Do matches even mean anything??

[Copeful]

I feel like nowadays girls match with everyone just to get their validation fix
even girls that show high interest in convo will ghost when you bring up the possibility of meeting up with them cuz they were never interested in the first place
matches dont really mean much tbh

 

[Deleted member 30188]

there is no reason for tinder when you can do better irl

 

[Copeful]

there is no reason for tinder when you can do better irl

yea facts. irl is better cuz you cant get catfished by old pics or randomly ghosted
especially if you learn cold approach you can pull anywhere

 

[hypernormie]

Learn text game lil nigga

If she matches you that means you cross her looks threshold, after looks all that matters of personality

If you don’t meet up and fuck her it’s purely a game problem

You are probably communicating like a beta bitch boy and the girls get turned off

There’s literally no excuses to not be piping out hoes if you get matches

After the match it’s your game to lose

 

[Copeful]

Learn text game lil nigga

If she matches you that means you cross her looks threshold, after looks all that matters of personality

If you don’t meet up and fuck her it’s purely a game problem

You are probably communicating like a beta bitch boy and the girls get turned off

There’s literally no excuses to not be piping out hoes if you get matches

After the match it’s your game to lose

Who you calling lil nigga lil nigga
nah thats a cope girls match with 10000 dudes purely for their own amusement
your not special just bcz you got a match

 

[hypernormie]

yea facts. irl is better cuz you cant get catfished by old pics or randomly ghosted
especially if you learn cold approach you can pull anywhere

Cold approach is good for having superior social skills and confidence but the ROI when it comes to getting pussy via cold approach vs. online is not even comparable

90% of my about to be 60 laycount came from Tinder and I’ve probably only got legitimately catfished once

I also spent my whole high school experience practicing cold approach so it’s not like I’ve never done it

You can also easily get ghosted by chicks if you have weak text game after cold approach unless you pull her right then and there

I quickly realized that the effort spent trying to get pussy via learning cold approach was not worth it after I downloaded Tinder

Cold approach should be seen as maximizing social skills rather than maximizing pussy

If you want to maximize pussy you need to be on dating apps and learn text game

Cold approach will give you a mogger personality tho so it’s not completely useless

But online game is what will give you a mogger laycount

 

[Copeful]

Cold approach is good for having superior social skills and confidence but the ROI when it comes to getting pussy via cold approach vs. online is not even comparable

90% of my about to be 60 laycount came from Tinder and I’ve probably only got legitimately catfished once

I also spent my whole high school experience practicing cold approach so it’s not like I’ve never done it

You can also easily get ghosted by chicks if you have weak text game after cold approach unless you pull her right then and there

I quickly realized that the effort spent trying to get pussy via learning cold approach was not worth it after I downloaded Tinder

Cold approach should be seen as maximizing social skills rather than maximizing pussy

If you want to maximize pussy you need to be on dating apps and learn text game

Cold approach will give you a mogger personality tho so it’s not completely useless

But online game is what will give you a mogger laycount

yeah i agree with cold approach having transferable skills
how do i learn text game

 

[hypernormie]

Who you calling lil nigga lil nigga
nah thats a cope girls match with 10000 dudes purely for their own amusement
your not special just bcz you got a match

This is cope because girls aren’t matching sub 5 losers for their amusement

The Tinder stats don’t even back up your claim

Women match with drastically less men than vice versa and chads match with the majority of women which is further evidence against your claim that women are just matching dudes they don’t find attractive

On an anecdotal level, I have a chad friend who’s 6’5 and GL and when we compared Tinder we found we matched with tons of the same girls

I have another friend who I recently put some effort into optimizing his profile after he was getting 1-3 matches per week and suddenly we started matching with the same girls and his match rate went up drastically

Women are matching with a bunch of the same attractive men and all the relevant data on the topic proves this, they are not matching with dudes they don’t find attractive “just to fuck with them” this is pure cope

If a girl matches you it’s because on some level she considers you fuckable

What’s happening is you are considered attractive visually by some women hence the matches but you evidently lack the alpha male communication skills necessary to retain interest from these women

I don’t even need to see your convos to know this because your defeatist attitude in this post is enough to prove it

