Did you have teen love?

[mulattomaxxer]

As much as it may boost you, teen love can as easily fuck you up. I was a prettyboy and early bloomer, so at age 13 got to lose my virginity and LTR with one of the hottest girl at my school. Sure, I got to experience the admiration of all the other guys my age for being the first, one and all that. I never had to grow up feeling like a retard for not having being laid at a certain age. And ofc, I got some affection. But, without going into details, she turned out to such a mental wreck of a psycho, that I still struggle with depression 10+ years later. On the other hand, one of my friends didn't even kiss someone until he was 20. He and a femcel friend of his(no ugly girl, normal Becky tbh) just decided to fuck, to get the weight off their shoulders. From then on, he has been able to get laid at a reasonable rate, despite being a 5¨9-lowinhib-normie. I would easily have swapped shoes with him if I could have done so.

Brutal tbh, do you think she had bpd? That is unfortunate you ended up dating her. I never considered that you could end up mentally crippled if you end up dating a psycho.

 

[Bobelbrah]

Are you speaking from experience? Dating a crazy girl sounds like hell, I have heard tales.

From experience. That is, having dated crazy girls. It was truly hell, ended up in a psych ward at age 15 because of it, jfl. I assert it is worse than being an adult virgin. The people I know who dated normal girls in their teens mostly seem glad they did, or at least most don't regret it. Although I find many do wish they would have waited to have sex until they met someone they really had a deep connection with(this is certainly true for me as well)

 

[Bobelbrah]

Brutal tbh, do you think she had bpd?

She most definitely had bpd, among other things.

That is unfortunate you ended up dating her. I never considered that you could end up mentally crippled if you end up dating a psycho.

Yeah, imagine at age 13 being able to relate to women who get physically and mentally abused by their husbands/boyfriends. As a guy. Jfl. Srsly, I envy your position. You have the time looksmaxx, work on your personality and to mature. Once you are ready, sleep around if you wish, but be VERY careful about LTR a girl. Courting is not just for the sake the women, it is for the men too. Also, make sure to build a strong mind so you don't tolerate the kind of bullshit like I did. If you ever get weird vibes, leave. Even if you're mentally strong in the beginning, it is possible for crazy people slowly break you down if you let them do so.

 

[JamesHowlett]

I didn’t and mentally I paid the price.

As I’m approaching late 20’s I’m maturing and caring less about it but it still took a toll in my early 20’s.

 

[eduardkoopman]

As much as it may boost you, teen love can as easily fuck you up. I was a prettyboy and early bloomer, so at age 13 got to lose my virginity and LTR with one of the hottest girl at my school. Sure, I got to experience the admiration of all the other guys my age for being the first, one and all that. I never had to grow up feeling like a retard for not having being laid at a certain age. And ofc, I got some affection. But, without going into details, she turned out to such a mental wreck of a psycho, that I still struggle with depression 10+ years later. On the other hand, one of my friends didn't even kiss someone until he was 20. He and a femcel friend of his(no ugly girl, normal Becky tbh) just decided to fuck, to get the weight off their shoulders. From then on, he has been able to get laid at a reasonable rate, despite being a 5¨9-lowinhib-normie. I would easily have swapped shoes with him if I could have done so.

Getting into a relationship with a fucked up person, leaves damage. Brutals

 

[Gargantuan]

No, I was never even able to put in any effort. I am a chronic overthinker so every time I thought of approaching/dating etc. I would end up overanalysing every possible outcome/scenario which would prevent me from putting in any effort in the first place. So I unironically didn't put myself out there, most of the time.
I also started to lose my hair in my late teen years so that pretty much destroyed all of the remaining confidence that I had.

So mentalceldom + balding prevented me from ever experiencing teenage love.

Besides, I only ever liked 1 girl during my teen years and she was taken at the time (her bf mogged me as well, of course) but that's beside the point.

I'm in my early 20s now and still haven't tried to experience any type of love. I've had a hair transplant since but my personality remains unchanged. Although I wouldn't call myself above average in terms of looks (I'm average, normie-tier), I'm getting the impression that my mental problems/personality are a bigger issue than my looks. But those are much harder to change, sadly.

