do i just ask her out atp?

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2 month talking stage, shes been acting rly weird and confusing, she already knows i like her but i still dont really know how she feels. used to flirt alot and hint to each other, call everynight, talk all the time. now somedays we barely even text. contemplating on flat out just asking her how she feels because i still really like her but dont know how she feels. what the fuck do i do please help
 
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Yeah your time has gone its too late now unless you want to be rejected
 
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bump
 
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2 month talking stage, shes been acting rly weird and confusing, she already knows i like her but i still dont really know how she feels. used to flirt alot and hint to each other, call everynight, talk all the time. now somedays we barely even text. contemplating on flat out just asking her how she feels because i still really like her but dont know how she feels. what the fuck do i do please help
HELP PLEASE
 
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How old is she
 
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Yeah go for it
 
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give up, it’s OVER.

why would you wait that long + the woman should never be weird around you, if anything she should want you more than you want her
 
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2 month talking stage, shes been acting rly weird and confusing, she already knows i like her but i still dont really know how she feels. used to flirt alot and hint to each other, call everynight, talk all the time. now somedays we barely even text. contemplating on flat out just asking her how she feels because i still really like her but dont know how she feels. what the fuck do i do please help
Honestly bro she's gone just go next fast and don't wait so long
 
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Honestly bro she's gone just go next fast and don't wait so long
idk bc ik shes been plotting on me for awhile and i was talking to one of her friends and she said that she was always nervous talking to me so imma just ask tomorrow and see what happens
 
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update?
 
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IMG 1168
 
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she said no and i genuinely feel empty. the only girl i’ve actually felt a connection with just led me on and said shes not looking to date. wasted 2 months of my life always focused on her, felt like ive even lost the connection with my close friends. dont know what to do anymore
 
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“We barely even text” just find a new girl atp
 
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“We barely even text” just find a new girl atp
no girl like her bro shes the first person the make me feel s genuine emotion in years
 
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no girl like her bro shes the first person the make me feel s genuine emotion in years
Try getting back to that point where u guys were actively engaging. Asking her out now is like guaranteed rejection
 
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Try getting back to that point where u guys were actively engaging. Asking her out now is like guaranteed rejection
asked her out earlier today and she said shes not ready for a relationship. actually crushed i teared up for the first time in years
 
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asked her out earlier today and she said shes not ready for a relationship. actually crushed i teared up for the first time in years
U jus fucked it, your relationship with her might never be the same lol
 
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She’s playing you wrap it up nigha and move on a girl will make it obvious she likes you and not fuck around hinting
 
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she said no and i genuinely feel empty. the only girl i’ve actually felt a connection with just led me on and said shes not looking to date. wasted 2 months of my life always focused on her, felt like ive even lost the connection with my close friends. dont know what to do anymore
you didn't waste anything bro. think of the fun times you had, use it as xp and just go next. the next bitch will have you feeling the same way.
 
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make sure you insult her flaws
 
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2 month talking stage, shes been acting rly weird and confusing, she already knows i like her but i still dont really know how she feels. used to flirt alot and hint to each other, call everynight, talk all the time. now somedays we barely even text. contemplating on flat out just asking her how she feels because i still really like her but dont know how she feels. what the fuck do i do please help
Well there are a lot of ways to know if a girl likes u, most of them are in real life. Thats if you want to secure it

Id honestly ask her out, missing the opportunity might be worse thing
 
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Well there are a lot of ways to know if a girl likes u, most of them are in real life. Thats if you want to secure it