Women despise weak men and a man who complains instead of taking action to get results is communicating weakness

You are doing it here on this forum and likely communicating the same defeatist low value beta attitude to women via messages

It’s baffling. You know the stats of how hard it is for most men to get matches AT ALL yet here you are getting matches and you still find a way to complain and make excuses for your lack of results

 

[hypernormie]

yeah i agree with cold approach having transferable skills
how do i learn text game

Alex Vilenchik Playing with Fire YouTube channel. Start from his very first video and go up (his recent videos are not about text game) watch them ALL and take notes like I did

Niggas hate on him on this forum but he is by far the best text game PUA currently on the market

 

[Copeful]

This is cope because girls aren’t matching sub 5 losers for their amusement

The Tinder stats don’t even back up your claim

Women match with drastically less men than vice versa and chads match with the majority of women which is further evidence against your claim that women are just matching dudes they don’t find attractive

On an anecdotal level, I have a chad friend who’s 6’5 and GL and when we compared Tinder we found we matched with tons of the same girls

I have another friend who I recently put some effort into optimizing his profile after he was getting 1-3 matches per week and suddenly we started matching with the same girls and his match rate went up drastically

Women are matching with a bunch of the same attractive men and all the relevant data on the topic proves this, they are not matching with dudes they don’t find attractive “just to fuck with them” this is pure cope

If a girl matches you it’s because on some level she considers you fuckable

What’s happening is you are considered attractive visually by some women hence the matches but you evidently lack the alpha male communication skills necessary to retain interest from these women

I don’t even need to see your convos to know this because your defeatist attitude in this post is enough to prove it

Women despise weak men and a man who complains instead of taking action to get results is communicating weakness

You are doing it here on this forum and likely communicating the same defeatist low value beta attitude to women via messages

It’s baffling. You know the stats of how hard it is for most men to get matches AT ALL yet here you are getting matches and you still find a way to complain and make excuses for your lack of results

nigga what exactly is alpha male communication
i tried several approaches, i went direct asking your place or mine, then i tried jestermaxxing and building comfort, etc etc but get ghosted every time

also those stats are probably bcz most men dont put effort into their profiles
im literally a manlet ugly curry and i get 2-3 matches per day with selectively swiping only on mtb-htb+ just cause i put effort into my pics

 

[autistic_tendencies]

This is cope because girls aren’t matching sub 5 losers for their amusement

The Tinder stats don’t even back up your claim

Women match with drastically less men than vice versa and chads match with the majority of women which is further evidence against your claim that women are just matching dudes they don’t find attractive

On an anecdotal level, I have a chad friend who’s 6’5 and GL and when we compared Tinder we found we matched with tons of the same girls

I have another friend who I recently put some effort into optimizing his profile after he was getting 1-3 matches per week and suddenly we started matching with the same girls and his match rate went up drastically

Women are matching with a bunch of the same attractive men and all the relevant data on the topic proves this, they are not matching with dudes they don’t find attractive “just to fuck with them” this is pure cope

If a girl matches you it’s because on some level she considers you fuckable

What’s happening is you are considered attractive visually by some women hence the matches but you evidently lack the alpha male communication skills necessary to retain interest from these women

I don’t even need to see your convos to know this because your defeatist attitude in this post is enough to prove it

Women despise weak men and a man who complains instead of taking action to get results is communicating weakness

You are doing it here on this forum and likely communicating the same defeatist low value beta attitude to women via messages

It’s baffling. You know the stats of how hard it is for most men to get matches AT ALL yet here you are getting matches and you still find a way to complain and make excuses for your lack of results

Lot of words
But what do you look like
Muh communication skills
Chad can get pussy with two words
“Come over “
Retard
Hahahahah

 

[Deleted member 23114]

I feel like nowadays girls match with everyone just to get their validation fix
even girls that show high interest in convo will ghost when you bring up the possibility of meeting up with them cuz they were never interested in the first place
matches dont really mean much tbh

they mean nothing

 

[Copeful]

they mean nothing

thats what im saying but this nigga @hypernormie keeps yapping about muhhh text game

 

