Does Anyone Else Miss Having Friends?

[InanimatePragmatist]

I had a few "friends". They treated me well enough but never as someone of true value. I was sometimes a jester when I was younger but I have out grown that and even back then I noticed I had no value but instead of submitting to admittance, I choose to hide behind needless reason. Such as "Oh maybe they are busy" or "Damn, I guess the exams are heavy" when in reality they just never really cared about me, they considered seeing me out of boredom but not out of true concern or care unlike me. I remember making sure my once "brothers" were well mentally and knew where in life they were heading. Yet that is my punishment for trying to be fair with lower life forms. Normies you can say.

A lot of mankind cannot stand superiority so they tear it down instead of learning from it. That is the issue of man, the pride and arrogance. They are lustful for the taste of power yet would not know what to do with it maybe just being children with it. I only ever been out with my once friend group around 8 times. They were nice. I still find it amusing how the memory of playing ball with my peers brings out such humane reactions in my psyche. Pity, the last thing I should favour are things out of my hand and not made for me.

That is what I do not understand about most men. This goes in all manners. Men yearn for an attractive woman's attention yet they never will recieve unless if they have some sort of precieved value within the moment but not genuine desire. At least women stop knowing they cannot get something but men? No no no, they keep marching to their own damn motivation's sepulchre. Naivety is a curse that can only be lifted by even more suffering. Do any of you readers have any good memories with friends. Or should I say temporary assets.

 

[160cmcurry]

never had any

 

[FaceandBBC]

Haven't had a "friend" in years and don't miss it.

 

[Sceptical]

 

[RapeAllFemales]

There are certain things you can't get back once you've passed a certain age.

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

There are certain things you can't get back once you've passed a certain age.

I believe I am soon reaching such stage.

 

[Daddy's Home]

Today I went to some foot tennis where I met/played with about 9-12 to say friends/acquaintances, 3 of them girls with whom I constantly team up, having very good relations with all of them, and me being by far the most popular guy and with the biggest aura among them (I'm the best in the whole university complex at this game)

In the evening I went to a soccer, where I was with about 5-6 guys from tennis, and the rest about 4 guys who again are friends/acquaintances, and only 2-3 guys I don't know or know only by sight

I can say that these days I certainly have no shortage of social activity, or people around me to talk to / plan things with / laugh with etc.

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

Today I went to some foot tennis where I met/played with about 9-12 to say friends/acquaintances, 3 of them girls with whom I constantly team up, having very good relations with all of them, and me being by far the most popular guy and with the biggest aura among them (I'm the best in the whole university complex at this game)

In the evening I went to a soccer, where I was with about 5-6 guys from tennis, and the rest about 4 guys who again are friends/acquaintances, and only 2-3 guys I don't know or know only by sight

I can say that these days I certainly have no shortage of social activity, or people around me to talk to / plan things with / laugh with etc.

Interesting. Are you still young? I only ever really had a handful of experiences when it comes to such. I was never really invited out much.

 

[SexWhale]

I had a friend group I grew up (all guys) with since the age of 7 (im 19 now). However after going to college and having to meet new people I’ve come to realize the influence of bp in friendships. Especially in a mixed group with women involved, everything is a power battle. The attractive guys wanting to show their “dominance” and the girls noticeable treating you worse, even if they don’t “mean to.” So while I also made friends in college I no longer value them.

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

I had a friend group I grew up (all guys) with since the age of 7 (im 19 now). However after going to college and having to meet new people I’ve come to realize the influence of bp in friendships. Especially in a mixed group with women involved, everything is a power battle. The attractive guys wanting to show their “dominance” and the girls noticeable treating you worse, even if they don’t “mean to.” So while I also made friends in college I no longer value them.

I would say the same expect my group did not have girls in it. Yet even then they fought each other verbally over nothing. They were kids of course. I was not, I spoke honesty too soon and brashly. I am not surpised why I was abandoned, yet I still stand correct about them growing up into grown man children.