 

[owlofathena]

Ye I'm unironically 16 jfl

Thought you were 24 your another @SubhumanCurrycel

 

[volcelfatcel]

Thought you were 24 your another @SubhumanCurrycel

That picture is actually not me jfl. I'm norwood 0 full head of hair

 

[owlofathena]

No, I was never even able to put in any effort. I am a chronic overthinker so every time I thought of approaching/dating etc. I would end up overanalysing every possible outcome/scenario which would prevent me from putting in any effort in the first place. So I unironically didn't put myself out there, most of the time.
I also started to lose my hair in my late teen years so that pretty much destroyed all of the remaining confidence that I had.

So mentalceldom + balding prevented me from ever experiencing teenage love.

Besides, I only ever liked 1 girl during my teen years and she was taken at the time (her bf mogged me as well, of course) but that's beside the point.

I'm in my early 20s now and still haven't tried to experience any type of love. I've had a hair transplant since but my personality remains unchanged. Although I wouldn't call myself above average in terms of looks (I'm average, normie-tier), I'm getting the impression that my mental problems/personality are a bigger issue than my looks. But those are much harder to change, sadly.

Sounds a lot like me brother

 

[volcelfatcel]

No, I was never even able to put in any effort. I am a chronic overthinker so every time I thought of approaching/dating etc. I would end up overanalysing every possible outcome/scenario which would prevent me from putting in any effort in the first place. So I unironically didn't put myself out there, most of the time.
I also started to lose my hair in my late teen years so that pretty much destroyed all of the remaining confidence that I had.

So mentalceldom + balding prevented me from ever experiencing teenage love.

Besides, I only ever liked 1 girl during my teen years and she was taken at the time (her bf mogged me as well, of course) but that's beside the point.

I'm in my early 20s now and still haven't tried to experience any type of love. I've had a hair transplant since but my personality remains unchanged. Although I wouldn't call myself above average in terms of looks (I'm average, normie-tier), I'm getting the impression that my mental problems/personality are a bigger issue than my looks. But those are much harder to change, sadly.

I overthink a fuck ton, biggest issue I have. I might be way too logical or something I need to think for a while what the fuck I'm gonna do. I don't act instantly

 

[owlofathena]

No, I was never even able to put in any effort. I am a chronic overthinker so every time I thought of approaching/dating etc. I would end up overanalysing every possible outcome/scenario which would prevent me from putting in any effort in the first place. So I unironically didn't put myself out there, most of the time.
I also started to lose my hair in my late teen years so that pretty much destroyed all of the remaining confidence that I had.

So mentalceldom + balding prevented me from ever experiencing teenage love.

Besides, I only ever liked 1 girl during my teen years and she was taken at the time (her bf mogged me as well, of course) but that's beside the point.

I'm in my early 20s now and still haven't tried to experience any type of love. I've had a hair transplant since but my personality remains unchanged. Although I wouldn't call myself above average in terms of looks (I'm average, normie-tier), I'm getting the impression that my mental problems/personality are a bigger issue than my looks. But those are much harder to change, sadly.

Btw where are you from and what race are you/ ancestry

 

[owlofathena]

I overthink a fuck ton, biggest issue I have. I might be way too logical or something I need to think for a while what the fuck I'm gonna do. I don't act instantly

I have always been high inhib but since last year I am beginning to be less high inhib and not giving a fuck lol

 

[volcelfatcel]

I have always been high inhib but since last year I am beginning to be less high inhib and not giving a fuck lol

I'm low inhib but I still overthink, I just can't proceed with anything without analyzing

 

[Gargantuan]

I overthink a fuck ton, biggest issue I have. I might be way too logical or something I need to think for a while what the fuck I'm gonna do. I don't act instantly

Yeah, it sucks. The problem is, most people are very irrational so I find it hard to fit in with their schools of thought, at times.
Mentally/spiritually etc., I'm a very divergent person and my biggest issue isn't even related to things that I believe in (which are the polar opposites of the things that normies believe in) but rather the way I think because it's so rare and virtually no one can relate to it.

There have only been like 3/4 people in my life who truly understand me, and none of them are my family members, even they can't relate to me on that level.

 

[Gargantuan]

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[Gargantuan]

Am Scottish Glasgow native with Nordic surname Holmes

Mirin. I look mostly Paleo-Atlantid (Sean Connery pheno) so I might have roots in that region as well, who knows.

