Do you believe that 'if you have to try, its over'?

[O'Pry]

What I mean by this is believe it or not but girls do approach/initiate first, one of my good friends and his stories being an irl example to me.

So essentially, why would you as a man chase a girl who in turn is chasing another man? She has her eyes on her prize (chad) and you like a little worm comes weaving in-between them trying to make a move on her... she sees you as nothing more than an obstacle in her way and its just pathetic on your end.

You either get chosen by a girl or you continue along with your life, dancing around like a peacock showing its feathers until a girl chooses you

This type of thinking has provided a safe haven of cope for my brutal life experiences, but is this true?

 

[Adberus]

anywhere below htn your gonna have to chase to pull even a ltb so may as well, or just stay forever khhv

 

[TheLeanmaxxer66]

anywhere below htn your gonna have to chase to pull even a ltb so may as well, or just stay forever khhv

I had 2 gfs add me on snap from my public profile and im MTN

 

[O'Pry]

anywhere below htn your gonna have to chase to pull even a ltb so may as well, or just stay forever khhv

Fair enough but isn't that kinda depressing though. Like you know she's eyeing up the 6'5" chadlite in the club and you mr average average comes in from the side

 

[oily703]

not a lot of foids approach
even if the girl is eyeing the chadlite, she probably wont actively go up to him
so she would have to content with the mtn and htn that approach her (obviously if the chadlite doesnt)

ive been approached a few times and ill use one of those times as an example
i was at the club and some decently looking girl came to talk to me
after a few minutes she asked me to dance but since i am a social retard i just left for no reason
this probalby left her feeling like i rejected her (even though i didnt i just have 0 social skills)
and i saw her later with some shorcel who i mogged to gandy's hell
this means she had to content herself with a lesser man


moral of the story is just go for chad's leftovers

 

[Bitterschön]

Do you believe that 'if you have to try, its over'?

No

 

[Jason Voorhees]

It is over for the guy in your avi(O'Pry) then

 

[sub5outsider]

you have to try depends to what extent bc you create oppurtunities if you lock yourself nothing its going to happen

 

[Lewisleslie]

Yes probably because when ur atleast above average looking girls will come to you

 

[Bitterschön]

Yes probably because when ur atleast above average looking girls will come to you

In general? Or School/college/uni or night life?

 

[AsymmetricalCel]

Fair enough but isn't that kinda depressing though. Like you know she's eyeing up the 6'5" chadlite in the club and you mr average average comes in from the side

I mean if youre not perfect youll always keep thinking like this no? And who cares, youd probably find other girls more attractive than your girl too,

 

[LTNUser]

I mean if youre not perfect youll always keep thinking like this no? And who cares, youd probably find other girls more attractive than your girl too,

But bro she is the one I was extremely attracted to,now she is gone and I can't find anybody else as attractive as her

 

[AsymmetricalCel]

But bro she is the one I was extremely attracted to,now she is gone and I can't find anybody else as attractive as her

Im not saying that you cant think like you do but this guy judging from his corny comment is probably a gooner and if he had a gf hed probably find other people attreactive too, that doesnt mean that he doesnt love her tho. For example my parents openly say when they think a man or woman is good looking and they both have no problem with it (it doesnt happen to often but thats not the point). So im just saying this based on looks now, if you love ayytually love someone personality and everything then yes youll think that person is the most attractive even if she objectively wasnt, you get what i mean? And you obv need to differentiate objectively better loking or subjectively bc people have types they like yk


Tldr you can find other people objectively attractive while in a relationship and other people are probably objectively more attractive than your gf, while at the same time you yourself can think shes the prettiest

 

[laaltin]

Yeah, jestermaxxing crushes your soul