Do you feel less attracted to a girl when there is no chase?

[Deleted member 6572]

For example if stuff happens too easy or if she’s obsessed with you would it be a turn off? Do you like that feeling of almost chasing her and winning her over?
This is the thing for me

 

[Deleted member 39]

It would be great because I have approach anxiety.

 

[Deleted member 6572]

It would be great because I have approach anxiety.

Yeah but it feels like between a man and a woman there should be some drive and chase on the mans part and it makes it hotter when you get her finally

 

[Deleted member 8706]

Nah it would be easier, aint gonna sweat cause of a coochie, have better shit to do ngl

 

[Deleted member 8706]

If shes not chasing FOR ME i wont move an inch, and everyone should do the same, they dont deserve any effort

 

[Deleted member 39]

Yeah but it feels like between a man and a woman there should be some drive and chase on the mans part and it makes it hotter when you get her finally

Yes I experienced it online since that way I don't have anxiety. When they're all over you simping for you it gets boring. I like seducing them, the thought of receiving pussy pics turns me on. When they finally send them, it's still hot. When they keep sending days after days, it's just meh.

 

[Deleted member 8706]

I guess thats actually looksmaxxing is about, be so hot u dont need to do anything and everything goes to you passively

 

[Deleted member 6892]

Yes. It would feel like theres less validation in a way as you didn't try at all.

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Idk sounds like a problem for chad

 

[Looksmax305]

I wouldn’t say more chase but their definitely is some halo effect I’ve experienced with an Ex where for a short period of time after we breakup I think they are insanely more attractive than they actually are

 

[Looksmax305]

Wouldn’t recommend though needing to chase is a womanly trait

 

[Deleted member 5875]

For example if stuff happens too easy or if she’s obsessed with you would it be a turn off? Do you like that feeling of almost chasing her and winning her over?
This is the thing for me

Nigga whut

 

[The Bleach Pill]

no chase for ur face

 

[Deleted member 6572]

Wouldn’t recommend though needing to chase is a womanly trait

Why isn’t is usually women who have the guys come after them? They like when a guy chases them

 

[Deleted member 6572]

no chase for ur face

It’s over

 

[Looksmax305]

Why isn’t is usually women who have the guys come after them? They like when a guy chases them

They like when a guy chases them for their ego but especially for a woman if things are more or less Even in looks and all that stuff, she’s going to want the guy that doesn’t want her back. It’s a feminine quality to need validation

 

[Deleted member 6572]

They like when a guy chases them for their ego but especially for a woman if things are more or less Even in looks and all that stuff, she’s going to want the guy that doesn’t want her back. It’s a feminine quality to need validation

Wouldn’t there be more validation if someone is chasing you rather than acting like they don’t like you tho?

 

[Deleted member 8576]

chases me ngl

 

[Looksmax305]

Wouldn’t there be more validation if someone is chasing you rather than acting like they don’t like you tho?

What’s more validation for a girl

A. Dude that texts her all the time, immediately says he likes her, wants to be her 24/7.

B. Dude that texts her once and a while, she’s not sure if he likes her, but eventually they hook up. Obviously eventually she will give up but she’s going to want the guy that keeps her geussing

I’m basically saying it’s more validating to get validation from a “high value” person

 

[Looksmax305]

It’s like what would feel better some fat chick that wants you immediately. Or a Stacey after a couple weeks of talking says she wants to fuck

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Nah it would be easier, aint gonna sweat cause of a coochie, have better shit to do ngl

this, in fact it makes it would be better assuming she wasn't a complete uggo

 

[Deleted member 6305]

I don't like when a girl shows too much interest when it comes to having a relationship, just for fucking i don't care