Do you keep your word?

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A friend got mad at me today because I have been postponing some plumbing work at his place for over a month. I promised I will remove the garden faucet that has been leaking underground for free. It is leaking very slowly and its not an emergency, but I could save him at least 50-70 euro if I did it for free.

In order to do that I have to borrow a jackhammer form another friend. Well that would all be fine if I was capable of doing anything at all now due to crippling depression. I just procrastinate day after day. I stopped brusing teeth, I shower like once a week and have no energy for anything. He got mad today and I told him to go fuck himself I also cussed out everyone present at the village center and said that this village needs to be nuked.
 
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Sounds like a Reddit problem

Just do it if it’s not thaatt much time consuming
If you know what ur doing then it probably is not that depressing for you and you might feel better after the accomplishment and the appreciation of your friend
 
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Sounds like a Reddit problem

Just do it if it’s not thaatt much time consuming
If you know what ur doing then it probably is not that depressing for you and you might feel better after the accomplishment and the appreciation of your friend
Yeah it does sound like a reddit problem. But I have a problem right now where I cant do shit and it takes an extreme effort, its not always like this and I have done plenty of trade related work for free for my friends. However people get used to that and do not appreciate it but feel like you owe them. It it was urgent then I get his anger but its is dropping like a drop a second in the fucking garden there is barely a puddle.
 
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Yeah it does sound like a reddit problem. But I have a problem right now where I cant do shit and it takes an extreme effort, its not always like this and I have done plenty of trade related work for free for my friends. However people get used to that and do not appreciate it but feel like you owe them. It it was urgent then I get his anger but its is dropping like a drop a second in the fucking garden there is barely a puddle.
Just tell him that ur like kind of burned out or busy with a lot of stuff at the moment.
 
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If you owe him a favor or something then id just get it over with. it would also help with your lack of motivation as once you get started, its easy to keep the momentum going.

howerever, if you dont owe him anything then take as long as you want, draak77's excuse was a good one so id probably use that. you do u tho gl
 
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If you owe him a favor or something then id just get it over with. it would also help with your lack of motivation as once you get started, its easy to keep the momentum going.

howerever, if you dont owe him anything then take as long as you want, draak77's excuse was a good one so id probably use that. you do u tho gl
I owe no one anything, it is just that I kept postponing the job from extreme laziness/lack of motivation/depression. I am the one one that said will do it tho and it sucks to not keep your word, now he is mad at me and will not talk to me. If anything he owes me for fixing his shitty leaky roof this spring. Niggas feel entiteed if you do them too many favors for free.

I am also a bit bipolar and when I am in a good mood nothing is hard for me, when I am like this everything feels heavy and just impossible to start.
 
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I owe no one anything, it is just that I kept postponing the job from extreme laziness/lack of motivation/depression. I am the one one that said will do it tho and it sucks to not keep your word, now he is mad at me and will not talk to me. If anything he owes me for fixing his shitty leaky roof this spring. Niggas feel entiteed if you do them too many favors for free.

I am also a bit bipolar and when I am in a good mood nothing is hard for me, when I am like this everything feels heavy and just impossible to start.
Just get your self a pack of cigs
Smoke some
Go to your friend grab the jackhammer
Smoke more cigs
Repair the shit while smoking
And go home

Job done, no image lost
 
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"I owe no one anything, it is just that I kept postponing the job from extreme laziness/lack of motivation/depression. I am the one one that said will do it tho and it sucks to not keep your word" If you dont owe him anything then you shouldnt care if hes mad or not.

"If anything he owes me for fixing his leaky roof this spring. people feel entiteed if you do them too many favors for free.If anything he owes me for fixing his leaky roof this spring. people feel entiteed if you do them too many favors for free." I truly hate people who are entiltled. Why should they get your help you if they are useless to you
 
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"I owe no one anything, it is just that I kept postponing the job from extreme laziness/lack of motivation/depression. I am the one one that said will do it tho and it sucks to not keep your word" If you dont owe him anything then you shouldnt care if hes mad or not.

"If anything he owes me for fixing his leaky roof this spring. people feel entiteed if you do them too many favors for free.If anything he owes me for fixing his leaky roof this spring. people feel entiteed if you do them too many favors for free." I truly hate people who are entiltled. Why should they get your help you if they are useless to you
One of the few skills I have is being handy and I do like to help friends, just not in the mood now. I guess it's my way of 'buying' them since I have no money, car or bitches.
 
A friend got mad at me today because I have been postponing some plumbing work at his place for over a month. I promised I will remove the garden faucet that has been leaking underground for free. It is leaking very slowly and its not an emergency, but I could save him at least 50-70 euro if I did it for free.

In order to do that I have to borrow a jackhammer form another friend. Well that would all be fine if I was capable of doing anything at all now due to crippling depression. I just procrastinate day after day. I stopped brusing teeth, I shower like once a week and have no energy for anything. He got mad today and I told him to go fuck himself I also cussed out everyone present at the village center and said that this village needs to be nuked.
I try to but it can be hard with my immediate family. I say little things to them day to day that are subject to way to much change to keep. Other than that I failed to invite a friend to a barbeque when I told him I would last year.
 
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One of the few skills I have is being handy and I do like to help friends, just not in the mood now. I guess it's my way of 'buying' them since I have no money, car or bitches.
mm well goodluck to you, hope you feel like it soon and make up w him
 
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Most of the time I do so when I can't people already know it's a genuine reason
 
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