Id honestly ask her out, missing the opportunity might be worse thing
basically i did she said shes not ready for a relationship, i overreacted and i unadded her, she blocked me, i texted her lil brother to tell her to unblock me and thats where we are now

but its weird because shes always nervous and shy around me in person but over the phone we can talk and call for hours, falling asleep otp everynight, hinting at each other, even the small things, like just having normal eye contact and both smiling at each other. she really confuses me sometimes but i really like her so im gonna keep going after her until theres a real ending. (good or bad)
 
you didn't waste anything bro. think of the fun times you had, use it as xp and just go next. the next bitch will have you feeling the same way.
im trying again with her. gonna try and build up what we had again and make it better
 
i thank everyone that responded it really opened my eyes and gave me different perspectives. thank you
 
basically i did she said shes not ready for a relationship, i overreacted and i unadded her, she blocked me, i texted her lil brother to tell her to unblock me and thats where we are now

but its weird because shes always nervous and shy around me in person but over the phone we can talk and call for hours, falling asleep otp everynight, hinting at each other, even the small things, like just having normal eye contact and both smiling at each other. she really confuses me sometimes but i really like her so im gonna keep going after her until theres a real ending. (good or bad)
If a girl really likes u, u should have no doubt about it if you do have doubts its prolly cause she doesnt really likes u
 
If a girl really likes u, u should have no doubt about it if you do have doubts its prolly cause she doesnt really likes u
i had no doubt in the first month or so of talking but this last week it just really slowed down. her mental health has been really bad lately so i feel like a dick with how ive treated her for the past few days. i dont know, gonna try again and see what happens, if it breaks down again ill just move on
 
i had no doubt in the first month or so of talking but this last week it just really slowed down. her mental health has been really bad lately so i feel like a dick with how ive treated her for the past few days. i dont know, gonna try again and see what happens, if it breaks down again ill just move on
I mean u got rejected, then unnadded her and then u are asking her lil bro to tell her to unblock you. U clearly dont know how females work, idk how old you are but I would tell u to move on cuz in the situation u are with that girl its almost unfixeable. I dont want to say any bp’ed shit but if she doesnt like u she just doesnt like u
 
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I mean u got rejected, then unnadded her and then u are asking her lil bro to tell her to unblock you. U clearly dont know how females work, idk how old you are but I would tell u to move on cuz in the situation u are with that girl its almost unfixeable. I dont want to say any bp’ed shit but if she doesnt like u she just doesnt like u
im probably gonna come back to this and say you were right but im still gonna try one more time
 
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you are like a dog nigga, u got rejected like 4 times and still try to pull her. like a little pussy you do everything for a girl who doesn’t even love you. what the fuck you tryna build up again , in the end she will reject you like always. don’t chase bitches chase money 💰
 
No, put a child in her and leave the country
 
you are like a dog nigga, u got rejected like 4 times and still try to pull her. like a little pussy you do everything for a girl who doesn’t even love you. what the fuck you tryna build up again , in the end she will reject you like always. don’t chase bitches chase money 💰
she rejected me once bro not 4 times😭
 
I didn't read your responses but I think it's generally just bad to try to debate any woman into a relationship. They will always use this as an easy out and it makes her feel like she is being cajoled. Zoomer girls are particularly sensitive to perceived manipulation.
 
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I didn't read your responses but I think it's generally just bad to try to debate any woman into a relationship. They will always use this as an easy out and it makes her feel like she is being cajoled. Zoomer girls are particularly sensitive to perceived manipulation.
slowly learning this
 
I mean u got rejected, then unnadded her and then u are asking her lil bro to tell her to unblock you. U clearly dont know how females work, idk how old you are but I would tell u to move on cuz in the situation u are with that girl its almost unfixeable. I dont want to say any bp’ed shit but if she doesnt like u she just doesnt like u
you were right man found out from her friend that shes just been talking shit and saying im desperate. just move on ig
 
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2 month talking stage, shes been acting rly weird and confusing, she already knows i like her but i still dont really know how she feels. used to flirt alot and hint to each other, call everynight, talk all the time. now somedays we barely even text. contemplating on flat out just asking her how she feels because i still really like her but dont know how she feels. what the fuck do i do please help
Grind up birth control and sneak it in in her water that could be why she lost interest
 
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you were right man found out from her friend that shes just been talking shit and saying im desperate. just move on ig
yeah, obviously, move on. Id recommend u to totally forget about her, dont even block her, just ignore her existence and if u do right while she isnt in ur life she will come back:feelsgood:
 
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yeah the ship has sailed you waited too long. primetime is between 2-3 for your future. block her and move on
 

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