Does anyone find putting in effort an ick

[TerminatorGenisys9]

For some reason my mind has become fully twisted where I think real life slaying or pulling girls is like ranked video games. I hate the aspect of giving yourself an advantage by talking to girls beforehand or them knowing you.

I get the most dopamine from approaching random girls at bars due to the fact it gives me a rank/elo at where I can evaluate myself and then see what I can do with these women. The whole premise behind going on dates is quite annoying to me because I start to feel as if the girl doesn't like me for how I look, which usually is a good thing, but for me right now I just want to look decent enough to where I can troll around with girls and not even have to talk to them at all.

I almost get an ick as to when I have to dm a girl because it's just the biggest waste of time. I have the most pessimistic mindset oat knowing that I won't get married with the girl I'm talking to, and the only way for me to not feel this is to sort of have a "You" love story where it seems like fate or the world is making us get together, which is not the case for most women who I've texted.

Is there any way to fix this, or should I just keep this mindset try to farm slays post my experiences here and then try to settle once I find my one. There is no point in even trying for a relationship right now at my age because all the girls are going around getting with everyone and it feels super degen and sad knowing that my wife is probably doing this unless I geomaxx and become a lame passport bro which I'd hate myself for doing.

So is it worth it for me to just be sleeping around as well to get my slays up and then try to wife a sorority girl while not being in a frat though, I think I still can but who knows.

 

[Deleted member 30754]

everyone must suffer

 

[Avagar Nexus]

For some reason my mind has become fully twisted where I think real life slaying or pulling girls is like ranked video games. I hate the aspect of giving yourself an advantage by talking to girls beforehand or them knowing you.

I get the most dopamine from approaching random girls at bars due to the fact it gives me a rank/elo at where I can evaluate myself and then see what I can do with these women. The whole premise behind going on dates is quite annoying to me because I start to feel as if the girl doesn't like me for how I look, which usually is a good thing, but for me right now I just want to look decent enough to where I can troll around with girls and not even have to talk to them at all.

I almost get an ick as to when I have to dm a girl because it's just the biggest waste of time. I have the most pessimistic mindset oat knowing that I won't get married with the girl I'm talking to, and the only way for me to not feel this is to sort of have a "You" love story where it seems like fate or the world is making us get together, which is not the case for most women who I've texted.

Is there any way to fix this, or should I just keep this mindset try to farm slays post my experiences here and then try to settle once I find my one. There is no point in even trying for a relationship right now at my age because all the girls are going around getting with everyone and it feels super degen and sad knowing that my wife is probably doing this unless I geomaxx and become a lame passport bro which I'd hate myself for doing.

So is it worth it for me to just be sleeping around as well to get my slays up and then try to wife a sorority girl while not being in a frat though, I think I still can but who knows.

That’s a good question homie, that’s a good question

 

[McSkziofren]

Looking is enough. Looks can kill