College, I found no one there. I do not think I can, once you see the pattern mankind is, you will never ever unsee it.

 

[Daddy's Home]

Interesting. Are you still young? I only ever really had a handful of experiences when it comes to such. I was never really invited out much.

26, and everyone I described is early 20s to mid 20s, but I can probably easily pass as being 18 - early 20s because my face looks very young given my good nutrition and good sleep that I have had consistently so far, and the fact that I work remotely from laptop from bed and I don't stress much / I don't do physical effort at work like carrying heavy things / lifting weights + I don't work shifts, which again is very important if you want to look young

I have been indirectly increasing my popularity and networking in this direction constantly over the last 2-3 years (given that I am very good at these sports, people have always wanted to orbit around me to be on their team / learn things from me), so nothing came instantly or overnight, it's just that my skills and my chill personality have earned them the respect in the meantime

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

26, and everyone I described is early 20s to mid 20s, but I can probably easily pass as being 18 - early 20s because my face looks very young given my good nutrition and good sleep that I have had consistently so far, and the fact that I work remotely from laptop from bed and I don't stress much / I don't do physical effort at work like carrying heavy things / lifting weights + I don't work shifts, which again is very important if you want to look young

I have been indirectly increasing my popularity and networking in this direction constantly over the last 2-3 years (given that I am very good at these sports, people have always wanted to orbit around me to be on their team / learn things from me), so nothing came instantly or overnight, it's just that my skills and my chill personality have earned them the respect in the meantime

I cannot comprehend such a life. I am younger but I have my own connections, more like family and work wise. Nothing social. I am just carrying my families legacy of free lance work.

Yes, the fact you were given time to mature and bathe in cognitive nurturing also helped you plenty. I would say I envy your life but how can I if I do not even understand or feel it. Either way, congrats. Enjoy life.

 

[MoggerGaston]

never had any

 

[Naticel]

I had a few "friends". They treated me well enough but never as someone of true value. I was sometimes a jester when I was younger but I have out grown that and even back then I noticed I had no value but instead of submitting to admittance, I choose to hide behind needless reason. Such as "Oh maybe they are busy" or "Damn, I guess the exams are heavy" when in reality they just never really cared about me, they considered seeing me out of boredom but not out of true concern or care unlike me. I remember making sure my once "brothers" were well mentally and knew where in life they were heading. Yet that is my punishment for trying to be fair with lower life forms. Normies you can say.

A lot of mankind cannot stand superiority so they tear it down instead of learning from it. That is the issue of man, the pride and arrogance. They are lustful for the taste of power yet would not know what to do with it maybe just being children with it. I only ever been out with my once friend group around 8 times. They were nice. I still find it amusing how the memory of playing ball with my peers brings out such humane reactions in my psyche. Pity, the last thing I should favour are things out of my hand and not made for me.

That is what I do not understand about most men. This goes in all manners. Men yearn for an attractive woman's attention yet they never will recieve unless if they have some sort of precieved value within the moment but not genuine desire. At least women stop knowing they cannot get something but men? No no no, they keep marching to their own damn motivation's sepulchre. Naivety is a curse that can only be lifted by even more suffering. Do any of you readers have any good memories with friends. Or should I say temporary assets.

right now i have 5 friends (4-irl, 1-online) but i havent been able to make a new irl friend since like 2017

 

[altmax]

@MoggerGaston how have you been brother

 

[Daddy's Home]

I am very good at these sports

I envy your life

Like I play better than these guys in the video below by about 10 times, which when you constantly play vs random guys who can barely hit the ball or are just average or like the guys from this video + you are constantly watched from the outside by guys and foids who see how brutally you destroy your opponent, it's quite a mogger and you very quickly gain respect and admiration from them and others, and they will want to be around you to learn / just be with them on the team to ensure their win most of the time..

