Do you admit when you're wrong?

[RAITEIII]

I do. It doesn't bother me. Everybody can be wrong and is wrong about something lol. Nobody knows everything.

I noticed some people when they know they are wrong start to laugh in your face and act cinycal. It seems to me they're feeling exposed and it's a tactic to destabilize you and get you mad and make the scale "even" or on their favour.

Normally this gets me even more pissed off but I'm trying to control myself.

 

[JackTheKnife]

Only admit to yourself and close friends.

 

[Deleted member 5815]

Only admit to yourself and close friends.

this quote is made up what was actually said was something like

The cleverest trick used by the jews against germany was to accuse germany of what our enemies themselves were doing

 

[Deleted member 23239]

LOL blud i know for sure ITS AN EGO DEATH FOR YOU everytime you admit you fucked up
who you tryna fool i wasnt born yesterday

 

[JackTheKnife]

this quote is made up what was actually said was something like

The cleverest trick used by the jews against germany was to accuse germany of what our enemies themselves were doing

You literally just did it.

 

[RAITEIII]

Only admit to yourself and close friends.

I dont recommend this.

You accuse the other person. Aha. You feel good and smart at the moment but it's a naive thought that you will get away with this on a consistent basis. Seems like a receipt for trouble.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I do. But if you come at me saying I’m wrong, I feel attacked and I just double down.

 

[apocalypse]

Yes it’s a likeable trait

 

[RAITEIII]

LOL blud i know for sure ITS AN EGO DEATH FOR YOU everytime you admit you fucked up
who you tryna fool i wasnt born yesterday

It also makes you look bad because you are not looking anyone and look like a shameless liar which goes back to my prior comment. Richard Ramirez law of attaction

 

[JackTheKnife]

I dont recommend this.

You accuse the other person. Aha. You feel good and smart at the moment but it's a naive thought that you will get away with this on a consistent basis. Seems like a receipt for trouble.

Nah it's a good tactic used by literally every politician.

 

[RAITEIII]

I do. But if you come at me saying I’m wrong, I feel attacked and I just double down.

Yh saying "youre wrong" somehow feels like an attack. Maybe it shouldnt but it does. I do use other phrasing. Or none at all and just explain reality and its infered other things are not accurate.

But again. If you look around you find out nearly everyone will say smth wrong. So its to humble myself tbh. I have been a retarded many times in my life but that changes slowly

 

[RAITEIII]

Nah it's a good tactic used by literally every politician.

It depends thats more diplomatic. If you steal smth and blame someone else and this person knows its you then youre asking for trouble. If you do smth wrong and latch the guilt onto someone else youre looking for trouble cuz its more than reasonable to have a pay back tbh

 

[RAITEIII]

But sharks choose their food do they not

It depends thats more diplomatic. If you steal smth and blame someone else and this person knows its you then youre asking for trouble. If you do smth wrong and latch the guilt onto someone else youre looking for trouble cuz its more than reasonable to have a pay back tbh

 

[RAITEIII]

Yes it’s a likeable trait

whats good bro

 

[JackTheKnife]

If you steal smth and blame someone else and this person knows its you then youre asking for trouble

That's just being retarded, not really what I mean.

 

[apocalypse]

whats good bro

Nothing much, just coping

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Yh saying "youre wrong" somehow feels like an attack. Maybe it shouldnt but it does. I do use other phrasing. Or none at all and just explain reality and its infered other things are not accurate.

But again. If you look around you find out nearly everyone will say smth wrong. So its to humble myself tbh. I have been a retarded many times in my life but that changes slowly

I think the best course of action is to discuss it later rather than at the moment because in the heat of the moment you can always make things worse.

 

[RAITEIII]

I think the best course of action is to discuss it later rather than at the moment because in the heat of the moment you can always make things worse.

Yes mirin

 

[forevermirin]

yes but i hate it so i am usually right