Do you have an easier time asking out a foid you KNOW you have NO chance with than asking out a foid you MIGHT have a chance with?

[BadLuck7892]

I certainly have an easier time asking out a foid I know I have zero chance with.

 

[movhid114]

a 100% chance you get rejected is better than gambling a 50/50 not knowing the outcome.

 

[FartMaxxer]

Asking in general is terrifying

 

[BadLuck7892]

a 100% chance you get rejected is better than gambling a 50/50 not knowing the outcome.

Well-said.

Autists hate uncertainty (if you're on this forum, there's a high chance you're a fellow autist), which is why knowing the outcome ahead of time (even if it means rejection) is a lot better than gambling with an uncertain outcome.

That's what it all boils down to: With the foid we might have a chance with, that means we also might not have a chance. The "might not" part is what drives us crazy.

I prefer "definitely not" over "might not"

Most neurotypical men, on the other hand, probably don't get our mentality. Neurotypical men tend to be simpletons who think "Hell yeah it's worth asking the foid you might have a chance with. At least then you might get somewhere. Isn't that better than a foid where you know for a fact you won't get anywhere?"

Come to think of it, neurotypicals are basically animals (when it comes to how simple their thought process is). Us autists are deep thinkers.

 

[movhid114]

Well-said.

Autists hate uncertainty (if you're on this forum, there's a high chance you're a fellow autist), which is why knowing the outcome ahead of time (even if it means rejection) is a lot better than gambling with an uncertain outcome.

That's what it all boils down to: With the foid we might have a chance with, that means we also might not have a chance. The "might not" part is what drives us crazy.

I prefer "definitely not" over "might not"

Most neurotypical men, on the other hand, probably don't get our mentality. Neurotypical men tend to be simpletons who think "Hell yeah it's worth asking the foid you might have a chance with. At least then you might get somewhere. Isn't that better than a foid where you know for a fact you won't get anywhere?"

Come to think of it, neurotypicals are basically animals (when it comes to how simple their thought process is). Us autists are deep thinkers.

I couldn't agree more.

 

[superpsycho]

there is not a single woman in this world that i even have somewhat of a chance with

 

[PoopyFartGamer]

I certainly have an easier time asking out a foid I know I have zero chance with.

why ask a girl that u know wont say yes? What's the point?

 

[BadLuck7892]

I couldn't agree more.

Plus, foids who might say yeah turn me down the vast majority of the time anyway.

I'd rather get nowhere with a foid I already knew I'd get nowhere with than get nowhere with a foid I really thought might say yeah.

 

[BadLuck7892]

there is not a single woman in this world that i even have somewhat of a chance with

If I recall, you're around 16, right?

 

[superpsycho]

If I recall, you're around 16, right?

18

 

[aryan mogger]

I have no chances with any foid

 

[BadLuck7892]

why ask a girl that u know wont say yes? What's the point?

It's good practice. Even if I know I won't get anywhere, asking her out provides practice at talking to foids.

Plus, since I already know the outcome, I can relax.

Asking out a foid who might say yeah gives me crippling levels of nervousness (because of the uncertainty)

 

[movhid114]

Plus, foids who might say yeah turn me down the vast majority of the time anyway.

I'd rather get nowhere with a foid I already knew I'd get nowhere with than get nowhere with a foid I really thought might say yeah.

There's a reason why it's 50/50 cause the foids obviously are uncertain and 9 out of 10 times, she will say no since the reasoning behind the uncertainty is more likely to be coursing through her mind than the opposite. It's the same with males too, just that it happens WAY less.

 

[BadLuck7892]

18

There's still hope.

Even though I'm currently a 33 year old incel who hasn't had sex I didn't pay for in 4 years, I went through a stretch in my early 20s where I got several free sex partners.

 

[superpsycho]

There's still hope.

Even though I'm currently a 33 year old incel who hasn't had sex I didn't pay for in 4 years, I went through a stretch in my early 20s where I got several free sex partners.

moga me

 

[Klasik616]

I get rejected by both it doesn't fucking matter

 

[BadLuck7892]

moga me

My point is you might luck out in your early 20s too.