 

[kazama]

damn why did u post this offtopic??? Its too much to read

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

Like I play better than these guys in the video below by about 10 times, which when you constantly play vs random guys who can barely hit the ball or are just average or like the guys from this video + you are constantly watched from the outside by guys and foids who see how brutally you destroy your opponent, it's quite a mogger and you very quickly gain respect and admiration from them and others, and they will want to be around you to learn / just be with them on the team to ensure their win most of the time..

I used too and guess I still do the same in the tennis. It is just much less social even there. Most people in tennis do not care to socialise.
At least I get to cope with my favourite sport.

 

[MoggerGaston]

@MoggerGaston how have you been brother

Brutal. They kicked me out of therapy cuz im too traumatized so now i heal myself through more drugs i guess

 

[Basedking]

I had a friend group I grew up (all guys) with since the age of 7 (im 19 now). However after going to college and having to meet new people I’ve come to realize the influence of bp in friendships. Especially in a mixed group with women involved, everything is a power battle. The attractive guys wanting to show their “dominance” and the girls noticeable treating you worse, even if they don’t “mean to.” So while I also made friends in college I no longer value them.

I was ostracized when puberty came. I was small so they tried to avoid mem I was also honest and would say in front of everyone u r doing for that woman. They then tried to take advantage of me and I left them.
Now at my age I can't get good friends except due to mutual transactions, benefits. I am left alone in this aspect

 

[neurosis]

No, i pretty much always cut off all of the friends I've made whenever I change location whether that be for education/work

 

[ThugggButt]

I had a few "friends". They treated me well enough but never as someone of true value. I was sometimes a jester when I was younger but I have out grown that and even back then I noticed I had no value but instead of submitting to admittance, I choose to hide behind needless reason. Such as "Oh maybe they are busy" or "Damn, I guess the exams are heavy" when in reality they just never really cared about me, they considered seeing me out of boredom but not out of true concern or care unlike me. I remember making sure my once "brothers" were well mentally and knew where in life they were heading. Yet that is my punishment for trying to be fair with lower life forms. Normies you can say.

A lot of mankind cannot stand superiority so they tear it down instead of learning from it. That is the issue of man, the pride and arrogance. They are lustful for the taste of power yet would not know what to do with it maybe just being children with it. I only ever been out with my once friend group around 8 times. They were nice. I still find it amusing how the memory of playing ball with my peers brings out such humane reactions in my psyche. Pity, the last thing I should favour are things out of my hand and not made for me.

That is what I do not understand about most men. This goes in all manners. Men yearn for an attractive woman's attention yet they never will recieve unless if they have some sort of precieved value within the moment but not genuine desire. At least women stop knowing they cannot get something but men? No no no, they keep marching to their own damn motivation's sepulchre. Naivety is a curse that can only be lifted by even more suffering. Do any of you readers have any good memories with friends. Or should I say temporary assets.

This is a contradiction. You seem to understand the purpose of a friendship, but you won't conform yourself into someone who fulfills that purpose. Though I can't blame you at this point in time. It's sad that in this world, it's so difficult for people to find reason to care for others without receiving something in return.

 

[Basedking]

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This is a contradiction. You seem to understand the purpose of a friendship, but you won't conform yourself into someone who fulfills that purpose. Though I can't blame you at this point in time. It's sad that in this world, it's so difficult for people to find reason to care for others without receiving something in return.

Normies r brutal pschopaths. They can identify who is not like them. Like they have inbuilt radar to detect

 

[Elias144]

Yeah I miss having guy friends to just joke around with and do stupid stuff with. I have a lot of female friends now. It's better than nothing, but I prefer guys for friendship. Girls can be fine friends, but the dynamic is different. At this age (23) it seems impossible to make new guy friends, because everyone is either already in a "group" that was established long ago, or they're a complete shut in and don't want to make friends. Girls seem to be more receptive to being invited out and trying new things. I tried keeping up with my old group from college, but eventually gave up because they weren't reciprocating at all. I do have a lot of individual friends, just no "group". In my experience a group dynamic is much more fun overall. Yeah I miss it, but I think at this point of life it's not really a thing anymore. From this point on (post-college) it's just individual friends and your significant other.

