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Answer only to the title: yes
Sorry for such a cruel answer
Please believe I am definitely not trying to hurt the hearts of your sister's boyfriend and the vast majority of your fellow citizens with disabilities.
It's just that I think instead of saying it out of heart
"How about a physical disability? Having ambition and a lover's heart is the most important thing, isn't it?"
It's irresponsible for these people to have heard it more than once.
So I'd rather tell the truth
Severely hearing impaired
I know very well what it feels like to be emotionally blocked
Maybe some people can immediately find my experience in my past posts
I'm not going to repeat the same old tunes because I really don't want to show off
I just want to say and please believe me I really worked really hard growing up
From the initial correction of oral ability to learning interpersonal communication to feelings
But a lot of things really don't work if you try hard.
When I was young, I liked a girl
In front of her, I tried my best to understand her, make her laugh and accompany her sad
show my best side
Then came an awkward blank period after the almost confession
Finally one day her good friend came and told me:
"Girls like handsome and smart people
Ugly and disgusting, hearing-impaired, can't you look in the mirror with your urine? "
At that time, I clearly realized that I think I should never forget it in my life.
I'm different from normal people
As people age and grow, people learn to modify their words more euphemistically
Gradually I stopped hearing such hurtful words and became:
"You're a nice guy but I don't think there's any reason for us to go any further"
I believe that what they really want to say is actually the same
I've been through this kind of embarrassment more than once in my life
And the friends I know who are also disabled, after expressing their hearts
The end is usually not too far away
So please forgive me again for giving such an unpleasant answer at the beginning
Because harsh truths are so much better than long lies
Imagine if your beloved woman or her family or friends rejected you
I'll deal with you again with humiliating reasons
At this time, if I just tell you:
"It has nothing to do with innate conditions, you should work harder to find true love"
"What about the disabled? Having a motivated and kind heart is the most important thing."
And let you be beaten mercilessly again
So what can I say is helping you?
I think this society is like a factory
And we are produced screws
Screws are graded: ordinary screws lock on ordinary machines
Better screws can lock onto more advanced, more sophisticated instruments
And those screws locked in airplanes, yachts, spaceships
Must use the highest quality materials, the most precise processing and the best heat treatment
top quality manufactured
And we may be born with poor materials, maybe something went wrong in the manufacturing process
become defective
In order to avoid being eliminated, we must try hard to pretend that we can also be locked in ordinary machines.
Even on high-tech precision instruments
Then we said to the assembly workers:
"Even if we're flawed, because I've proven I can be used
I'm not begging you to lock me in the best plane or yacht
But please give us a chance and don't just throw us away, okay?"
After all, we are different from ordinary people
The rights people often talk about don't mean we are entitled to them
Maybe one day someone will see our efforts and give us a chance to get a job, a promotion, a relationship or even a family
Don't take it for granted
Treat it as a gift from God
You'll be better off
No matter how bad the road of life is
You still have to go ahead
mutual encouragement
Sorry for such a cruel answer
Please believe I am definitely not trying to hurt the hearts of your sister's boyfriend and the vast majority of your fellow citizens with disabilities.
It's just that I think instead of saying it out of heart
"How about a physical disability? Having ambition and a lover's heart is the most important thing, isn't it?"
It's irresponsible for these people to have heard it more than once.
So I'd rather tell the truth
Severely hearing impaired
I know very well what it feels like to be emotionally blocked
Maybe some people can immediately find my experience in my past posts
I'm not going to repeat the same old tunes because I really don't want to show off
I just want to say and please believe me I really worked really hard growing up
From the initial correction of oral ability to learning interpersonal communication to feelings
But a lot of things really don't work if you try hard.
When I was young, I liked a girl
In front of her, I tried my best to understand her, make her laugh and accompany her sad
show my best side
Then came an awkward blank period after the almost confession
Finally one day her good friend came and told me:
"Girls like handsome and smart people
Ugly and disgusting, hearing-impaired, can't you look in the mirror with your urine? "
At that time, I clearly realized that I think I should never forget it in my life.
I'm different from normal people
As people age and grow, people learn to modify their words more euphemistically
Gradually I stopped hearing such hurtful words and became:
"You're a nice guy but I don't think there's any reason for us to go any further"
I believe that what they really want to say is actually the same
I've been through this kind of embarrassment more than once in my life
And the friends I know who are also disabled, after expressing their hearts
The end is usually not too far away
So please forgive me again for giving such an unpleasant answer at the beginning
Because harsh truths are so much better than long lies
Imagine if your beloved woman or her family or friends rejected you
I'll deal with you again with humiliating reasons
At this time, if I just tell you:
"It has nothing to do with innate conditions, you should work harder to find true love"
"What about the disabled? Having a motivated and kind heart is the most important thing."
And let you be beaten mercilessly again
So what can I say is helping you?
I think this society is like a factory
And we are produced screws
Screws are graded: ordinary screws lock on ordinary machines
Better screws can lock onto more advanced, more sophisticated instruments
And those screws locked in airplanes, yachts, spaceships
Must use the highest quality materials, the most precise processing and the best heat treatment
top quality manufactured
And we may be born with poor materials, maybe something went wrong in the manufacturing process
become defective
In order to avoid being eliminated, we must try hard to pretend that we can also be locked in ordinary machines.
Even on high-tech precision instruments
Then we said to the assembly workers:
"Even if we're flawed, because I've proven I can be used
I'm not begging you to lock me in the best plane or yacht
But please give us a chance and don't just throw us away, okay?"
After all, we are different from ordinary people
The rights people often talk about don't mean we are entitled to them
Maybe one day someone will see our efforts and give us a chance to get a job, a promotion, a relationship or even a family
Don't take it for granted
Treat it as a gift from God
You'll be better off
No matter how bad the road of life is
You still have to go ahead
mutual encouragement