[hypernormie]

nigga what exactly is alpha male communication
i tried several approaches, i went direct asking your place or mine, then i tried jestermaxxing and building comfort, etc etc but get ghosted every time

also those stats are probably bcz most men dont put effort into their profiles
im literally a manlet ugly curry and i get 2-3 matches per day with selectively swiping only on mtb-htb+ just cause i put effort into my pics

Alpha male communication is any type of communication that displays reproductive value

Reproductive value is defined as traits that increase the likelihood if she were to reproduce with you, her children will be able to reproduce successfully, and their children and so on and so on ad infinitum

Reproductive value can be defined as traits which maximize the quantity and quality of offspring

The most attractive men are the men who have traits which signal his offspring and his offsprings offspring will both be survive easily and reproduce often

In terms of physical traits:

- Muscles: indicate a man can deal with physical challenges long enough to reproduce and is also in currently healthy physical state free from disease

- attractive facial structure: defined by symmetry and harmony indicates a man has stable strong genes that can withstand negative environmental influences

- height: easier to dominate other men in physical competition

- big dick: increased advantage in sperm competition

- facial masculinity: indicates health, dominance in combat

In terms of personality:

- non needy: indicates preselection. A man can only afford to not be needy if he has options. Preselected behavior indicates a man is attractive to other women.

- confident: a confident man is more likely to take risks for resources and winner a bigger pot in the game of life. Her children will thus have more resources at birth and a higher likelihood of survival. A confident man is better able to handle confrontation and not get killed. A confident man is su communicating things generally go his way in life. Her interprets this as her children will also have a positive life experience and be more likely to survive.

- dominant: a dominant man will go after what he wants and is more likely to get it. Also more likely to dominate other men for resources.

- funny: communicates intelligence and intelligence is correlated to resource accrual.

- stoic: a stoic man is better able to handle challenges and thus overcome them or deal with them adequately enough to survive. Her kids will inherit this trait.

The list goes on and on but the point is alpha male communication is communication that shows high reproductive value.

Think always, does this behavior I’m exhibiting communicate to this woman were she to reproduce with me, her children will be sexually successful?

You gotta really understand evolutionary psychology to win at game because even though reproducing is fucking pointless, sex is not, it’s fun and increases your pleasure on earth. If you want to experience that pleasure you gotta understand the reproductive game because that’s the whole reason sex is happening in the first place.

I recommend reading:

Chateau Heartiste “On Game” volumes 1&2
Atomic attraction by Christopher Canwell
Practical Female Psychology by Joseph W. South and David Clare
The Evoltuion of Desire by David M. Buss

There’s many more resources but those are some fundamentals

 

[hypernormie]

thats what im saying but this nigga @hypernormie keeps yapping about muhhh text game

You’re a complainer bro

It’s weak and beta

Women sniff that out and that’s why they ghost you

Again, if you’re getting matches you have no excuse. Women aren’t matching with dudes they don’t find attractive. There’s simply no evidence for this.

It’s probably harder for you but that’s life. Are you gonna complain or get to work?

don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better

Atlas didn’t wish the world was lighter, he wished for stronger shoulders on which to carry it

 

[hypernormie]

thats what im saying but this nigga @hypernormie keeps yapping about muhhh text game

Not to mention you never even learned text game like lmfao

Complaining about women ghosting you after they match but you never even learned how to text them properly?

You can’t be serious

For real what did you expect to happen?

 

[PLA1092]

I feel like nowadays girls match with everyone just to get their validation fix
even girls that show high interest in convo will ghost when you bring up the possibility of meeting up with them cuz they were never interested in the first place
matches dont really mean much tbh

Show face. Matches matter lmao most foids sort out anyone they aren't immediately attracted to

 

[Copeful]

Show face. Matches matter lmao most foids sort out anyone they aren't immediately attracted to

face is cope for getting matches
you just need good style and nt pics

 

[PLA1092]

face is cope for getting matches
you just need good style and nt pics

Massive cope. Tell me how many matches Sam Entertainment is getting

 

[Copeful]

Massive cope. Tell me how many matches Sam Entertainment is getting

just use truecel bro to prove your point theorem
jfl at looksmax autists @Biggdink

