Do girls miss the guy who took their virginity or the best option they have?

[robtical]

what u think

 

[vanillaicecream]

Contrary to what people on this site say, they quickly forget about their first sex, it was nothing but a gateway to the cock carousel. It's usually the men who get hung up on the girl they took her virginity.

 

[robtical]

Contrary to what people on this site say, they quickly forget about their first sex, it was nothing but a gateway to the cock carousel. It's usually the men who get hung up on the girl they took her virginity.

i think so the same. they miss the best option instead of guy who took their virginity. female dont care about their virginity at all

 

[JohnDoe]

I disagree with the users above. Just be first theory is legit. When girls lose their virginity, their body releases the maximum amount of oxytocin, this is the pair-bonding chemical your body releases. Mothers release it right after they give birth so they can bond with their baby, and so do women when they lose their virginity, it's associated with sexual arousal, trust and romantic attachment. The more partners a woman has, the less this chemical is released. It's why women with a high number of partners struggle to really bond with their partners. It's also why women are forever bonded with the man who took their virginity. They remember the first guy for life and to say otherwise is cope. You can't cheat the way our bodies work, we're not supposed to have many partners.

You take a girls virginity and she'll be obsessed with you. She can't help it, her body is telling her to follow you as she has bonded with you. Her body will release chemicals just by looking at you. If you don't marry a virgin girl, you're cucking yourself.

Tldr: just be first theory is legit

 

[robtical]

I disagree with the users above. Just be first theory is legit. When girls lose their virginity, their body releases the maximum amount of oxytocin, this is the pair-bonding chemical your body releases. Mothers release it right after they give birth so they can bond with their baby, and so do women when they lose their virginity, it's associated with sexual arousal, trust and romantic attachment. The more partners a woman has, the less this chemical is released. It's why women with a high number of partners struggle to really bond with their partners. It's also why women are forever bonded with the man who took their virginity. They remember the first guy for life and to say otherwise is cope. You can't cheat the way our bodies work, we're not supposed to have many partners.

You take a girls virginity and she'll be obsessed with you. She can't help it, her body is telling her to follow you as she has bonded with you. Her body will release chemicals just by looking at you. If you don't marry a virgin girl, you're cucking yourself.

Tldr: just be first theory is legit

Yes, having more partner is bad. this thread is not about that at all. If virginity makes her obsessed with you, why are there so many examples female leaving their "first" and move on with no care. As well as monkey branching.

Its a guy thing. they think taking their virginity makes them special, but for female you are just another guy. And will be mogged by the best option she had. So far its you, but some other person who mogs your smv, then she will monkey branch.


You think your muslim pure mum who lost virginity to your dad will not leave if brad pitt comes in a expensive car and ask her out? She will, i doubt brad pitt give a shit about your mum.

This thread is a simple case, female had 5 lifetime partners. 1st took her virginity, but 3rd was her best option. Is she gonna miss the 1st or 3rd on the deathbed?

 

[JohnDoe]

Yes, having more partner is bad. this thread is not about that at all. If virginity makes her obsessed with you, why are there so many examples female leaving their "first" and move on with no care. As well as monkey branching.

Its a guy thing. they think taking their virginity makes them special, but for female you are just another guy. And will be mogged by the best option she had. So far its you, but some other person who mogs your smv, then she will monkey branch.


You think your muslim pure mum who lost virginity to your dad will not leave if brad pitt comes in a expensive car and ask her out? She will, i doubt brad pitt give a shit about your mum.

This thread is a simple case, female had 5 lifetime partners. 1st took her virginity, but 3rd was her best option. Is she gonna miss the 1st or 3rd on the deathbed?

There are no guarantees in life besides death. Even if her body has released high levels of oxytocin and is essentially telling her via hormones that she needs to follow you, she can still go against that, go against what her body is telling her and still move on or do something abnormal. Actually on a grander scale, I'd bet there are a significantly high number of women who married and stayed with their first and only guy. I'm not just talking about the last decade or two where hypergamy/hook-up culture skyrocketed. It's not a guy thing, we release oxytocin too but not nearly to the same level as women.
My or any real muslim woman would not even think of such a disgraceful thing, i can assure you of this. You're mistaking muslim women for western women who most likely would leave their husband for brad pitt. Such a bizarre comment clearly not knowing the values muslims carry.
The point is she wouldn't get to the 3rd or 5th partner because she would not leave her first. Why that happened in certain situations? Who knows. Maybe the guy ditched or any number of reasons but that doesn't mean her body wasn't telling her to follow and be with the first guy.

