had barely talked before, but during the meeting she was very friendly with me in a way that felt unusual compared to what I'm used to.

She showed up a bit late and said something like “Sorry I’m late” in a soft tone and added that I seemed really shy. During the time we were working, she was engaging me in conversation, asking me questions, and at a few points lightly touched me while talking (like tapping my arm). She also randomly said something like “You had great hair in your graduation photo, by the way,” referring to my yearbook picture (she saw my email pic) which caught me off guard.

I’ve never really experienced this kind of interaction from girls before, so I’m not sure how to read it. Could these be signs of interest (IOIs), or is it more likely she’s just naturally extroverted and friendly with everyone?

Would appreciate objective thoughts. Thanks.
 
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Yeah
 
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So today I had to meet up with a girl from my class to do a group project. We had barely talked before, but during the meeting she was very friendly with me in a way that felt unusual compared to what I'm used to.

She showed up a bit late and said something like “Sorry I’m late” in a soft tone and added that I seemed really shy. During the time we were working, she was engaging me in conversation, asking me questions, and at a few points lightly touched me while talking (like tapping my arm). She also randomly said something like “You had great hair in your graduation photo, by the way,” referring to my yearbook picture (she saw my email pic) which caught me off guard.

I’ve never really experienced this kind of interaction from girls before, so I’m not sure how to read it. Could these be signs of interest (IOIs), or is it more likely she’s just naturally extroverted and friendly with everyone?

Would appreciate objective thoughts. Thanks.
she probably thinks youre autistic. or she wants you to do the work for her
 
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being attached to a foid and not doing anything is so painful, the moment u see her talking to another guy its over
 
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at a few points lightly touched me while talking (like tapping my arm). She also randomly said something like “You had great hair in your graduation photo, by the way,” referring to my yearbook picture (she saw my email pic) which caught me off guard.
High ioi imo i dont think she would do that for no reason

At the minimum I think shes atleast trying to get closer with u
 
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High ioi imo i dont think she would do that for no reason

At the minimum I think shes atleast trying to get closer with u
Ye but maybe shes just a very extroverted foid
 
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Compliments on hair don't mean shit tbh
 
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Org user discovers human interaction
 
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Could you tell me if im ugly at my threads
 
abdulrahman dumbass you didnt add anything
 
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U need to experiment a little more than that, try and get her socials or smth
 
So today I had to meet up with a girl from my class to do a group project. We had barely talked before, but during the meeting she was very friendly with me in a way that felt unusual compared to what I'm used to.

She showed up a bit late and said something like “Sorry I’m late” in a soft tone and added that I seemed really shy. During the time we were working, she was engaging me in conversation, asking me questions, and at a few points lightly touched me while talking (like tapping my arm). She also randomly said something like “You had great hair in your graduation photo, by the way,” referring to my yearbook picture (she saw my email pic) which caught me off guard.

I’ve never really experienced this kind of interaction from girls before, so I’m not sure how to read it. Could these be signs of interest (IOIs), or is it more likely she’s just naturally extroverted and friendly with everyone?

Would appreciate objective thoughts. Thanks.
She was trying to make you do all the work incel.
 
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With this types of situations u gotta have the balls and ask her out tbh. Ask if she wants to grab a drink or smth.
Foids lose interest quick
 
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It’s a false ioi, she knows giving a starved dork a lil attention will mean she does less work

Same shit they do to their teachers/professors
 
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