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So I was finally outside for sometime today in the night and it felt good to feel the breath of fresh air after so many days.I was walking alone and something that I noticed was that I couldn't hold eye contact for long with girls.Usually,I have no problem in making eye contact with boys and men but for some reason I get nervous when I see a girl infront of me.Although I didn't see many girls outside today but I was not able to maintain eye contact whenever I would see one.
In places like malls and schools this anxiety that I have around girls,just gets worse.There have been moments where I literally didn't even look face to face for a few seconds.I always try to convince myself that this shit ain't difficult but whenever I step foot outside and go somewhere,I just don't have any other option except to avoid eye contact.
If I don't fix this problem now,I don't think I'll ever be able to socialize with people.
Do you guys have any tips for not being nervous around girls and being able to hold eye contact for long time?
@Bitchwhipper2 How do I lower my inhib bro?
 
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Why are you worried about making eye contact with random women on the street?
 
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What's so funny @Eltrē ?
 
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Do you guys have any tips for not being nervous around girls and being able to hold eye contact for long time?
they're random, strangers, the chance of seeing them again is slim, and they won't remember you a day from now on

ask yourself who cares and you'll realize no-one does
 
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had this when i was younger, you just need to start talking to a lot of women and you will get confident
 
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had this when i was younger, you just need to start talking to a lot of women and you will get confident
But I don't think I'll be able to, I'm below average looks wise
 
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But I don't think I'll be able to, I'm below average looks wise
it doesnt matter how you look. When i was mltn i used to approach women to get over this fear, its a challenge at first but after a while you will be super confident, no matter how you look
 
So I was finally outside for sometime today in the night and it felt good to feel the breath of fresh air after so many days.I was walking alone and something that I noticed was that I couldn't hold eye contact for long with girls.Usually,I have no problem in making eye contact with boys and men but for some reason I get nervous when I see a girl infront of me.Although I didn't see many girls outside today but I was not able to maintain eye contact whenever I would see one.
In places like malls and schools this anxiety that I have around girls,just gets worse.There have been moments where I literally didn't even look face to face for a few seconds.I always try to convince myself that this shit ain't difficult but whenever I step foot outside and go somewhere,I just don't have any other option except to avoid eye contact.
If I don't fix this problem now,I don't think I'll ever be able to socialize with people.
Do you guys have any tips for not being nervous around girls and being able to hold eye contact for long time?
@Bitchwhipper2 How do I lower my inhib bro?
boost ur ego, fixes all the problems
 
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