 

[Deleted member 24410]

No not really tbh. They usually forget about him because they already have 20 more bodies a month later.

 

[robtical]

There are no guarantees in life besides death. Even if her body has released high levels of oxytocin and is essentially telling her via hormones that she needs to follow you, she can still go against that, go against what her body is telling her and still move on or do something abnormal. Actually on a grander scale, I'd bet there are a significantly high number of women who married and stayed with their first and only guy. I'm not just talking about the last decade or two where hypergamy/hook-up culture skyrocketed. It's not a guy thing, we release oxytocin too but not nearly to the same level as women.
My or any real muslim woman would not even think of such a disgraceful thing, i can assure you of this. You're mistaking muslim women for western women who most likely would leave their husband for brad pitt. Such a bizarre comment clearly not knowing the values muslims carry.
The point is she wouldn't get to the 3rd or 5th partner because she would not leave her first. Why that happened in certain situations? Who knows. Maybe the guy ditched or any number of reasons but that doesn't mean her body wasn't telling her to follow and be with the first guy.

you are coping hard. Bigger fish gives her far more oxytocin/dopamine than she released with her first when he took virginity. Yes there are significantly high number who married and stayed with their first, its because no bigger option bothered with them. You are big coper, AWALT. Its matter of whether they ignore their biology/human nature and settle. Most muslim men with their first wife are bullied in their marriage. I know pakistani muslim girls here too who migrated from pakistan to where i live through marriage. they dress conservatively and have black duppata/hijab on head. They thirst for kaffir who mog their husband. They have zero attraction to their husband, even though he had sex with them and was their first. Ofc, the kaffir has no interest in the non well dressed pakistani girl, gling or not. Big coping with muslim values.

 

[robtical]

No not really tbh. They usually forget about him because they already have 20 more bodies a month later.

Question is they remember the first or their best option?

 

[UglyAsHell]

I disagree with the users above. Just be first theory is legit. When girls lose their virginity, their body releases the maximum amount of oxytocin, this is the pair-bonding chemical your body releases. Mothers release it right after they give birth so they can bond with their baby, and so do women when they lose their virginity, it's associated with sexual arousal, trust and romantic attachment. The more partners a woman has, the less this chemical is released. It's why women with a high number of partners struggle to really bond with their partners. It's also why women are forever bonded with the man who took their virginity. They remember the first guy for life and to say otherwise is cope. You can't cheat the way our bodies work, we're not supposed to have many partners.

You take a girls virginity and she'll be obsessed with you. She can't help it, her body is telling her to follow you as she has bonded with you. Her body will release chemicals just by looking at you. If you don't marry a virgin girl, you're cucking yourself.

Tldr: just be first theory is legit

How does the oxytocin know the dick is not the same?

 

[UglyAsHell]

The Best option btw
The akward looking 16 years old full of pimples or square jaw 6'5 Chad with 1 m in the Bank account? Bffr

 

[Gengar]

I disagree with the users above. Just be first theory is legit. When girls lose their virginity, their body releases the maximum amount of oxytocin, this is the pair-bonding chemical your body releases. Mothers release it right after they give birth so they can bond with their baby, and so do women when they lose their virginity, it's associated with sexual arousal, trust and romantic attachment. The more partners a woman has, the less this chemical is released. It's why women with a high number of partners struggle to really bond with their partners. It's also why women are forever bonded with the man who took their virginity. They remember the first guy for life and to say otherwise is cope. You can't cheat the way our bodies work, we're not supposed to have many partners.

You take a girls virginity and she'll be obsessed with you. She can't help it, her body is telling her to follow you as she has bonded with you. Her body will release chemicals just by looking at you. If you don't marry a virgin girl, you're cucking yourself.