Even though my lucky stretch was short-lived, I was in your position at 18 (I thought no foid would let me into her cooch)

 

[BadLuck7892]

I get rejected by both it doesn't fucking matter

Same here. Which is why I much prefer knowing right off the bat I'm going to get rejected (vs getting my hopes up for nothing)

 

[BadLuck7892]

why ask a girl that u know wont say yes? What's the point?

Another thing: It doesn't always have to be an official askout.

For example, I've told married foids they have good looks. I wasn't trying to get with said foids; I was simply giving a compliment.

Since I knew right off the bat I had no chance, I was able to relax when giving the compliment.

On the other hand, giving a compliment to a single foid would be a lot more challenging (because I'd have the pressure of having to wonder whether I'm going to get anywhere with the foid)

 

[BadLuck7892]

Escorts are another example of where I'm able to relax because I already know the outcome.

And even in the rare instance where an escort rejects me, I have the closure of knowing why.

When a free foid rejects us, on the other hand, we typically have no idea exactly why.

Plus, even if an escort rejects us, we can easily find an escort who'll accept us. The same couldn't be said when dealing with free foids.

 

[superpsycho]

My point is you might luck out in your early 20s too.

Even though my lucky stretch was short-lived, I was in your position at 18 (I thought no foid would let me into her cooch)

how can i get it in my 20s if i couldnt get it in my teens

 

[BadLuck7892]

how can i get it in my 20s if i couldnt get it in my teens

The fact I got cooch in my 20s (after never getting cooch in my teens) proves it can happen.

 

[PoopyFartGamer]

It's good practice. Even if I know I won't get anywhere, asking her out provides practice at talking to foids.

Plus, since I already know the outcome, I can relax.

Asking out a foid who might say yeah gives me crippling levels of nervousness (because of the uncertainty)

Just saying,if u do this often, the girls will talk shit abt u in their group chats. It wont even be a good practice. You dont even have to try if the girl already gave u hints, the hints will make it so obvious that u pretty much already know the approach will be a success before even doing it.

 

[PoopyFartGamer]

Another thing: It doesn't always have to be an official askout.

For example, I've told married foids they have good looks. I wasn't trying to get with said foids; I was simply giving a compliment.

Since I knew right off the bat I had no chance, I was able to relax when giving the compliment.

On the other hand, giving a compliment to a single foid would be a lot more challenging (because I'd have the pressure of having to wonder whether I'm going to get anywhere with the foid)

Why would u even compliment girls? They will just think ur weird

 

[trashbinxoxo]

I've never even asked but I don't think I'd be nervous because I KNOW I have no chance with anyone

 

[BadLuck7892]

Just saying,if u do this often, the girls will talk shit abt u in their group chats. It wont even be a good practice. You dont even have to try if the girl already gave u hints, the hints will make it so obvious that u pretty much already know the approach will be a success before even doing it.

Umm, I've been rejected before by foids I thought were giving obvious hints.

I've also found out through the grapevine foids I never had the slightest inkling were into me, were into me (any hints they might have given, I failed to pick up on)

Your premise (that if a foid is into a dude, she'll make herself so obvious he'll know she'll accept his advances) simply isn't true

 

[BadLuck7892]

Why would u even compliment girls? They will just think ur weird

I need practice.

Complimenting a foid I don't expect I have a chance with can help me build the confidence to compliment a foid I have a chance with.

 

[BadLuck7892]

I've never even asked but I don't think I'd be nervous because I KNOW I have no chance with anyone

Your claim (you have no chance with anyone) would explain why you've never asked

 

[trashbinxoxo]

Your claim (you have no chance with anyone) would explain why you've never asked

Because I'm ugly and ND so I don't try
I've found peace with never finding someone

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I have an easier time expelling explosive diarhea than either

 

[BadLuck7892]

Because I'm ugly and ND so I don't try
I've found peace with never finding someone

I'm attractive but an autist.

Looks really don't help much when you're an autist (In other words, despite our looks gap, I'm really not in much better of a position than you are)

 

[BadLuck7892]

I have an easier time expelling explosive diarhea than either

What I hate is when foids femsplain to us about how easy it supposedly is for us to do an askout

Yet then these very same foids admit they'd never do an askout.