Macan
If there is a will, there is a way!
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Hey,
As the title says. I'm curious. I never knew of this problem, because the ,,problem", wasn't really a bad problem to begin with. First time I knew of this site and looksmaxxing was 2022, but at that time I couldn't be bothered with it.
When people here or IRL talk about life, they talk like it's most brutal thing in the world, like we are in jungle of Amazon, but concrete safe city. I have always felt good about everything past, present and future for no reason at all. I could say, I'm satisfied person. From the beginning there were problems, that I wouldn't at that time consider a problem (mainly about looks). It was all going good until when I had a GF, we broke up. Honestly I didn't feel bad at the time, but months passed and this was in 2025, this was like 1 year ago. I was actively lurking this site, not doing anything. I was doing skincare and that's all. Then it hit me like a truck in sept. 2025, that I knew of looksmax 2 years now, even more and didn't do a single thing plus some other problems. Then I found out I had ADHD, started meds, but took like 6 months to get diagnosed, it was a little better. Still not doing the things a want, for every 10 looksmaxxes I know, im doing like 1 at a time. Past few weeks I downloaded tinder again, got with this cute girl. We have gone on a date, we made out, day tmrw. She said we didn't connect, I wasn't bothers that much, but she had good looks I must admit. Past few days, I was think about that, why she rejected me, even tho we made out and everything, it got me thinking again, im not really doing a lot of looksmaxxing, nothing special, just going to the gym, skincare, microneedeling and some nootropics and meds.
That's because I don't have drive to change that about myself, I rarely feel bad, some times, and even then its just a little but, im just feel bored. I don't got brutal childhood story or school, that I remember. It was actually good. When I think about this all, looksmaxxing, improving myself. I just feel suppressed, not sad, just I don't feel the usual good.
Im pretty low on neurotic scale + I got ADHD which is brutal combination, I have no drive, but at least I feel good.
Does anyone feel the same as me? Or what do you think about that, what could I change, wanted to start a discussion.
As the title says. I'm curious. I never knew of this problem, because the ,,problem", wasn't really a bad problem to begin with. First time I knew of this site and looksmaxxing was 2022, but at that time I couldn't be bothered with it.
When people here or IRL talk about life, they talk like it's most brutal thing in the world, like we are in jungle of Amazon, but concrete safe city. I have always felt good about everything past, present and future for no reason at all. I could say, I'm satisfied person. From the beginning there were problems, that I wouldn't at that time consider a problem (mainly about looks). It was all going good until when I had a GF, we broke up. Honestly I didn't feel bad at the time, but months passed and this was in 2025, this was like 1 year ago. I was actively lurking this site, not doing anything. I was doing skincare and that's all. Then it hit me like a truck in sept. 2025, that I knew of looksmax 2 years now, even more and didn't do a single thing plus some other problems. Then I found out I had ADHD, started meds, but took like 6 months to get diagnosed, it was a little better. Still not doing the things a want, for every 10 looksmaxxes I know, im doing like 1 at a time. Past few weeks I downloaded tinder again, got with this cute girl. We have gone on a date, we made out, day tmrw. She said we didn't connect, I wasn't bothers that much, but she had good looks I must admit. Past few days, I was think about that, why she rejected me, even tho we made out and everything, it got me thinking again, im not really doing a lot of looksmaxxing, nothing special, just going to the gym, skincare, microneedeling and some nootropics and meds.
That's because I don't have drive to change that about myself, I rarely feel bad, some times, and even then its just a little but, im just feel bored. I don't got brutal childhood story or school, that I remember. It was actually good. When I think about this all, looksmaxxing, improving myself. I just feel suppressed, not sad, just I don't feel the usual good.
Im pretty low on neurotic scale + I got ADHD which is brutal combination, I have no drive, but at least I feel good.
Does anyone feel the same as me? Or what do you think about that, what could I change, wanted to start a discussion.
