Does anyone else beat themsevles up after social interactions

[yeeyeeslayer]

Sometimes i feel like i could've done better and said funnier things and overall just been more NT anyone else relate.

Im not necessarily autistic nor do i embarrass myself or act weird but sometimes i feel like i underperform socially

anyone else relate

@buflek

 

[mortis]

No. I don't. My social skills are top tier

 

[romanstock]

I think over what I said and then have a tourettes twinge where I say my oneitis' name when I think of potential cringe moments even when there were none.

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

No. I don't. My social skills are top tier

but your an incel living in iran so ur QOL is still prolly dogshit

 

[mortis]

but you live in iran so ur life still sucks

Why?

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

Why?

JFL r u shia or ex muslim

 

[Deleted member 1140]

i beat myself up yesterday cuz i got sick for the 3rd time in like 3 months

my head still hurts

 

[mortis]

i beat myself up yesterday cuz i got sick for the 3rd time in like 3 months

my head still hurts

Sub htn male immune system.

 

[mortis]

JFL r u shia or ex muslim

I'm mortis.

 

[efidescontinuado]

I think most people have this thought when they find themselves in important social situations.

 

[N8verBegan]

I used to do that as a people pleaser. STOP doing it buddy boyo. The people you wanna hang out with are ppl who are chill enough to like everything you say and dont gaf about how nt u r or not. I used to have toxic “popular” friends that judged me and excluded me, I cut them off and much better now. STOP thinking like you owe them something or you have to be good to them. Become a narcisist. It is unironically the best option to fight social anxiety and self esteem issues

 

[Gonthar]

Like Philip Seymour Hoffman in Boogie Nights?

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

Like Philip Seymour Hoffman in Boogie Nights?

no lol it aint that bad but i just get in my head sometimes

 

[Deleted member 57464]

i dont have any social interacts

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

i dont have any social interacts

how

 

[Deleted member 57464]

how

im an incel loser

 

[wsada]

Everytime I finish a social interaction my brain finally starts functioning and I start regretting everything I said

 

[RftH]

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

I used to do that as a people pleaser. STOP doing it buddy boyo. The people you wanna hang out with are ppl who are chill enough to like everything you say and dont gaf about how nt u r or not. I used to have toxic “popular” friends that judged me and excluded me, I cut them off and much better now. STOP thinking like you owe them something or you have to be good to them. Become a narcisist. It is unironically the best option to fight social anxiety and self esteem issues

I don't give a fuck what people think about me. I have no regrets. They don't appreciate my personality, eat my fucking ass.

 

[Deleted member 44207]

Sometimes i feel like i could've done better and said funnier things and overall just been more NT anyone else relate.

Im not necessarily autistic nor do i embarrass myself or act weird but sometimes i feel like i underperform socially

anyone else relate

@buflek

Yes, every damn time. I'm autistic and very rarely, if ever, have "smooth" or "good" social interactions. Without fail, there's ALWAYS some aspect to the conversation that I make awkward and beat myself up over

 

[liberiangrimreaper]

Sometimes i feel like i could've done better and said funnier things and overall just been more NT anyone else relate.

Im not necessarily autistic nor do i embarrass myself or act weird but sometimes i feel like i underperform socially

anyone else relate

@buflek

Relatable, I have post-game talks on what I could've said all the time