Tldr: just be first theory is legit

This. Just be first is law.

 

[ElySioNs]

Dont believe the bullshit being said above, taking a girls virginity is not a guarantee she will stay with you or be obsessed with you. Lots of guys that have been cucked with the girl they took the virginity of because the woman got curious about what its like to sleep with other people as well or just straight up lost attraction to the guy and break up

 

[robtical]

This. Just be first is law.

look @ my reply to him above. JBF is cope. Its an illusion that stays because a better option have not try to get with her.

 

[robtical]

Dont believe the bullshit being said above, taking a girls virginity is not a guarantee she will stay with you or be obsessed with you. Lots of guys that have been cucked with the girl they took the virginity of because the woman got curious about what its like to sleep with other people as well or just straight up lost attraction to the guy and break up

I am saying this also. But its the 2 muslim pakistani virgins who think JBF is the legit one. Waiting for 3rd muslim pakistani to come and say JBF.

 

[robtical]

@Amnesia @averagejoe @PrinceLuenLeoncur @forevergymcelling @Chinacurry

 

[Gengar]

look @ my reply to him above. JBF is cope. Its an illusion that stays because a better option have not try to get with her.

I saw your reply but JBF is law. Women (and men) never forget their first. Those who argue this only do so as a coping mechanism to deal with the fact they’re nothing but a number in line for their partner. Also, I saw you used South Asians in your example. PDA goes against South Asian culture, so that is completely irrelevant. Assuming you live in a first world country, they have enough rights and privileges to abandon their husbands. Nothing is stopping them but themselves, since they don’t crave other men like you think they do. If they did we would see an increase in divorce rates or whatever.

 

[Gengar]

I am saying this also. But its the 2 muslim pakistani virgins who think JBF is the legit one. Waiting for 3rd muslim pakistani to come and say JBF.

Not sure what point you think you’re proving. You do realize if I wanted to lose my v card I could do that any moment, right?

 

[robtical]

I saw your reply but JBF is law. Women (and men) never forget their first. Those who argue this only do so as a coping mechanism to deal with the fact they’re nothing but a number in line for their partner. Also, I saw you used South Asians in your example. PDA goes against South Asian culture, so that is completely irrelevant. Assuming you live in a first world country, they have enough rights and privileges to abandon their husbands. Nothing is stopping them but themselves, since they don’t crave other men like you think they do. If they did we would see an increase in divorce rates or whatever.

Its not a matter of forget. Its more like who they miss more. The best option or the first. Even the guy they desired but did not get could come into the option. While you call coping mechanism to those who think they remember the best option, same could be said that you think you are special because you are her first so she will remember you. Yet there are countless real life situation where they move on from first like nothing and even monkeybranching.

What do you mean goes against south asian culture? How is that relevant? You think south asian culture girls wont leave their husband if the celebrity/actor they simped for came, told them leave husband and get with him. They will because that is what they desire, while the JBF can be someone they are adjusting to, for the lack of better option. No JBF coping is going to help bald, meek, ugly, small manlet dude. If it is all matter of oxytocin, injecting them with oxytocin in your relationship would solve all the cheating in world maybe.

What is PDA?

 

[Gengar]

Its not a matter of forget. Its more like who they miss more. The best option or the first. Even the guy they desired but did not get could come into the option. While you call coping mechanism to those who think they remember the best option, same could be said that you think you are special because you are her first so she will remember you. Yet there are countless real life situation where they move on from first like nothing and even monkeybranching.

What do you mean goes against south asian culture? How is that relevant? You think south asian culture girls wont leave their husband if the celebrity/actor they simped for came, told them leave husband and get with him. They will because that is what they desire, while the JBF can be someone they are adjusting to, for the lack of better option. No JBF coping is going to help bald, meek, ugly, small manlet dude.

What is PDA?

PDA is public display of affection. So hand-holding, hugging, et cetera. You’re Arabic, right? I don’t see Arabic couples doing this stuff either because it’s not normal for us. Doesn’t mean that they don’t love each other. Having said that, it seems we are arguing two different things here. Anyone can replace someone, to a lesser degree, but generally it does come with emotional baggage from earlier relationships.

