Did self improvement mindset hold me back?

[Deleted member 19442]

I just went, ‘I’ll do this this and that after doing this this and that’ delaying everything and holding myself back instead of just doing things like a normal person

 

[romanstock]

Same but I didn't really have any other option anyways so it's not like I ever knocked back a night out to workout instead or whatever. I knew to socialise at any opportunity I got. Still availed me naught.