do you believe in true genuine love?

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half half i'd say
 
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yessssssssss it is real but not the cheesy love at first sight, i am talking about having a deep connection with a person its like both of your souls are intertwined.:)
 
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im starting to become bluepilled whilst talking to her i need to snap out of it
I think you can be attracted to someone and enjoy spending time with them but I don't believe in soul partners or any of that.
I believe it's possible for a someone to "love" more than one person at once.
 
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I think you can be attracted to someone and enjoy spending time with them but I don't believe in soul partners or any of that.
I believe it's possible for a someone to "love" more than one person at once.
yeah same here although i love almost everything about her and its as if we both lived the same lives mirror images of each other
 
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not for me
 
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yessssssssss it is real but not the cheesy love at first sight, i am talking about having a deep connection with a person its like both of your souls are intertwined.:)
our late night calls together are so therapeutic
 
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yeah same here although i love almost everything about her and its as if we both lived the same lives mirror images of each other
I think love at first sight is just lust at first sight.
 
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I think love at first sight is just lust at first sight.
rightttt like you dont even know who that is and you just like how he looks and the image of that person on your head, ts why i reject random confessions from strangers they are disgusting
 
women arent capable of unconditional love, only men are
 
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Hard question to answer, since you can define genuine love in many ways. However, I think the closest form of genuine love is physical attraction. There's not much one can really do to improve one's physical attraction, so you can argue it's the most innate form of human attraction. On the other hand, one has more control over their income and status, thus making it a less genuine form of love, since it can be improved upon through one's hard work. Of course, everything I'm talking about has a genetic component, but I'm talking in relativities.
 
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rightttt like you dont even know who that is and you just like how he looks and the image of that person on your head,
This is why I don't believe in love at first sight.
ts why i reject random confessions from strangers they are disgusting
It's still natural. I have felt "love at first sight" before - I can't help it - but I know logically, it's just a guttural physical attraction.
 
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Yes. But meeting with her has the same chance as being chadlite. Like 1 in 250.000 people. I believe in destiny too so it makes sense to me
 
Unconditional love doesn't exist anyways. I'm just answering your question based upon what I think you define genuine love as.
 
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Hard question to answer, since you can define genuine love in many ways. However, I think the closest form of genuine love is physical attraction. There's not much one can really do to improve one's physical attraction, so you can argue it's the most innate form of human attraction. On the other hand, one has more control over their income and status, thus making it a less genuine form of love, since it can be improved upon through one's hard work. Of course, everything I'm talking about has a genetic component, but I'm talking in relativities.
I think if someone is already physically attracted to you, then your personality can come into play and make you even more attractive.
 
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Unconditional love doesn't exist anyways. I'm just answering your question based upon what I think you define genuine love as.
When we say "unconditional" in Lehman's terms. we're really talking physical attraction. Because it's inherent; there is no quid pro quo.
You are literally loved for who you are.
 
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It's still natural. I have felt "love at first sight" before - I can't help it - but I know logically, it's just a guttural physical attraction.
i haven't experienced love at first sight before maybe because my country is full sub5's and worship status and money over looks

but then again my gf rn is very pretty and has an awesome personality i am gonna marry her soon :cool::cool:
 
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yea but not for me
 
but then again my gf rn is very pretty and has an awesome personality i am gonna marry her soon :cool::cool:
Assuming this isn't a larp. Good for you. Hope it works out.
 
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Assuming this isn't a larp. Good for you. Hope it works out.
why the hell would someone larp a relationship you must have a sad life to do so
 
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True love doesnt exist
 
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I do, I even think LTNs can get true love. I think where the blackpill mainly comes into place is for the top/bottom 5%. Bottom 5% is absolutely fucked while top 5% has it a ton easier.
 
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Back when female sexual selection was restricted maybe there was the illusion of it but I doubt that couples actually pairbond and love each other unconditionally. Monogamy is a social construct (as soy as it sounds)
 
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idk anymore
 
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This must be a joke, what does that even mean "true genuine" nothing is free.
It means she still stays with you and doesn't divorce you after she gets fat, creates dead bedrooms, and nags you about petty things.

Because you're not divorced(yet), it's true love.
 
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i haven't experienced love at first sight before maybe because my country is full sub5's and worship status and money over looks

but then again my gf rn is very pretty and has an awesome personality i am gonna marry her soon :cool::cool:
Get off this forum if you have gf then and enjoy your life mate if it Bp comes to haunt you back then you could possibly return I stopped consuming BP content since I started talking to her now for the better
 
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Yes, but only if you're NT and htn+.
 
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Yes only if you’re good looking enough tbh

Love = physical attraction
 
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I think you can be attracted to someone and enjoy spending time with them but I don't believe in soul partners or any of that.
I believe it's possible for a someone to "love" more than one person at once.
Love is essentially just a synonym for a biochemical reaction, tied to interchangeable concepts like attraction and compatibility.
Hollywood just turned it into a mainstream narrative.

I’ve been in a few relationships, and still am currently, but outside of my teenage years, when I was deeply indoctrinated by the mainstream ideal- I’ve never truly felt that love is real in the way it’s portrayed.

Humans, by nature, aren’t wired for lifelong monogamy. Our sexual instincts are fundamentally non monogamous
Although, some can differentiate between the two.
 
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yeah but you need to be her first and you also need to be in love with her
 
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i think my mother loved my father :unsure:
 
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If shes over 15 no
 

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