Did I have my first IOI today? Or is It just my imagination?

[returnofthecutecel]

So today I had to meet up with a girl from my class to do a group project. We had barely talked before, but during the meeting she was very friendly with me in a way that felt unusual compared to what I'm used to.

She showed up a bit late and said something like “Sorry I’m late” in a soft tone and added that I seemed really shy. During the time we were working, she was engaging me in conversation, asking me questions, and at a few points lightly touched me while talking (like tapping my arm). She also randomly said something like “You had great hair in your graduation photo, by the way,” referring to my yearbook picture (she saw my email pic) which caught me off guard.

I’ve never really experienced this kind of interaction from girls before, so I’m not sure how to read it. Could these be signs of interest (IOIs), or is it more likely she’s just naturally extroverted and friendly with everyone?

Would appreciate objective thoughts. Thanks.

 

[Deleted member 107106]

Yeah

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Yeah

The problem is that I think shes like that with everyone

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Bump

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

The problem is that I think shes like that with everyone

She's not into u bro I'm sorry don't get attached to her

 

[RRM]

So today I had to meet up with a girl from my class to do a group project. We had barely talked before, but during the meeting she was very friendly with me in a way that felt unusual compared to what I'm used to.

She showed up a bit late and said something like “Sorry I’m late” in a soft tone and added that I seemed really shy. During the time we were working, she was engaging me in conversation, asking me questions, and at a few points lightly touched me while talking (like tapping my arm). She also randomly said something like “You had great hair in your graduation photo, by the way,” referring to my yearbook picture (she saw my email pic) which caught me off guard.

I’ve never really experienced this kind of interaction from girls before, so I’m not sure how to read it. Could these be signs of interest (IOIs), or is it more likely she’s just naturally extroverted and friendly with everyone?

Would appreciate objective thoughts. Thanks.

she probably thinks youre autistic. or she wants you to do the work for her

 

[returnofthecutecel]

she probably thinks youre autistic. or she wants you to do the work for her

No man, shes doing the work too so it's not because of that

 

[returnofthecutecel]

She's not into u bro I'm sorry don't get attached to her

Is that because im ugly?

 

[RRM]

No man, shes doing the work too so it's not because of that

than she thinks youre autistic. esspecially if youre shy all the time

 

[returnofthecutecel]

than she thinks youre autistic. esspecially if youre shy all the time

I literally talked two times with her

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

Is that because im ugly?

Maybe I didn't see your face

 

[RRM]

I literally talked two times with her

2 times jfl

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Maybe I didn't say your face

But would a girl touch the arm of a sub5?

 

[Deleted member 127866]

being attached to a foid and not doing anything is so painful, the moment u see her talking to another guy its over

 

[acm]

at a few points lightly touched me while talking (like tapping my arm). She also randomly said something like “You had great hair in your graduation photo, by the way,” referring to my yearbook picture (she saw my email pic) which caught me off guard.

High ioi imo i dont think she would do that for no reason

At the minimum I think shes atleast trying to get closer with u

 

[returnofthecutecel]

High ioi imo i dont think she would do that for no reason

At the minimum I think shes atleast trying to get closer with u

Ye but maybe shes just a very extroverted foid

 

[Deleted member 137787]

Compliments on hair don't mean shit tbh

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

But would a girl touch the arm of a sub5?

Maybe u aren't sub 5

 

[recai iskender]

Org user discovers human interaction

 

[talcel]

But would a girl touch the arm of a sub5?

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Maybe u aren't sub 5

Got rated that here

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Org user discovers human interaction

I never got that feedback from a girl and I'm being honest idk if that's an IOI or not

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

Got rated that here

People here aren't that serious

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Compliments on hair don't mean shit tbh

Are you the discord himmybutler?

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

Org user discovers human interaction

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Could you tell me if im ugly at my threads

 

[recai iskender]

abdulrahman dumbass you didnt add anything

 

[returnofthecutecel]

abdulrahman dumbass you didnt add anything

Could you t lo me if im ugly at my threads

 

[returnofthecutecel]

@Arthur the Egyptian

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

Could you t lo me if im ugly at my threads

You're gonna get raped by Me now

You are at least mmtn

 

[returnofthecutecel]

You're gonna get raped by Me now

You are at least mmtn

And thats enough or not

 

[DarkAscender]

U need to experiment a little more than that, try and get her socials or smth

 

[returnofthecutecel]

U need to experiment a little more than that, try and get her socials or smth

I have her Instagram and number shes lmtb

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

And thats enough or not

Yes w good frame u js autistic and high inhb

 

[recai iskender]

And thats enough or not

Not enough, 6’3+ chadlite or death in 2025

 

[Deleted member 130748]

So today I had to meet up with a girl from my class to do a group project. We had barely talked before, but during the meeting she was very friendly with me in a way that felt unusual compared to what I'm used to.

She showed up a bit late and said something like “Sorry I’m late” in a soft tone and added that I seemed really shy. During the time we were working, she was engaging me in conversation, asking me questions, and at a few points lightly touched me while talking (like tapping my arm). She also randomly said something like “You had great hair in your graduation photo, by the way,” referring to my yearbook picture (she saw my email pic) which caught me off guard.

I’ve never really experienced this kind of interaction from girls before, so I’m not sure how to read it. Could these be signs of interest (IOIs), or is it more likely she’s just naturally extroverted and friendly with everyone?

Would appreciate objective thoughts. Thanks.

She was trying to make you do all the work incel.

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Yes w good frame u js autistic and high inhb

But mtn is just a 5/10 and girls only date higher so only sub5 girls I could pull

 

[returnofthecutecel]

She was trying to make you do all the work incel.

Not true jfl

 

[pprimus43]

Org user discovers human interaction

JFL

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

But mtn is just a 5/10 and girls only date higher so only sub5 girls I could pull

Kill yourself mtn is above average jfl irl

 

[Deleted member 130748]

Not true jfl

So was it a ioi or not bud.

 

[returnofthecutecel]

So was it a ioi or not bud.

Im asking that here...

 

[returnofthecutecel]

Kill yourself mtn is above average jfl irl

Mtn = mid tier normie = definition of average

 

[Arthur the Egyptian]

Mtn = mid tier normie = definition of average

She was nice to you bc u are autistic bro
Ltn is average and I'm talking irl not online

 

[Deleted member 130748]

Im asking that here...

You would know you can see her face and expressions dude if you have to ask it’s probably no.

 

[DarkAscender]

With this types of situations u gotta have the balls and ask her out tbh. Ask if she wants to grab a drink or smth.
Foids lose interest quick

 

[Deleted member 18066]

It’s a false ioi, she knows giving a starved dork a lil attention will mean she does less work

Same shit they do to their teachers/professors

 

[kwjqxlw99]

and added that I seemed really shy.

Over

 

[kasrkin]

ask her if she wants to fuck

 

[returnofthecutecel]

She was nice to you bc u are autistic bro
Ltn is average and I'm talking irl not online

Im not autistic