 

[PLA1092]

just use truecel bro to prove your point theorem
jfl at looksmax autists @Biggdink

Dont need to use truecels. Muh NT stylemaxxed MTN or HTN using basic bitch photos? Rule 1 and 2 for dating apps are legit a normgroid meme man it's not even an obscure autist blackpill theory

 

[Copeful]

Dont need to use truecels. Muh NT stylemaxxed MTN or HTN using basic bitch photos? Rule 1 and 2 for dating apps are legit a normgroid meme man it's not even an obscure autist blackpill theory

i sent my profile to @Biggdink who is a reputable user here
he can confirm im ltn-mtn curry with good style and nt vibes in my pics

rules 1 and 2 = dress well, take good pics

 

[edodalic29]

Cold approach is good for having superior social skills and confidence but the ROI when it comes to getting pussy via cold approach vs. online is not even comparable

90% of my about to be 60 laycount came from Tinder and I’ve probably only got legitimately catfished once

I also spent my whole high school experience practicing cold approach so it’s not like I’ve never done it

You can also easily get ghosted by chicks if you have weak text game after cold approach unless you pull her right then and there

I quickly realized that the effort spent trying to get pussy via learning cold approach was not worth it after I downloaded Tinder

Cold approach should be seen as maximizing social skills rather than maximizing pussy

If you want to maximize pussy you need to be on dating apps and learn text game

Cold approach will give you a mogger personality tho so it’s not completely useless

But online game is what will give you a mogger laycount

Fuckk i have no gamee

I have legit so many matches but nothing

 

[Aladin]

Matches being cope is old news.

 

[ThatGuythattype]

No. Tinder is basically just an app girls use to match with subhumans and having a great laugh with all their girlfriends

 

[PLA1092]

i sent my profile to @Biggdink who is a reputable user here
he can confirm im ltn-mtn curry with good style and nt vibes in my pics

rules 1 and 2 = dress well, take good pics

So how many bitches have you gotten on your dick

 

[Copeful]

No. Tinder is basically just an app girls use to match with subhumans and having a great laugh with all their girlfriends

they match guys just to see what corny shit theyll say to try and get in their pants and then post it in their group chats
these hoes are bruuutal

 

[Deleted member 7580]

i sent my profile to @Biggdink who is a reputable user here
he can confirm im ltn-mtn curry with good style and nt vibes in my pics

rules 1 and 2 = dress well, take good pics

Nt and style

That’s what I’ve been saying

I feel like nowadays girls match with everyone just to get their validation fix
even girls that show high interest in convo will ghost when you bring up the possibility of meeting up with them cuz they were never interested in the first place
matches dont really mean much tbh

girls don’t swipe on non nt looksmaxxers and Redditors tho

 

[Gengar]

I feel like nowadays girls match with everyone just to get their validation fix
even girls that show high interest in convo will ghost when you bring up the possibility of meeting up with them cuz they were never interested in the first place
matches dont really mean much tbh

Yes. It means you’re attractive.

 

[Copeful]

Nt and style

That’s what I’ve been saying


girls don’t swipe on non nt looksmaxxers and Redditors tho

no they swipe on redditors too bcz redditors actually put effort into their profiles

looksmaxxers take pics in their bathroom mirror with shit smeared toilet in the background and wonder why they arent getting matches

 

[Copeful]

Yes. It means you’re attractive.

if i get ghosted it means im attractive? jfl at this logic bhai

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Bruh even approaches in irl or makeouts don’t mean much tbh

I go out and girls will approach and makeout with me but still most of them leave with their friends at the end of the night

Women love attention

 

[Gengar]

if i get ghosted it means im attractive? jfl at this logic bhai

Bottom line is you’re attractive and that’s why you get matches. Guys like me would never get any. Why are you even complaining? Do you wish to have zero matches? Imagine how that would’ve made you feel.

 

[Gengar]

Bruh even approaches in irl or makeouts don’t mean much tbh

I go out and girls will approach and makeout with me but still most of them leave with their friends at the end of the night

Women love attention

Tales from New Bharat.

