Does anyone else feel like they would be so much further in life with a different family

[try2beme]

I feel like my low IQ parents have stunted me massively and I had to do everything myself. it will never be enough to compensate for their failures

 

[Randomized Shame]

Yes. It's almost like my family went out of their way to make my future as unlivable as possible.

 

[isis_Bleach]

nah

 

[sinisternigger]

Yuh

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Yes

 

[try2beme]

Yes. It's almost like my family went out of their way to make my future as unlivable as possible.

Karma is gonna hit them like a truck when they’re the ones retiring and aging

 

[cursedpaki19]

I feel like my low IQ parents have stunted me massively and I had to do everything myself. it will never be enough to compensate for their failures

Yes

 

[sinisternigger]

Yuh

 

[larpcel]

Most people would whether they would like to admit it or not. Jfl if you think you wouldn’t go farther being the son of a surgeon who’s never home rather than the son of ur kind and caring bin man father

 

[try2beme]

Most people would whether they would like to admit it or not. Jfl if you think you wouldn’t go farther being the son of a surgeon who’s never home rather than the son of ur kind and caring bin man father

Bare minimum comes to my mind, not surgeon nor banker

 

[Cafu]

DUDE YES. Fuck My peanut skulled father for his low iq actions. And fuck my mother now for what she’s caused my life to be

 

[Gargantuan]

100%. It's amazing how some families build you up, teach you skills, prepare you for the world, and give you what you need when you need it. Mine never did. It took me years to even realise what was missing, let alone fill those gaps myself. This makes things even worse since everything compounds over time. I'm doing it now, but the time cost is real.

 

[try2beme]

100%. It's amazing how some families build you up, teach you skills, prepare you for the world, and give you what you need when you need it.

Fucking brutal I will never have this

 

[Randomized Shame]

Karma is gonna hit them like a truck when they’re the ones retiring and aging

They're dead now. 23 but no parents. It is what it is though. It's what happens when you do drugs. Life could always be worse though, so I try not to let my resentment get worse.

My biggest concern was probably them not putting an effort into getting me educated. They did nothing with their lives and assumed that I would've wanted the same for myself. I'm trying to fix it now though.

 

[Hide]

I feel like my low IQ parents have stunted me massively and I had to do everything myself. it will never be enough to compensate for their failures

Same

If my parents let me get my adhd meds and not cope with "learning centers that will help ur brain"

Let me dye my hair

Didnt fight me over for gym and have mom using retarded cope about "charisma"

Let me get accutane

Allowed me to take roids jfl

 

[try2beme]

They're dead now. 23 but no parents. It is what it is though. It's what happens when you do drugs. Life could always be worse though, so I try not to let my resentment get worse.

My biggest concern was probably them not putting an effort into getting me educated. They did nothing with their lives and assumed that I would've wanted the same for myself. I'm trying to fix it now though.

I hope both of mine die I already am ready to lose them and let go of the misery they put on me

 

[FaceandBBC]

No, I am insanely lucky to have the family I do. Especially as a negro.

 

[Randomized Shame]

100%. It's amazing how some families build you up, teach you skills, prepare you for the world, and give you what you need when you need it. Mine never did. It took me years to even realise what was missing, let alone fill those gaps myself. This makes things even worse since everything compounds over time. I'm doing it now, but the time cost is real.

Very real. It's hard to correct it as an adult because your brain is vastly different than as a kid, and so it sometimes like time was wasted or that you're past correction. It's not true, you can always put the effort into making the change, but it's way harder now and takes longer.