 

[TUSSELEIF]

No, I was never even able to put in any effort. I am a chronic overthinker so every time I thought of approaching/dating etc. I would end up overanalysing every possible outcome/scenario which would prevent me from putting in any effort in the first place. So I unironically didn't put myself out there, most of the time.
I also started to lose my hair in my late teen years so that pretty much destroyed all of the remaining confidence that I had.

So mentalceldom + balding prevented me from ever experiencing teenage love.

Besides, I only ever liked 1 girl during my teen years and she was taken at the time (her bf mogged me as well, of course) but that's beside the point.

I'm in my early 20s now and still haven't tried to experience any type of love. I've had a hair transplant since but my personality remains unchanged. Although I wouldn't call myself above average in terms of looks (I'm average, normie-tier), I'm getting the impression that my mental problems/personality are a bigger issue than my looks. But those are much harder to change, sadly.

Personality is definitely important as well I think. Everyone I know of my peers who had teen love have good sociable and extroverted personalities

 

[owlofathena]

Mirin. I look mostly Paleo-Atlantid (Sean Connery pheno) so I might have roots in that region as well, who knows.

A lot Scottish people have Irish ancestry as well I think it's one of the reasons Celtic football club was formed. My great grandad Holmes was from county mayo so he must have been a descended from the English and Scottish settlers of the plantation of Ireland by English and Scots which then eventually spilt Ireland in two

 

[Gargantuan]

Personality is definitely important as well I think. Everyone I know of my peers who had teen love have good sociable and extroverted personalities

Good point. Anyone who says that looks are literally everything, mentalcels aren't real etc. is a delusional coper.

At the very beginning of my teenage years (just prior to entering high school), I was somewhat extroverted, had lots of friends, got along with pretty much everyone and had a good time in general. Then high school/secondary school came, where I didn't know anyone and therefore I didn't adapt properly and never really got along with anyone during the first year there (which is a crucial stage for your development, I would argue).

Things had gotten better by the time that I entered my second year, as I got to know some people, but as I got to the 3rd year, everything got reshuffled and I was once again put in with new people that I couldn't get along with.

It took me until the start of my 4th year to finally establish a proper social circle again, with close friends, similar to my primary school days, but by this time I had largely turned into an introvert due to a lack of a proper social circle/positive reinforcements for a few years.

I finally became more confident again because of this during year 5&6, but soon after that, my hair started to fall out so that took my confidence way down again.

Unfortunate circumstances, I guess.

 

[CursedOne]

if you are not good looking, you didint had any teenlove. its over

 

[JamesHowlett]

What hurts the most is being better looking now AFTER high school and Uni, when everyone around me is settling down.

 

[Chadethnic101]

What hurts the most is being better looking now AFTER high school and Uni, when everyone around me is settling down.

I'm in the same boat, it's much harder meeting people as no one goes or anymore

 

[Deleted member 6695]

Im kinda sad about cus im desperate and wont get shit

 

[RODEBLUR]

I'm in the same boat, it's much harder meeting people as no one goes or anymore

why is your profile picture a guy from reddit brogress ?

 

[Chadethnic101]

why is your profile picture a guy from reddit brogress ?

Yeah it's my gymcel motivation hope to hit this look in 4-6 months- then may cycle some test for the aesthetic look not sure coz of hair loss sides

 

[RODEBLUR]

Yeah it's my gymcel motivation hope to hit this look in 4-6 months- then may cycle some test for the aesthetic look not sure coz of hair loss sides

His frame was already really good while skinny

 

[AbuSAF]

and

 

[Chadethnic101]

His frame was already really good while skinny

My frame is kinda similar, but I have higher body fat now

 

[RODEBLUR]

My frame is kinda similar, but I have higher body fat now

Mirin

 

[Deleted member 2968]

no i don't live in india. Even if went there i'd be a dead end genetically since my parents don't believe in arranged marriage

That is brutal,
wish you best in life bro,just like every truecel there..We deserve best in afterlife

 

[mewcoper]

i had child love but never have any teen lovd

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I'm still a teen and I hope I don't miss out on it tbh. I just have a few more years

 

[mulattomaxxer]

I'm still a teen and I hope I don't miss out on it tbh. I just have a few more years

Good luck on your ascension bro

 

[Deleted member 14503]

I never had teen love. I was thinking about what I missed out on the past few weeks and it has destroyed me. People say that sex isn't everything yet its the only thing that most people talk about. Teen love is a rite of passage into adulthood, you have teen love so you don't end up as an emotinally crippled dog in their 20s who has never had any sexual experience before. I just feel low value because I have never experienced teen love and I don't know if surgery + gymcelling will actually change that. Am I doomed to live a life of overcompensation and coping if you never experienced sexual love and affection when you were young?