 

[LTNUser]

I have few friends
I don't like making much friends because most people just mock me for my NDness and looks which pisses me off NGL
Although I stay calm on the outside but deep inside it saddens me up

 

[Popstar867]

The problem is I experienced true friendship and a friend group and friend group with girls . We went camping and traveled we did everything together. But I switched countries and have nothing absolutely nothing . When people say friends are transactional @superpsycho it’s because they never Experienced how great it feels . Just like a rich kid wont understand the value of money .

 

[aryan mogger]

Actually no

 

[superpsycho]

The problem is I experienced true friendship and a friend group and friend group with girls . We went camping and traveled we did everything together. But I switched countries and have nothing absolutely nothing . When people say friends are transactional @superpsycho it’s because they never Experienced how great it feels . Just like a rich kid wont understand the value of money .

all friends are transactional in some way, shape, or form.

 

[MiserableMan]

I had a few "friends". They treated me well enough but never as someone of true value. I was sometimes a jester when I was younger but I have out grown that and even back then I noticed I had no value but instead of submitting to admittance, I choose to hide behind needless reason. Such as "Oh maybe they are busy" or "Damn, I guess the exams are heavy" when in reality they just never really cared about me, they considered seeing me out of boredom but not out of true concern or care unlike me. I remember making sure my once "brothers" were well mentally and knew where in life they were heading. Yet that is my punishment for trying to be fair with lower life forms. Normies you can say.

A lot of mankind cannot stand superiority so they tear it down instead of learning from it. That is the issue of man, the pride and arrogance. They are lustful for the taste of power yet would not know what to do with it maybe just being children with it. I only ever been out with my once friend group around 8 times. They were nice. I still find it amusing how the memory of playing ball with my peers brings out such humane reactions in my psyche. Pity, the last thing I should favour are things out of my hand and not made for me.

That is what I do not understand about most men. This goes in all manners. Men yearn for an attractive woman's attention yet they never will recieve unless if they have some sort of precieved value within the moment but not genuine desire. At least women stop knowing they cannot get something but men? No no no, they keep marching to their own damn motivation's sepulchre. Naivety is a curse that can only be lifted by even more suffering. Do any of you readers have any good memories with friends. Or should I say temporary assets.

Never had any real close friends, don't know what it's like to have them. Can't miss something i never truly had.

 

[Marsiere214]

its okay bro you just have to get used to loneliness and learn to live alone as painful as it sounds. I personally never really had any true friends as i was always the expendible one and i was always the one reaching out until i gave up and got tired of the bullshit and just coped with vydia while the bad grades were pilling up.

 

[Popstar867]

all friends are transactional in some way, shape, or form.

But what do you exactly mean transactional ? We were friends as kids , surely we don’t understand the meaning of money , and in my experience I never expected a returned from them , also you could simply say having kids is the same thing , or women finding her partner , but we know deep down it’s not because of that . And the concept of friends has been there way before money even existed

 

[roadtochang123]

Wish i ever had a genuine friendship

 

[LooksMaxsterAwesome]

Most friendships at least in western society are transactional relationships based on some form of materialism finding real connection is pretty rare

 

[LooksMaxsterAwesome]

Most friendships at least in western society are transactional relationships based on some form of materialism finding real connection is pretty rare

Although that's not to say if you have good energy the universe matches you with other high vibe people its just that they are very rare in the west, hard to come by. They do exist though! At least for me.

 

[ihatereddit]

I havent had friends in 15 years nigga its beyond ober for me
but yes

 

[AlphaLooksmaxxer666]

I am ok with myself