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Pretty much the title, but I believe it's women. Think about it: every time you go outside, you hear, "Oh, I don't like his haircut," or "He's too ugly," or "His shoes aren't compatible," and "Oh, he looks like a stick," or this or that. I'm sure you heard it.
When you're the one overhearing those offhand, snarky opinions dropped casually by women about men they don't know or wouldn't give the time of day to, it leaves a mark. It makes complete sense why a lot of guys look at situations like that and feel like that constant public critique is a major source of insecurity.
Us guys, we don't care if our homeboy looks like a hobo or like a rockstar; what we care about is if he is our homeboy. Women, on the other hand, are very nice to their own gender, but when it comes to being nice to men without any romantic gestures, they become harsh. Ironically, they often blame men for that dynamic, whereas it's just suboptimal evolution. It's very harsh indeed—it really is.
When you're the one overhearing those offhand, snarky opinions dropped casually by women about men they don't know or wouldn't give the time of day to, it leaves a mark. It makes complete sense why a lot of guys look at situations like that and feel like that constant public critique is a major source of insecurity.
Us guys, we don't care if our homeboy looks like a hobo or like a rockstar; what we care about is if he is our homeboy. Women, on the other hand, are very nice to their own gender, but when it comes to being nice to men without any romantic gestures, they become harsh. Ironically, they often blame men for that dynamic, whereas it's just suboptimal evolution. It's very harsh indeed—it really is.