
BadLuck7892
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I certainly have an easier time asking out a foid I know I have zero chance with.
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Well-said.a 100% chance you get rejected is better than gambling a 50/50 not knowing the outcome.
I couldn't agree more.Well-said.
Autists hate uncertainty (if you're on this forum, there's a high chance you're a fellow autist), which is why knowing the outcome ahead of time (even if it means rejection) is a lot better than gambling with an uncertain outcome.
That's what it all boils down to: With the foid we might have a chance with, that means we also might not have a chance. The "might not" part is what drives us crazy.
I prefer "definitely not" over "might not"
Most neurotypical men, on the other hand, probably don't get our mentality. Neurotypical men tend to be simpletons who think "Hell yeah it's worth asking the foid you might have a chance with. At least then you might get somewhere. Isn't that better than a foid where you know for a fact you won't get anywhere?"
Come to think of it, neurotypicals are basically animals (when it comes to how simple their thought process is). Us autists are deep thinkers.
why ask a girl that u know wont say yes? What's the point?I certainly have an easier time asking out a foid I know I have zero chance with.
Plus, foids who might say yeah turn me down the vast majority of the time anyway.I couldn't agree more.
If I recall, you're around 16, right?there is not a single woman in this world that i even have somewhat of a chance with
18If I recall, you're around 16, right?
It's good practice. Even if I know I won't get anywhere, asking her out provides practice at talking to foids.why ask a girl that u know wont say yes? What's the point?
There's a reason why it's 50/50 cause the foids obviously are uncertain and 9 out of 10 times, she will say no since the reasoning behind the uncertainty is more likely to be coursing through her mind than the opposite. It's the same with males too, just that it happens WAY less.Plus, foids who might say yeah turn me down the vast majority of the time anyway.
I'd rather get nowhere with a foid I already knew I'd get nowhere with than get nowhere with a foid I really thought might say yeah.
There's still hope.
moga meThere's still hope.
Even though I'm currently a 33 year old incel who hasn't had sex I didn't pay for in 4 years, I went through a stretch in my early 20s where I got several free sex partners.
My point is you might luck out in your early 20s too.moga me
Same here. Which is why I much prefer knowing right off the bat I'm going to get rejected (vs getting my hopes up for nothing)I get rejected by both it doesn't fucking matter
Another thing: It doesn't always have to be an official askout.why ask a girl that u know wont say yes? What's the point?
how can i get it in my 20s if i couldnt get it in my teensMy point is you might luck out in your early 20s too.
Even though my lucky stretch was short-lived, I was in your position at 18 (I thought no foid would let me into her cooch)
The fact I got cooch in my 20s (after never getting cooch in my teens) proves it can happen.how can i get it in my 20s if i couldnt get it in my teens
Just saying,if u do this often, the girls will talk shit abt u in their group chats. It wont even be a good practice. You dont even have to try if the girl already gave u hints, the hints will make it so obvious that u pretty much already know the approach will be a success before even doing it.It's good practice. Even if I know I won't get anywhere, asking her out provides practice at talking to foids.
Plus, since I already know the outcome, I can relax.
Asking out a foid who might say yeah gives me crippling levels of nervousness (because of the uncertainty)
Why would u even compliment girls? They will just think ur weirdAnother thing: It doesn't always have to be an official askout.
For example, I've told married foids they have good looks. I wasn't trying to get with said foids; I was simply giving a compliment.
Since I knew right off the bat I had no chance, I was able to relax when giving the compliment.
On the other hand, giving a compliment to a single foid would be a lot more challenging (because I'd have the pressure of having to wonder whether I'm going to get anywhere with the foid)