Do you believe that 'if you have to try, its over'?

[O'Pry]

What I mean by this is believe it or not but girls do approach/initiate first, one of my good friends and his stories being an irl example to me.

So essentially, why would you as a man chase a girl who in turn is chasing another man? She has her eyes on her prize (chad) and you like a little worm comes weaving in-between them trying to make a move on her... she sees you as nothing more than an obstacle in her way and its just pathetic on your end.

You either get chosen by a girl or you continue along with your life, dancing around like a peacock showing its feathers until a girl chooses you

This type of thinking has provided a safe haven of cope for my brutal life experiences, but is this true?

 

[Adberus]

anywhere below htn your gonna have to chase to pull even a ltb so may as well, or just stay forever khhv

 

[TheLeanmaxxer66]

anywhere below htn your gonna have to chase to pull even a ltb so may as well, or just stay forever khhv

I had 2 gfs add me on snap from my public profile and im MTN

 

[O'Pry]

anywhere below htn your gonna have to chase to pull even a ltb so may as well, or just stay forever khhv

Fair enough but isn't that kinda depressing though. Like you know she's eyeing up the 6'5" chadlite in the club and you mr average average comes in from the side

 

[oily703]

not a lot of foids approach
even if the girl is eyeing the chadlite, she probably wont actively go up to him
so she would have to content with the mtn and htn that approach her (obviously if the chadlite doesnt)

ive been approached a few times and ill use one of those times as an example
i was at the club and some decently looking girl came to talk to me
after a few minutes she asked me to dance but since i am a social retard i just left for no reason
this probalby left her feeling like i rejected her (even though i didnt i just have 0 social skills)
and i saw her later with some shorcel who i mogged to gandy's hell
this means she had to content herself with a lesser man


moral of the story is just go for chad's leftovers

 

[Bitterschön]

Do you believe that 'if you have to try, its over'?

No

 

[Jason Voorhees]

It is over for the guy in your avi(O'Pry) then

 

[sub5outsider]

you have to try depends to what extent bc you create oppurtunities if you lock yourself nothing its going to happen