There is something wrong with you if after you reached purberty you never had a sexual relationship. What excuse do you have if you haven't successfully got something your instinctually driven to get.

Let me know if you guys had teen love, and how you think it affected you.

No, I’m Normie tier, which is ugly to women. You’re either ugly or attractive. There is no middle ground.

 

[mulattomaxxer]

No, I’m Normie tier, which is ugly to women. You’re either ugly or attractive. There is no middle ground.

From my personal experience I have seen some normie guys with girlfriends. Its possible but you have to be low inhib. People will sometimes prioritize other factors over looks.

 

[Deleted member 12669]

parents brainwashed me and said fuck looks/girls, studying is the most important thing)

Are u indian?

 

[.👽.]

Are u indian?

no why?

 

[Deleted member 12669]

no why?

It sounded like you were some tryhard indian who had to study 12 hours a day because of ur parents like @Preston

 

[.👽.]

It sounded like you were some tryhard indian who had to study 12 hours a day because of ur parents like @Preston

my dad is some bluepilled 170cm giga religious guy.. say no more

 

[Deleted member 12669]

my dad is some bluepilled 170cm giga religious guy.. say no more

I just realised ur name is gay alien

 

[.👽.]

I just realised ur name is gay alien

umirinbra i paid 4,99€ to some inkwel admin

 

[Deleted member 12669]

umirinbra

No.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

It sounded like you were some tryhard indian who had to study 12 hours a day because of ur parents like @Preston

My parents don't force I genuinely like math.

 

[Deleted member 12669]

My parents don't force I genuinely like math.

Tell me ur indian without saying ur indian

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Tell me ur indian without saying ur indian

I have other interests aswell. Drawing, swimming etc

 

[randomvanish]

yeah i did several times. from 13 to 21. i'm not a loser like @Phillip Jeffries

 

[Deleted member 4430]

. i'm not a loser

said a guy who's on these forums in his thirty

ok, boomer

 

[randomvanish]

said a guy who's on these forums in his thirty

ok, boomer

doesn't matter, i lived, you don't.

also i'm 27

 

[Basedtheticz]

Teen love is so overrated, people on this forum cry about it cus they missed out, but slaying is much more important as an adult.



Had "teen love" for 3 years with some petite cutie artsy indie girl, highschool sweetheart kinda shit, both each others first everything. Don't get me wrong it was nice, but cus you're young and inexperienced the relationship will ultimately fail, due to her being obsessive, clingy, accusing you of cheating, and you wanting to eventually fuck other girls, cus who wants to be with one girl forever?



Or alternatively for the girl eventually hypergamy will kick in and if she's GL she will get the urge to "experience life" and will end up wanting to go through her slut phase which she didn't experience cus of YOU.



Either way someone's heart gets broken or you end up as "best friends" on some cuck shit JFL



It is a nice experience which will prepare you for future LTRs but when your young and assuming you actually have some Test in your veins you should not be settling down and your body will be telling you this. It's against your nature. Teen love is something accessible for even LTN, if you missed out you didn't miss out on much, and personally you are much better attempting to slay and experiencing and socialising with multiple girls rather than just one.



Also the stress of a insecure teen gf (which most teen girls are) is enough to not want to experience that shit again, you will be constantly accused of random bs, she will want to call you at all hours, before bed etc when you'd much rather just be playing vidya. She will want to see you everyday, will try stop you from going out with the boys hahah.



Also teen girls are boring af when you get to know them, they literally sit around on their phones on insta, tiktok, online shopping all day, or they will be going out drinking or for brunch with the girlies etc



You will have to endure her boring complaints about her friends and how something upset her that day.



The cute stuffs nice at first but you will eventually get bored of that cutesy lovey dovey shit after 6-12 months. Also being in a LTR at young age with easy access to pussy means you never have to push yourself out of your comfort zone to compete with other males so you will slack on working out and looksmaxxing and then when the relationship ends you will be left lacking cus you never had to approach and game girls during your teen years.