DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT AN ACTUAL GOOD DATE IS LIKE?

[Deleted member 22780]

I’ve only been on second dates 2 times in my life. Most of my first dates ghost or say they’re not interested.

How does a good first date go like?
I’ve made out with girls yet still been ghosted
Had sex with them but they’ve still ghosted
Had meaningful conversations but they still ghosted.
Had some ask for my ig follow me then still ghost.

This is like a Reddit question jfl but idk who to ask. I don’t want bluepilled advice. What makes a girl want to talk to you again after a first date other than the obvious answer which is look like Maher

 

[Deleted member 22780]

@Niko how do your good first dates go where they actually want to meet again. Need help from a chad

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

@Niko how do your good first dates go where they actually want to meet again. Need help from a chad

Idk, only real date I've been on was with my ex's and a single tinderfoid, all the other ones were not dates but hookups at my Appartement :/

 

[Deleted member 14984]

Most foids on dating apps claim „vino“ or „beer“ and „deeptalk“
But they are disappointed when you don’t invite them to an exclusive restaurant, pay for cinema and a gift.
Wymyn always try to act humble, but they want your money and free food.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Idk, only real date I've been on was with my ex's and a single tinderfoid, all the other ones were not dates but hookups at my Appartement :/

Yeah I used to only do hookups but I’ve recently started doing more dates cause hookups make me feel empty.

Either women are the best at larping or I just don’t understand them.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Most foids on dating apps claim „vino“ or „beer“ and „deeptalk“
But they are disappointed when you don’t invite them to an exclusive restaurant, pay for cinema and a gift.
Wymyn always try to act humble, but they want your money and free food.

So u gotta act really beta? I feel I already do that jfl

 

[Deleted member 14984]

So u gotta act really beta? I feel I already do that jfl

I don’t. I can smell from the far if she is worth or just another cheap whore

 

[Gengar]

Ask the Arabs.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

A good date is when she's staring at you in disbelief.
A good date is when she speaks out loud, "Oh my gad, I can't believe this is happening."
A good date is when the bill comes after eating a delicious expensive meal, and she says, "Let me pay for it."
A good date is when you're alone with her finally, and you can't see her face because she's blowing you.
A good date is when she calls over her girlfriend because they share everything.
Finally, a good date is when she says, "This one's on the house."

 

[Allandro]

I’ve only been on second dates 2 times in my life. Most of my first dates ghost or say they’re not interested.

How does a good first date go like?
I’ve made out with girls yet still been ghosted
Had sex with them but they’ve still ghosted
Had meaningful conversations but they still ghosted.
Had some ask for my ig follow me then still ghost.

This is like a Reddit question jfl but idk who to ask. I don’t want bluepilled advice. What makes a girl want to talk to you again after a first date other than the obvious answer which is look like Maher

Idk I had fun on my date...
That’s how I knew it went good...

 

[Deleted member 22780]

I don’t. I can smell from the far if she is worth or just another cheap whore

Like the last girl I went out with felt bad that I paid for the entire thing. Idk if she was genuinely like that or larping. But I made her drive 2 hrs so it was the least I could do. We made out but she ghosted me after. I don’t really understand what a good date is that warrants her to reach out again. I’ve only been on bad ones

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Idk I had fun on my date...
That’s how I knew it went good...

A lot of girls have said that. That’s like a death sentence. Tbh. If they say they had fun it means they’re not messaging u again

 

[Deleted member 22780]

A good date is when she's staring at you in disbelief.
A good date is when she speaks out loud, "Oh my gad, I can't believe this is happening."
A good date is when the bill comes after eating a delicious expensive meal, and she says, "Let me pay for it."
A good date is when you're alone with her finally, and you can't see her face because she's blowing you.
A good date is when she calls over her girlfriend because they share everything.
Finally, a good date is when she says, "This one's on the house."

So sex on the first date is basically the only way to know? I’ve had sex 2 times on dates not planned hookups and they’ve ghosted both times

 

[Allandro]

A lot of girls have said that. That’s like a death sentence. Tbh. If they say they had fun it means they’re not messaging u again

I didn't say that they have to have fun.
You have to have fun OP, most of the times ur mood relflects on other people aswell.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

I didn't say that they have to have fun.
You have to have fun OP, most of the times ur mood relflects on other people aswell.

Idk I feel like I have a good time we make out. Plan on meeting again they seem eager to do so then bam ghosted.

 

[Deleted member 14984]

Like the last girl I went out with felt bad that I paid for the entire thing. Idk if she was genuinely like that or larping. But I made her drive 2 hrs so it was the least I could do. We made out but she ghosted me after. I don’t really understand what a good date is that warrants her to reach out again. I’ve only been on bad ones

Then the sex was bad I guess

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Then the sex was bad I guess

We didn’t have sex. We made out I suggested we go to my apartment she said she was running late so I just walked her to her car.