 

[OverCoper]

The only legit answer: some of them yes, some of them no. I had three virgins in my life, they don't give a fuck about my existence after a couple of years. I'm sure some of them feel bad that they lost it with me, but not with their real crash.

 

[robtical]

PDA is public display of affection. So hand-holding, hugging, et cetera. You’re Arabic, right? I don’t see Arabic couples doing this stuff either because it’s not normal for us. Doesn’t mean that they don’t love each other. Having said that, it seems we are arguing two different things here. Anyone can replace someone, to a lesser degree, but generally it does come with emotional baggage from earlier relationships.

Yes it comes with emotional baggage, I am not denying that. Its a matter of who they miss more. I understand PDA is not happening but when foid simps for the guy she wants to be with than the JBF. Im not stupid to not be able to interpret the signs. Disrespecting the JBF and simping for other guy, its all a matter of whether guy makes the move or not.

 

[robtical]

bump

 

[JohnDoe]

How does the oxytocin know the dick is not the same?

The same way our bodies know we aren't having sex when we masturbate due to pheromones. The body knows and there's a lot more to it than what appears the surface. It's also not the oxytocin that differentiates, it's the amount of oxytocin released is what matters. How exactly does our body identify different partners? Through many ways. Each person has different pheromones and much more. I know one thing for certain, the more partners you have, the lower your pair-bonding ability aka oxytocin, it's probably burnt out. And being first does matter.

 

[robtical]

The same way our bodies know we aren't having sex when we masturbate due to pheromones. The body knows and there's a lot more to it than what appears the surface. It's also not the oxytocin that differentiates, it's the amount of oxytocin released is what matters. How exactly does our body identify different partners? Through many ways. Each person has different pheromones and much more. I know one thing for certain, the more partners you have, the lower your pair-bonding ability aka oxytocin, it's probably burnt out. And being first does matter.

Its not that the body knows. Its that there is no oxytocin present in the masturbation.

 

[JohnDoe]

you are coping hard. Bigger fish gives her far more oxytocin/dopamine than she released with her first when he took virginity. Yes there are significantly high number who married and stayed with their first, its because no bigger option bothered with them. You are big coper, AWALT. Its matter of whether they ignore their biology/human nature and settle. Most muslim men with their first wife are bullied in their marriage. I know pakistani muslim girls here too who migrated from pakistan to where i live through marriage. they dress conservatively and have black duppata/hijab on head. They thirst for kaffir who mog their husband. They have zero attraction to their husband, even though he had sex with them and was their first. Ofc, the kaffir has no interest in the non well dressed pakistani girl, gling or not. Big coping with muslim values.

You're projecting. The coping is entirely on your part. Most muslim men are bullied in their first marriage? Jfl where did you get this nonsense from? Pakistsni married women thirsting for kafirs while dressed in islamic clothing? Again this is nonsense. You probably saw a woman in hijab looking at a white guy and now presume this is the case for all our women which is completely false. You must be Indian, there's no other reason to spout such rubbish which we both know isn't true. Then again i should have stopped replying after your infantile example of my mother leaving my father if she met brad pitt. How absurd is that? I'll tell you one thing, I'd bet the chances of your mother/non muslim women leaving their husband for pitt is 1000x higher.
Just sounds like hindu/anti-islam cope to me. Muslim women are the most loyal women on the planet compared to any other religion. Nitpicking does not change this.

 

[JohnDoe]

Its not that the body knows. Its that there is no oxytocin present in the masturbation.

Ofc not because you're not in contact with a woman.

 

[robtical]

You're projecting. The coping is entirely on your part. Most muslim men are bullied in their first marriage? Jfl where did you get this nonsense from? Pakistsni married women thirsting for kafirs while dressed in islamic clothing? Again this is nonsense. You probably saw a woman in hijab looking at a white guy and now presume this is the case for all our women which is completely false. You must be Indian, there's no other reason to spout such rubbish which we both know isn't true. Then again i should have stopped replying after your infantile example of my mother leaving my father if she met brad pitt. How absurd is that? I'll tell you one thing, I'd bet the chances of your mother/non muslim women leaving their husband for pitt is 1000x higher.
Just sounds like hindu/anti-islam cope to me. Muslim women are the most loyal women on the planet compared to any other religion. Nitpicking does not change this.

