Does anyone else take foid rejection very personally?

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I know this roastie at the office. She is in her 40s, has multiple kids, no husband. I was never interested in having a relationship with her, but I knew her for about 3.5 years. We Over the 3+ years we started making personal conversations. I just wanted to be friends.

Asked the foid if she wanted to stay in touch and she said no , she was busy and walked off. Almost made me want to cry.

Im a HTN and she's an ugly ass roastie. She should be grateful that I asked her out. Its like someone gives a beggar gold, and they are rude and say they don't want it. It kind of annoys you.

I know, ive talked about this before but another time other foids bought up their "boyfriends" around me (I talk about it here)
 
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Does anyone else take foid rejection very personally? Any suggestions on how to stop taking it so personally?

And I know that I do the same (if not worse) to the fat pigs at my office/zoo, I bring up my "girlfriend" around them and make fun of their eating habits from time to time, but thats because they are obese animals who deserve it. I am NOT.
 
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I know this roastie at the office. She is in her 40s, has multiple kids, no husband. I was never interested in having a relationship with her, but I knew her for about 3.5 years. We Over the 3+ years we started making personal conversations.

Asked the foid if she wanted to stay in touch and she said no , she was busy and walked off. Almost made me want to cry.

Im a HTN and she's an ugly ass roastie. She should be grateful that I asked her out. Its like someone gives a beggar gold, and they are rude and say they don't want it. It kind of annoys you.

I know, ive talked about this before but another time other foids bought up their "boyfriends" around me (I talk about it here)
Approaching foid with few kids sounds diabolical tbh
But idk about rejection
 
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I know. It's still not the best target for approach
We Over the 3+ years we started making personal conversations. I just wanted to be friends and stay in touch
 
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Judging by your other threads you seem very sensitive to rejection, I am too if I am emotionally invested in someone. Doesn't matter if it is a friend or woman tbh but friend is waaaaay worse. I don't know I guess best way to cope is to just think they are not worth your time and feelings and move on. If they reject you obviously there is no point thinking about them anymore. But yes it sucks and I always feel this shit bad, especially from friends abandoning me - 1000x worse than anything a woman can do.
 
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Judging by your other threads you seem very sensitive to rejection, I am too if I am emotionally invested in someone. Doesn't matter if it is a friend or woman tbh but friend is waaaaay worse. I don't know I guess best way to cope is to just think they are not worth your time and feelings and move on. If they reject you obviously there is no point thinking about them anymore. But yes it sucks and I always feel this shit bad, especially from friends abandoning me - 1000x worse than anything a woman can do.
rejection sucks bro feels like shit i get physically sick from it
i can’t even feel hatred from it just sadness and doubt like i don’t wanna go back to the old chud life :feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:
 
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rejection sucks bro feels like shit i get physically sick from it
i can’t even feel hatred from it just sadness and doubt like i don’t wanna go back to the old chud life :feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:
Yeah it sucks. Are you talking about rejection from friends too? It is just 1000x worse imo.. god damn do I hate it and betrayal. It is one of the worst feelings on earth really.
 
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Judging by your other threads you seem very sensitive to rejection, I am too if I am emotionally invested in someone. Doesn't matter if it is a friend or woman tbh but friend is waaaaay worse. I don't know I guess best way to cope is to just think they are not worth your time and feelings and move on. If they reject you obviously there is no point thinking about them anymore. But yes it sucks and I always feel this shit bad, especially from friends abandoning me - 1000x worse than anything a woman can do.
rejection sucks bro feels like shit i get physically sick from it
i can’t even feel hatred from it just sadness and doubt like i don’t wanna go back to the old chud life :feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:
Good to see that there are other guys out there who also hate rejection.
 
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Yeah it sucks. Are you talking about rejection from friends too? It is just 1000x worse imo.. god damn do I hate it and betrayal. It is one of the worst feelings on earth really.
i don’t have enough friends to get rejected by them
I was talking about women tbh cuz they really will trap you with your feelings until you snap back to reality and it sucks
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Good to see that there are other guys out there who also hate rejection.
Had an online friend I talked to for years... later he got mad at me for no reason and cut contact... shit hurt for half a year or more. Of course now I think he is a pathetic loser for it but damn.. it made me depressed as fuck for weeks. Kind of crazy.
 
