Do I tell my parents the truth?

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They basically sat me down today asking me why I'm so anti-social, don't have any friends, why I cut off my friends from school. Why I don't want to go to uni etc.
They tell me how they're worried about me and worry if I'm depressed etc. This is about the third time they've done this this month

I just give them vague responses or just lie. My response is generally just 'idk'

But the true reason why I have isolated myself:
I'm very insecure and have very little social skills. I'm 5'7 (171cm) and have always hated my height and been wearing shoe lifts since I was 12 (im 20 now). My insecurity is just getting worse now to the point where I don't even want to leave me house. I cut off my friends because they weren't really my friends, just people I hung out with at school so when school ended I was a loner.


So I guess my question is do I just go on a big incel rage at my parents and tell them the truth: That the reason I have given up all hope is because of my height and my inability to socialise with normal people or do I just continue lying to them?
 
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Parents/people generally aren't sentient so not much point, maybe give them a watered down answer about how you were dealt a bad hand and people in the world want leverage without getting into specififcs
 
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Try to bait them into buying you LL, might actually work, say you feel out of place in any social situation and it hurts your confidence, say your old friends made fun of you for it relentlessly and that's why you stopped hanging out with them and you feel to scared to try again. This could backfire and result in therapy but that doesn't seem like such a bad idea either tbh
 
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And you gotta start lifting and find lifting buddy's pronto, it's really hard to reintegrate yourself socially so the gym is easy as you can just lift and put in ya music and push some weight with a buddy. Do you have not a single friend broh?
 
Parents/people generally aren't sentient so not much point, maybe give them a watered down answer about how you were dealt a bad hand and people in the world want leverage without getting into specififcs
Thanks for your opinion. They would laugh at me if I told them I had been dealt a bad hand - I'm above average facially, and from a well-off middle class family in a wealthy area of the world (UK). It's literally just my fucked brain chemistry and height that has caused me to isolate myself.
 
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Thanks for your opinion. They would laugh at me if I told them I had been dealt a bad hand - I'm above average facially, and from a well-off middle class family in a wealthy area of the world (UK). It's literally just my fucked brain chemistry and height that has caused me to isolate myself.
Bro I'm 5"5 and not nearly this bad, you're not short enough to act this way imo. Go to the gym and build ur confidence pronto. Get into bjj, a sports environment will help you resocialize, maybe an adult soccer team would be cool too, brotherhood maxing is peak for dealing with depression and the work you put in will speak for itself.
 
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Currently in the same spot as you. I tried to ask my parents permission to use hgh but they said foids don't care about that LOL and "eating is the only way to grow". They don't know and THINK that the body naturally produces hgh.
You sound like you're having a rough time, if you need someone to talk to I'm here. Send me a pm man
 
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Try to bait them into buying you LL, might actually work, say you feel out of place in any social situation and it hurts your confidence, say your old friends made fun of you for it relentlessly and that's why you stopped hanging out with them and you feel to scared to try again. This could backfire and result in therapy but that doesn't seem like such a bad idea either tbh
might actually try this
And you gotta start lifting and find lifting buddy's pronto, it's really hard to reintegrate yourself socially so the gym is easy as you can just lift and put in ya music and push some weight with a buddy. Do you have not a single friend broh?
Nah. And I'm not even an unlikeable, sociopathic nutcase. I'm actually very likeable but just lack social skills.

I have had very little social interaction growing up, live in a village in the middle of nowhere and went to a small private school. Pair this with being very introverted and I have really shit social skills. I have no idea how I would even get a friend.
 
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Bro I'm 5"5 and not nearly this bad, you're not short enough to act this way imo. Go to the gym and build ur confidence pronto. Get into bjj, a sports environment will help you resocialize, maybe an adult soccer team would be cool too, brotherhood maxing is peak for dealing with depression and the work you put in will speak for itself.
Do u have any suggestions for hobbies like bjj that offers brotherhood maxx?
 
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Currently in the same spot as you. I tried to ask my parents permission to use hgh but they said foids don't care about that LOL and "eating is the only way to grow". They don't know and THINK that the body naturally produces hgh.
You sound like you're having a rough time, if you need someone to talk to I'm here. Send me a pm man
Tf did you just put on my profile brah :lul:
 
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how big is your penis
 
Currently in the same spot as you. I tried to ask my parents permission to use hgh but they said foids don't care about that LOL and "eating is the only way to grow". They don't know and THINK that the body naturally produces hgh.
You sound like you're having a rough time, if you need someone to talk to I'm here. Send me a pm man
appreciate it man
 
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Thanks for your opinion. They would laugh at me if I told them I had been dealt a bad hand - I'm above average facially, and from a well-off middle class family in a wealthy area of the world (UK). It's literally just my fucked brain chemistry and height that has caused me to isolate myself.
Brutal man. I don't know what to tell you excpet get lifts and try an NT haircut
 
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Wow 5 1/2 inch. Lets go I mog the average asian by like 3 inches
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Thanks for your opinion. They would laugh at me if I told them I had been dealt a bad hand - I'm above average facially, and from a well-off middle class family in a wealthy area of the world (UK). It's literally just my fucked brain chemistry and height that has caused me to isolate myself.
so your case is not that bad.
you know your problems well
 
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We’re all stuck with our flaws. Don’t let yours sink you
 
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Im actually suoer close to suicide. And my mom is calling me cruel for being mean to her ( aka not responding cause im thinking about suicide) hahaha cruel life
 
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Wearing your heart on your sleeve and 'being honest' has never helped anyone really. If you go on an 'incel rage' in front of your parents they will only become more concerned about you and possibly ashamed.

You could deceive them through simply pretending to be happier around them, lie about going out to see friends or going on dates when instead you're going to the gym, even fake a few phone calls in front of them if needs be. Or you could improve your mental health through gymcelling, gratitude journaling, meditation, and making friends. I would suggest the book 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie. It helps a lot with the social side of things.
 
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yes, 100% tell them. stop listening to all these edgy retards trying to give you life advice.

having a good relationship with your parents is important and they can help you with this if you let them
 
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