I heard from pakistani friends that wife dont treat well and have princess syndrome. Its not them thirsting for kaffir, its them thirsting for the guy who mog their ugly/manlet/bald husband they had to marry to move to better opportunity country. There is no attraction there. I have seen many cases of these girls going googly eyes/eye fucking, i am not going to make excuses and cope saying there is no attraction. I never said this is case for all women, i said JBF is cope if u are not chad.

 

[JohnDoe]

I am saying this also. But its the 2 muslim pakistani virgins who think JBF is the legit one. Waiting for 3rd muslim pakistani to come and say JBF.

No one said it was a guarantee, i even explained as much in my first reply. If it was, no woman would have a 2nd partner. JBF is real and anyone who says otherwise is a coping teenager who doesn't know anything about life.
Have fun with your future wife who has double digit body count and can't pair-bond, oh and she'll remember the guy who took her virginity and how thrilling and full of oxytocin she was while she lays there for you in the starfish position

 

[JohnDoe]

I heard from pakistani friends that wife dont treat well and have princess syndrome. Its not them thirsting for kaffir, its them thirsting for the guy who mog their ugly/manlet/bald husband they had to marry to move to better opportunity country. There is no attraction there. I have seen many cases of these girls going googly eyes/eye fucking, i am not going to make excuses and cope saying there is no attraction. I never said this is case for all women, i said JBF is cope if u are not chad.

JBF is not cope, your entire experience on this subject is something you heard from your alleged pakistani friends. It has nobasis in reality because 1 or 2 guys said their wives are like this. They don't thirst for anyone, attraction is formed over time but even then it's silly to say all girls who marry guys less attractive than themselves aren't attracted them. Initial attraction or it comes after. You don't know anything friendo

 

[robtical]

No one said it was a guarantee, i even explained as much in my first reply. If it was, no woman would have a 2nd partner. JBF is real and anyone who says otherwise is a coping teenager who doesn't know anything about life.
Have fun with your future wife who has double digit body count and can't pair-bond, oh and she'll remember the guy who took her virginity and how thrilling and full of oxytocin she was while she lays there for you in the starfish position

??? I have zero interest in ever wifing. Even if i do its virgin only. I am not coping, you are. You think being first means you are special, you are not. She will think of best option over the first because he gave her most dopamine n oxytocin. Subhuman could take virginity of girl and induce less than half of oxytocin than the best option who she is obsessed with.

 

[robtical]

JBF is not cope, your entire experience on this subject is something you heard from your alleged pakistani friends. It has nobasis in reality because 1 or 2 guys said their wives are like this. They don't thirst for anyone, attraction is formed over time but even then it's silly to say all girls who marry guys less attractive than themselves aren't attracted them. Initial attraction or it comes after. You don't know anything friendo

LOL, attraction is formed over time. Case closed. You are coping. 7 dudes saying its most of houses. Sure wifey does housework and gives sex. but she is bitchy and makes life hell.

 

[JohnDoe]

??? I have zero interest in ever wifing. Even if i do its virgin only. I am not coping, you are. You think being first means you are special, you are not. She will think of best option over the first because he gave her most dopamine n oxytocin. Subhuman could take virginity of girl and induce less than half of oxytocin than the best option who she is obsessed with.

We will agree to disagree since we aren't getting anywhere. There's a reason virginity/chastity was so valued and a necessity/pre-requisite for centuries.

 

[JohnDoe]

LOL, attraction is formed over time. Case closed. You are coping. 7 dudes saying its most of houses. Sure wifey does housework and gives sex. but she is bitchy and makes life hell.

I meant for women who married a guy to come to the west and didn't have any real attraction initially and then formedattraction over time. How? Because they lost their virginity, physical contact etc. So now you know 7 pakistanis? Okay. All women are bitchy, you must not be around women often.