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

I feel like nowadays girls match with everyone just to get their validation fix
even girls that show high interest in convo will ghost when you bring up the possibility of meeting up with them cuz they were never interested in the first place
matches dont really mean much tbh

We knew this years ago


Girls go there for validations

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Alpha male communication is any type of communication that displays reproductive value

Reproductive value is defined as traits that increase the likelihood if she were to reproduce with you, her children will be able to reproduce successfully, and their children and so on and so on ad infinitum

Reproductive value can be defined as traits which maximize the quantity and quality of offspring

The most attractive men are the men who have traits which signal his offspring and his offsprings offspring will both be survive easily and reproduce often

In terms of physical traits:

- Muscles: indicate a man can deal with physical challenges long enough to reproduce and is also in currently healthy physical state free from disease

- attractive facial structure: defined by symmetry and harmony indicates a man has stable strong genes that can withstand negative environmental influences

- height: easier to dominate other men in physical competition

- big dick: increased advantage in sperm competition

- facial masculinity: indicates health, dominance in combat

In terms of personality:

- non needy: indicates preselection. A man can only afford to not be needy if he has options. Preselected behavior indicates a man is attractive to other women.

- confident: a confident man is more likely to take risks for resources and winner a bigger pot in the game of life. Her children will thus have more resources at birth and a higher likelihood of survival. A confident man is better able to handle confrontation and not get killed. A confident man is su communicating things generally go his way in life. Her interprets this as her children will also have a positive life experience and be more likely to survive.

- dominant: a dominant man will go after what he wants and is more likely to get it. Also more likely to dominate other men for resources.

- funny: communicates intelligence and intelligence is correlated to resource accrual.

- stoic: a stoic man is better able to handle challenges and thus overcome them or deal with them adequately enough to survive. Her kids will inherit this trait.

The list goes on and on but the point is alpha male communication is communication that shows high reproductive value.

Think always, does this behavior I’m exhibiting communicate to this woman were she to reproduce with me, her children will be sexually successful?

You gotta really understand evolutionary psychology to win at game because even though reproducing is fucking pointless, sex is not, it’s fun and increases your pleasure on earth. If you want to experience that pleasure you gotta understand the reproductive game because that’s the whole reason sex is happening in the first place.

I recommend reading:

Chateau Heartiste “On Game” volumes 1&2
Atomic attraction by Christopher Canwell
Practical Female Psychology by Joseph W. South and David Clare
The Evoltuion of Desire by David M. Buss

There’s many more resources but those are some fundamentals

Autism .
You either look good or you don’t
Hot or not

 

[Copeful]

Bottom line is you’re attractive and that’s why you get matches. Guys like me would never get any. Why are you even complaining? Do you wish to have zero matches? Imagine how that would’ve made you feel.

listen nigga im not attractive @Biggdink
anyone can improve how they present themselves, thats all i did
i also used to get nothing before i fixed my presentation,

also so what if i get matches if they dont translate to anything irl
just a waste of time

 

[Gengar]

listen nigga im not attractive @Biggdink
anyone can improve how they present themselves, thats all i did
i also used to get nothing before i fixed my presentation,

also so what if i get matches if they dont translate to anything irl
just a waste of time

I dislike guys like you who get matches but claim to be unattractive. At least you get the validation. I get nothing.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

@TRUE_CEL op is nt af and has a nice style unlike you . He’s a normie

Style/nt >>> looks

 

[Gengar]

@TRUE_CEL op is nt af and has a nice style unlike you . He’s a normie

Style/nt >>> looks

If you think I’m not NT then you’ve clearly never met me IRL. Imagine being low IQ and basing my real-life personality based on my online persona.

 

[Copeful]

Autism .
You either look good or you don’t
Hot or not

fr

 

[Gargantuan]

In the grand scheme of things, it means nothing.
Been using Tinder/Bumble again since this summer (for 3 months now) and I've got loads of likes and matches since but only managed to get 2 dates and 1 slay out of it lmao.

It's all just so tiring, wanting to get excited over matches and stuff but getting ignored/ghosted 90% of the time in the end.
Too much hard work for too little reward, thinking of deleting these apps again.