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Had an online friend I talked to for years... later he got mad at me for no reason and cut contact... shit hurt for half a year or more. Of course now I think he is a pathetic loser for it but damn.. it made me depressed as fuck for weeks. Kind of crazy.
Other friends too from LoL and Twitter that I was friends with for many years. They stopped being on Twitter, later two of them found me on Instagram and went around sharing it to others etc.. I contacted them by DMs and they ignored and/or blocked me. So fucking sad and disgusting. Still makes me sad when I think of it. Like holy shit you can't even the basic decency to talk someone you had been super close to online for years?? Even blocking me. When THEY were the ones fucking creeping too, I just saw them pop up in suggested follows. @supergoat972
 
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I know this roastie at the office. She is in her 40s, has multiple kids, no husband. I was never interested in having a relationship with her, but I knew her for about 3.5 years. We Over the 3+ years we started making personal conversations. I just wanted to be friends.

Asked the foid if she wanted to stay in touch and she said no , she was busy and walked off. Almost made me want to cry.

Im a HTN and she's an ugly ass roastie. She should be grateful that I asked her out. Its like someone gives a beggar gold, and they are rude and say they don't want it. It kind of annoys you.

I know, ive talked about this before but another time other foids bought up their "boyfriends" around me (I talk about it here)
i never tried so i never get rejected
 
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Yeah

Foids say it's nothing personal. Bullshit. The fact I get turned down nearly every single time means there's something about me foids in general are repulsed by
 
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Had an online friend I talked to for years... later he got mad at me for no reason and cut contact... shit hurt for half a year or more. Of course now I think he is a pathetic loser for it but damn.. it made me depressed as fuck for weeks. Kind of crazy.
Getting rejected by a man is 1000X easier than getting rejected by a foid. I get rejected by guys all the time to hangout....forget withing a week.

Foids are a different story. It just pisses me off.

Glad that there are other guys like us though,. :y'all: I am so sick and tired of reading reddit posts telling men to brush it off and treat the foid who rejected you like a queen. Seems like every other man just forgets about it and moves on. Glad I found other guys like me.
 
Other friends too from LoL and Twitter that I was friends with for many years. They stopped being on Twitter, later two of them found me on Instagram and went around sharing it to others etc.. I contacted them by DMs and they ignored and/or blocked me. So fucking sad and disgusting. Still makes me sad when I think of it. Like holy shit you can't even the basic decency to talk someone you had been super close to online for years?? Even blocking me. When THEY were the ones fucking creeping too, I just saw them pop up in suggested follows. @supergoat972
I never really cared much about male rejection. It would take about 10 men not wanting to hangout with me (in a non-gay way) than it would 1 foid rejection.
 
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I never really cared much about male rejection. It would take about 10 men not wanting to hangout with me (in a non-gay way) than it would 1 foid rejection.
But friends?? You don't feel bad when they abandon, hurt or backstab you??!!!
 
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But friends?? You don't feel bad when they abandon, hurt or backstab you??!!!
True, you make a point. Im an oldcel (30) and its happened so many times that I just forget about it. None of my high school friends give a fuck anymore.

Its just different when a foid rejects me though. It always hurt and the pain of a foid rejecting you just never goes away
 
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I don't put myself out there enough to be rejected
 
True, you make a point. Im an oldcel (30) and its happened so many times that I just forget about it. None of my high school friends give a fuck anymore.

Its just different when a foid rejects me though. It always hurt and the pain of a foid rejecting you just never goes away
I am same age as you bro.. yeah lmfao at this age basically almost 100% of people of the past have abandoned me or don't want to talk to me.. it is unreal how garbage many people are like that. You are right at this point I almost expect it when I reach out lol..
 
yes, due to them thinking they have superiority over me to do so. Especially if I'm much greater than them and Excel looks wise.
 

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