Disappointment to GF bc I’m trying to improve myself.

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Okay. I know. I’m an insecure fuck. I was venting to my girlfriend because she’s made it seem like she’s a safe place to talk to and I believe she is. I get into talking about looks and got to the point where I was telling her I cut my mouth for a wider smile (ik it may be cope I was just really desperate), and she said I’m stupid, acting autistic, and disappointing to her. The conversation ended with her saying “Imagine me saying I’m gonna start hitting my face with a hammer over and over” and I said “do you even know what that would signal” while laughing a bit and she said she’s going to bed and hung up on me so the sum of the story is I’m a disappointment and NEVER talk to your girlfriend about your looks. She’ll strike you down on the spot. Jfl. (Also uh what do I say to her now)
 
okay
 
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Okay. I know. I’m an insecure fuck. I was venting to my girlfriend because she’s made it seem like she’s a safe place to talk to and I believe she is. I get into talking about looks and got to the point where I was telling her I cut my mouth for a wider smile (ik it may be cope I was just really desperate), and she said I’m stupid, acting autistic, and disappointing to her. The conversation ended with her saying “Imagine me saying I’m gonna start hitting my face with a hammer over and over” and I said “do you even know what that would signal” while laughing a bit and she said she’s going to bed and hung up on me so the sum of the story is I’m a disappointment and NEVER talk to your girlfriend about your looks. She’ll strike you down on the spot. Jfl. (Also uh what do I say to her now)
most men are friendzoned by their own gf/wife. Once you start talking to your girl as if you and her are friends then shes going to friendzone you subconsciously or consciously, either way women dont fuck guys who they are friendzoned with. So watch out buddyboyo
 
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most men are friendzoned by their own gf/wife. Once you start talking to your girl as if you and her are friends then shes going to friendzone you subconsciously or consciously, either way women dont fuck guys who they are friendzoned with. So watch out buddyboyo
What should I change and how to avoid this?
 
youre a fucking normie what are you even doing here?
 
What should I change and how to avoid this?
it sounds corny but you always have view yourself from her point of view, and assess whether the thing youre saying to her is going to make you look cool, alpha and masculine in her eyes

If im a girl and you tell me that you cut your mouth or smash your face then im going to view you as low self esteem and insecure, now thats my image of you, you ruined the image i have of you.

Good advice is to always lie to your girl or make up stuff that makes you look dominant and masculine, another good tip is that its better to stay quiet than to talk to your girl just for the sake of talking, because talking for the sake of talking about irrelevant shit is what a femoid would do
 
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its incredibly easy to give a girl the ick, and once that shit happens her image of you is busted. its all downhill from there
 
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So my image to her is now chalked?
obviously

heres how you can regain coolness. tell her that youre going to inherit 2 million dollars when your parents die
 
obviously

heres how you can regain coolness. tell her that youre going to inherit 5 million dollars when your parents die
I’m in a well set off family (to the extent of owning jets), she didn’t know about me having money but now that she does is that a factor that’s making her stay only? When she’s talking to her friends about guys that her friends like, whenever the fact they have money comes up, she’s more supportive I feel like?
 
I’m in a well set off family (to the extent of owning jets), she didn’t know about me having money but now that she does is that a factor that’s making her stay only? When she’s talking to her friends about guys that her friends like, whenever the fact they have money comes up, she’s more supportive I feel like?
yes idiot. so tell her that you are rich and ur family is loaded. increase ur value in her eyes
Doesnt even matter if its true, women just like the facade the fantasy
 
Okay. I know. I’m an insecure fuck. I was venting to my girlfriend because she’s made it seem like she’s a safe place to talk to and I believe she is. I get into talking about looks and got to the point where I was telling her I cut my mouth for a wider smile (ik it may be cope I was just really desperate), and she said I’m stupid, acting autistic, and disappointing to her. The conversation ended with her saying “Imagine me saying I’m gonna start hitting my face with a hammer over and over” and I said “do you even know what that would signal” while laughing a bit and she said she’s going to bed and hung up on me so the sum of the story is I’m a disappointment and NEVER talk to your girlfriend about your looks. She’ll strike you down on the spot. Jfl. (Also uh what do I say to her now)
You are very stupid but it’s kinda weird how she made it about herself
 
I’m in a well set off family (to the extent of owning jets), she didn’t know about me having money but now that she does is that a factor that’s making her stay only? When she’s talking to her friends about guys that her friends like, whenever the fact they have money comes up, she’s more supportive I feel like?
Lemme hold a dollar👀
 
You are very stupid but it’s kinda weird how she made it about herself
“I’m not even disappointed anymore, it’s just that I’m angry. You don’t have a brain when it comes to it. You just turn into a zombie. The only thing you care about is your face. You go into such small detail. It’s like me seeing a flaw in my eyelashes and cut them all off and get implants in my eyes. Or I get Botox everywhere. Like I just don’t know how to put it into your head that your face isn’t a fuck up and that you don’t need to take a hammer or knife to your face to fix something people don’t look at except these dumb looksmaxxers guys that are insecure and stupid. Guess what, nobody fucking cares. It’s just stupid. 4 year olds have better common sense than that. And so yeah I’m disappointed and angry and upset. You’re going to just say okay and dismiss everything so I just don’t even share my opinion. It’s not like you change anything. You’re taking advice from other people who are also insecure so it’s a terrible matchup. I’m going to sleep.”- her 5 seconds ago
 
“I’m not even disappointed anymore, it’s just that I’m angry. You don’t have a brain when it comes to it. You just turn into a zombie. The only thing you care about is your face. You go into such small detail. It’s like me seeing a flaw in my eyelashes and cut them all off and get implants in my eyes. Or I get Botox everywhere. Like I just don’t know how to put it into your head that your face isn’t a fuck up and that you don’t need to take a hammer or knife to your face to fix something people don’t look at except these dumb looksmaxxers guys that are insecure and stupid. Guess what, nobody fucking cares. It’s just stupid. 4 year olds have better common sense than that. And so yeah I’m disappointed and angry and upset. You’re going to just say okay and dismiss everything so I just don’t even share my opinion. It’s not like you change anything. You’re taking advice from other people who are also insecure so it’s a terrible matchup. I’m going to sleep.”- her 5 seconds ago
She’s kinda right ngl you should probably take. A break from the looksmaxxing stuff G
 
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