 

[Copeful]

In the grand scheme of things, it means nothing.
Been using Tinder/Bumble again since this summer (for 3 months now) and I've got loads of likes and matches since but only managed to get 2 dates and 1 slay out of it lmao.

It's all just so tiring, wanting to get excited over matches and stuff but getting ignored/ghosted 90% of the time in the end.
Too much hard work for too little reward, thinking of deleting these apps again.

brutal
what was your match-conversation-number ratio

 

[Gargantuan]

brutal
what was your match-conversation-number ratio

119 matches on tinder
57 matches on bumble

99% never messaged me first here on tinder. Most just seem lazy and narcissistic and usually only put their insta handles in their bio lmao.

The ones I messaged first ignored me straight from the get-go most of the time or started ignoring me after exchanging a few texts and pretty much all of the times I've moved the convo to a different platform like whatsapp or snapchat the dozen or so girls I've continued to talk to there are all ignoring me as well now.

I've had a cute girl willingly give me her number without having to ask for it first. She responded to my texts quickly and positively and yet she still cancelled our date not once but twice. Can't make this shit up anymore jfl.

To be fair, I have also done my fair share of ignoring after this but it kind of makes sense when the outcome is probably going to be the same anyway, getting ignored/stood up/ghosted 90% of the time. Getting lucky once in a blue moon just isn't worth it anymore.

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

119 matches on tinder
57 matches on bumble

99% never messaged me first here on tinder. Most just seem lazy and narcissistic and usually only put their insta handles in their bio lmao.

The ones I messaged first ignored me straight from the get-go most of the time or started ignoring me after exchanging a few texts and pretty much all of the times I've moved the convo to a different platform like whatsapp or snapchat the dozen or so girls I've continued to talk to there are all ignoring me as well now.

I've had a cute girl willingly give me her number without having to ask for her first. She responded to my texts quickly and positively and yet she still cancelled our date not once but twice. Can't make this shit up anymore jfl.

To be fair, I have also done my fair share of ignoring after this but it kind of makes sense when the outcome is probably going to be the same anyway, getting ignored/stood up/ghosted 90% of the time. Getting lucky once in a blue moon just isn't worth it anymore.

Just nichemaxxing tbh

 

[Gargantuan]

Just nichemaxxing tbh

What niche?

Although I was recently told by a girl that I look younger than I actually am (25) which was lifefuel but also came as a shock because I always thought I looked old af due to rough skin/folds/wrinkles etc. so prettyboymaxxing isn't going to be an option.

If I were to ogremaxx and grow a beard I'm gonna look closer to 30 which isn't ideal either.

What else is there to do? Clothes? Fashion? Style? Idk, I feel like they're all oversaturated and that I would have a hard time fitting into a niche anyway.

 

[๕ඞChick3ncu1ry]

What niche?

Although I was recently told by a girl that I look younger than I actually am (25) which was lifefuel but also came as a shock because I always thought I looked old af due to rough skin/folds/wrinkles etc. so prettyboymaxxing isn't going to be an option.

If I were to ogremaxx and grow a beard I'm gonna look closer to 30 which isn't ideal either.

What else is there to do? Clothes? Fashion? Style? Idk, I feel like they're all oversaturated and that I would have a hard time fitting into a niche anyway.

I am gook I can only either kpopmax or animemax.

All I need is this physique

 

[Copeful]

I am gook I can only either kpopmax or animemax.

All I need is this physique

insane lat insertions
that angular look is ideal
i have the chode chicken wing insertions and it looks dogshit

 

[Gargantuan]

I am gook I can only either kpopmax or animemax.

All I need is this physique

I have a great physique myself and mog most dudes physique/framewise but idk but how to showcase it more often without coming off as a tryhard.
Bumble has already been blocking the pics where I tried to showcase it so there's that.

 

[Copeful]

I have a great physique myself and mog most dudes physique/framewise but idk but how to showcase it more often without coming off as a tryhard.
Bumble has already been blocking the pics where I tried to showcase it so there's that.

wear a black under armor compression shirt
that’s what i’m doing and haven’t been banned or anything