Do you guys appreciate your life?

[Matrix88]

I'm not really sure guys. I often feel very disgusted at my life when I compare it to anyone happier than me and better looking than me (90% of the world)

don't know what to do honestly, I can't really appreciate the friends and family I got. I am ordinary, I could've been GREAT

 

[dubailabubu]

go outside and get a girlfriend mark as solution

 

[sharkboa]

i do when i look at people uglier or ppl that are extremely unfortunate but compared to the avg joe i feel very mid i feel like a loser i sit inside all day and have no friends sure that guy is uglier and dumber then me but he is happy and social

 

[sharkboa]

go outside and get a girlfriend mark as solution

"if ur homeless buy a house" kys stupid faggot grey

 

[dubailabubu]

"if ur homeless buy a house" kys stupid faggot grey

sorry sharkboa , here's a real response:

honestly, I used to compare myself with others, but I learned that it only made me sadder and didn't change anything. Once I changed my mentality, I was able to make small positive changes without even thinking about it. ALWAYS APPRECIATE YOUR FAMILY!!! I was incredibly bitter that I wasn't attractive and didn't have the friends/girlfriend I wanted. I took it out on them because I believed that my parents were responsible for how my life turned out. I completely forgot all of the sacrifices they took to give me the life I have. I learned that my family will always stick by me no matter what happens in my life and you should understand that as well.

don't try to go out of your way to appreciate the things that you have (it's nice, but it doesn't help). sit down and think about the things you don't like about your life and figure out the easiest one to change. Once you do that, the momentum wil carry you to completing the harder things.

"Remember that there is someone for everyone" and don't think of saying like this as cope. There are very ugly people that find love (looksmatch, but having anyone makes your life infinitely better)

one action that helped me was going outside into nature. It calms you down, and you can cry/let your anger out without people around.

 

[Matrix88]

one action that helped me was going outside into nature. It calms you down, and you can cry/let your anger out without people around.

that's one thing I really wanna do more often, I've noticed it helps me so much.

honestly, I used to compare myself with others, but I learned that it only made me sadder and didn't change anything. Once I changed my mentality, I was able to make small positive changes without even thinking about it. ALWAYS APPRECIATE YOUR FAMILY!!! I was incredibly bitter that I wasn't attractive and didn't have the friends/girlfriend I wanted. I took it out on them because I believed that my parents were responsible for how my life turned out. I completely forgot all of the sacrifices they took to give me the life I have. I learned that my family will always stick by me no matter what happens in my life and you should understand that as well.

I compare myself with others all the time... makes me feel like any change is so irrelevant to my life, since there are infinite people better than me at everything.

I do love my family, but when I get depressed I don't appreciate them enough. Sometimes I cry and blame them for all my genetic and economic problems.

Holy switch up. Great response buddy, love you

 

[dubailabubu]

that's one thing I really wanna do more often, I've noticed it helps me so much.


I compare myself with others all the time... makes me feel like any change is so irrelevant to my life, since there are infinite people better than me at everything.

I do love my family, but when I get depressed I don't appreciate them enough. Sometimes I cry and blame them for all my genetic and economic problems.

Holy switch up. Great response buddy, love you

a lot of those people have their own problems, ofc that doesn't make up for the fact that their better (especially when our problems are often WAY worse than theirs)
but you just gotta keep on going. as long as your improving day by day and ur better than you were yesterday thats what matters.

good luck with everything Matrix88, do the best you can now so you have NO REGRETS

 

[Carder]

Although people clown the chud, no one's as happy as the chud