Do relationships fuel or kill men in achieving their goals

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Title. What is your experience with this? I have a mixed opinion tbh. Would like to hear what everyone else has to say
 
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made no difference for me. I still just kept working on my goals and living life as usual. The only thing I can see is an annoying bitch dragging you down.

imo if you needed a bitch to motivate you to make yourself successful as an adult you're fucked. Unless she's cooking, cleaning, satisfying you sexually, etc. and saving you time, they're no help at all
 
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relationships are the goal though
 
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Title. What is your experience with this? I have a mixed opinion tbh. Would like to hear what everyone else has to say
Really depends on the partner, they can make you or break you.
 
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Depends who. Most go through the redpill cope made by Rabbis to get you to consoom more. They understand this is all pointless and you kids thinking youโ€™re finding love are the rats in the game.
 
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made no difference for me. I still just kept working on my goals and living life as usual. The only thing I can see is an annoying bitch dragging you down.

imo if you needed a bitch to motivate you to make yourself successful as an adult you're fucked. Unless she's cooking, cleaning, relieving you, etc. and saving you time, they're no help at all
@Klasik616
 
some guys get hella motivated after landing a gf

but I also read single or non committed guys have higher t levels than guys raising a family

I think it fuels but they can also be a distraction
 
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fuel in the first 10 years, kill after
 
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I don't have goals
In your own words

 
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Most relationships absolutely neuter men and kill their chances of achieving their goals. I made an entire thread about it.
 
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they boost you in the beginning but as time goes by you get comfortable, and after that the relationship will probably get worse and worse, so does ur motivation. In the end you'll be in a worse state than in the beginning
 
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i never had one to know
 
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too complex to categorise it into black and white answers
it depends on the guy and girl. some guys might see an LTR as the end goal and become complacent after landing a relationship thus leading to them ending up shooting themselves in the foot irregardless of their gf (she can either accelerate this or slow it down, but if it's on the guy: it's inevitable)

while as on the contrary, a guy might land an LTR and u see the common cycle of a dude chasing X goals but his gf dragging slowing him down ultimately leading to him shitting his goals away.

I think it ultimately comes down to how much the guy values the ltr in his mind in comparison to his goals, and the girls level of attachment on whether she wants to support the dude or not (might also be affected by who was interested first)
 
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Buml
 
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Simple

It's motivation

As we all are abused dogs , so if we were to date someone who's out of our league or they're getting hit on by CL

You need to get that dopamine release that she's with u rn

And ascend
 
Title. What is your experience with this? I have a mixed opinion tbh. Would like to hear what everyone else has to say
Depends on the woman, you should get a woman who has trust in you and your decisions.

Plus, donโ€™t ever let a woman control whether you will succeed or not.
 
It entirely depends on the people. Both the person grinding and the girlfriend.
 

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