 

[robtical]

I meant for women who married a guy to come to the west and didn't have any real attraction initially and then formedattraction over time. How? Because they lost their virginity, physical contact etc. So now you know 7 pakistanis? Okay. All women are bitchy, you must not be around women often.

I know more than 7 but those 7 i have talked to told me all that. All women are not bitchy, most are nice to strangers and me especially cuz im GLing and masc(probably includes public image factor too). "Form attraction over time", no amount of bonding is gonna compensate for your ugly self and form attraction. You could you do everything right yet get no oxytocin release in foid cuz female is disgusted by your existance, while chad has to just exist and the hormones are released. No women who married for sake of money to you is gonna be attracted to you. stop coping. All the attraction is based on what your money can do to her thats it.

 

[Gengar]

have princess syndrome

Deathnik foids in a nutshell.

 

[JohnDoe]

I know more than 7 but those 7 i have talked to told me all that. All women are not bitchy, most are nice to strangers and me especially cuz im GLing and masc(probably includes public image factor too). "Form attraction over time", no amount of bonding is gonna compensate for your ugly self and form attraction. You could you do everything right yet get no oxytocin release in foid cuz female is disgusted by your existance, while chad has to just exist and the hormones are released. No women who married for sake of money to you is gonna be attracted to you. stop coping. All the attraction is based on what your money can do to her thats it.

Oxytocin WILL be released when she has sex with her husband who took her virginity regardless of him not being chad, also physical contact. You realize women can learn to love their husbands even if they don't at the start of an arranged marriage. Love and attraction go hand-in-hand. Pair-bonding is the key to a succesful and happy marriage and the man who takes her virginity has the highest chance at such a marriage, chemically/biologically speaking due to oxytocin.
JBF IS LAW. THE END.

 

[robtical]

Deathnik foids in a nutshell.

Fr, they rant about how her family member have huge interest in their life and influence over her. Like entire family trapped him into marriage and use him for family sake.

 

[robtical]

Oxytocin WILL be released when she has sex with her husband who took her virginity regardless of him not being chad, also physical contact. You realize women can learn to love their husbands even if they don't at the start of an arranged marriage. Love and attraction go hand-in-hand. Pair-bonding is the key to a succesful and happy marriage and the man who takes her virginity has the highest chance at such a marriage, chemically/biologically speaking due to oxytocin.

Yet those wifes are eyefucking other guys. Stop coping, they are just trying to monkeybranch. No one loves low status ugly bald manlet. Its their money they love or what social utility he give.

 

[JohnDoe]

Yet those wifes are eyefucking other guys. Stop coping, they are just trying to monkeybranch. No one loves low status ugly bald manlet. Its their money they love or what social utility he give.

Eyefucking? Says who? Just stop already

 

[robtical]

Eyefucking? Says who? Just stop already

i say so. i am a gling masc man myself so i know.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Deathnik foids in a nutshell.

Average food loses virginity at 15 so impossible to run jbf

 

[Gengar]

Average food loses virginity at 15 so impossible to run jbf

15 is way too low. Its definitely higher than that; but maybe lower in cuckmerica.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

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15 is way too low. Its definitely higher than that; but maybe lower in cuckmerica.

15 is way too low. Its definitely higher than that; but maybe lower in cuckmerica.

16-17 but 99% by 19-20

 

[Gengar]

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16-17 but 99% by 19-20

By 20 none of them are virgin.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

By 20 none of them are virgin.

That’s why it’s over

 

[UglyAsHell]

We will agree to disagree since we aren't getting anywhere. There's a reason virginity/chastity was so valued and a necessity/pre-requisite for centuries.

It was because there were not DNA tests ans you would like to know if you were the father or a "cornuto"

 

[Deleted member 30402]

Most girls lose their virginity in high school and the dating pool in high school is far more limited. They quickly forget about that guy as soon as they go off to university and install tinder, giving them far greater access to high quality genetic stock males.

 

[UglyAsHell]

Eyefucking? Says who? Just stop already

Cope harder, i have always said that islam is cope pill

 

[horizontallytall]

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