 

[Allandro]

Idk I feel like I have a good time we make out. Plan on meeting again they seem eager to do so then bam ghosted.

Do u use edited pics on tinder?

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Do u use edited pics on tinder?

Nope. The girls have said I’m good looking in person so it’s not like I’m a catfish

 

[MRD]

I think your breath may stink, tbh. Do you use floss/dental sticks as well as anti-bacterial mouthwash? When you use your brush do you brush your mouth lining, and underneath your tongue, also? I'm not being funny, here. I have had a few friends with horrible breath and they don't even notice because they've never brushed/flossed properly. One guy only brushed his teeth didn't realise most bacteria is on the tongue and underneath. After I told him what to do it made actually speaking to the cunt tolerable within 3 feet away. Imagine what the women went through.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

I think your breath may stink, tbh. Do you use floss/dental sticks as well as anti-bacterial mouthwash? When you use your brush do you brush your mouth lining, and underneath your tongue, also? I'm not being funny, here. I have had a few friends with horrible breath and they don't even notice because they've never brushed/flossed properly. One guy only brushed his teeth didn't realise most bacteria is on the tongue and underneath. After I told him what to do it made actually speaking to the cunt tolerable within 3 feet away. Imagine what the women went through.

I brush 2 times before going out and before actually meeting then I chew gum and drink ice cold water. It can’t be that

 

[Deleted member 14984]

Man, why are you so cucked? Are you Alevite?

 

[MRD]

I brush 2 times before going out and before actually meeting then I chew gum and drink ice cold water. It can’t be that

Trust me - it's that. You say they ghost you after making out or after having sex. Maybe they felt guilted into sex in the moment and environment but says a lot. Men don't understand hygiene all that well there was a documentary about 10 years ago about this. They tested bacteria around bodyparts after a football/rugby team had had their after training showers. 6/10 of them didn't even wash the cheese from behind their foreskin. Fucking neanderthals. 10/10 of them said they had good hygiene.

I'm telling you bro - even need to brush upwards towards the gumlines and downwards towards bottom set of gumlines as that's where the shit builds up too. Sort your fucking mouth hygiene out folks. If it bleeds around the lines it means you neglected that area for too long and its been eating at your gums and building up bacteria.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Man, why are you so cucked? Are you Alevite?

What’s that mean? I’m just a genuine nice guy I can’t act like a douche even if I try. Women say they want guys to respect them and care for them but they only want chads

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Trust me - it's that. You say they ghost you after making out or after having sex. Maybe they felt guilted into sex in the moment and environment but says a lot. Men don't understand hygiene all that well there was a documentary about 10 years ago about this. They tested bacteria around bodyparts after a football/rugby team had had their after training showers. 6/10 of them didn't even wash the cheese from behind their foreskin. Fucking neanderthals. 10/10 of them said they had good hygiene.

I'm telling you bro - even need to brush upwards towards the gumlines and downwards towards bottom set of gumlines as that's where the shit builds up too. Sort your fucking mouth hygiene out folks. If it bleeds around the lines it means you neglected that area for too long and its been eating at your gums and building up bacteria.

I brush my tongue nigga. It ain’t white like some of the mfs have. It’s not oral hygiene trust

 

[MRD]

I brush my tongue nigga. It ain’t white like some of the mfs have. It’s not oral hygiene trust

Fair enough. Maybe it's your looksonality and heightfidence, then.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

you'll know it when you have one

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Fair enough. Maybe it's your looksonality and heightfidence, then.

Prob

 

[Deleted member 22780]

you'll know it when you have one

Ok mr Reddit

 

[Deleted member 14984]

What’s that mean? I’m just a genuine nice guy I can’t act like a douche even if I try. Women say they want guys to respect them and care for them but they only want chads

That‘s a cap, they like betas for chasing them to feed their ego and Chads to be toxic and dominating. Never wondered, why women chase those, who treat them like utter shit?

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

Ok mr Reddit

no i'm srs. when you meet a girl that you connect with on a deeper level right off the bat then you'll know what that feels like.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

That‘s a cap, they like betas for chasing them to feed their ego and Chads to be toxic and dominating. Never wondered, why women chase those, who treat them like utter shit?

The girl I went out with talked about how her ex was abusive and treated her like shit. Yet the way she talked about him I could tell she’d fuck him rn if she could. It’s all face. Always has been always will be

 

[Deleted member 22780]

no i'm srs. when you meet a girl that you connect with on a deeper level right off the bat then you'll know what that feels like.

Connection is cope. It’s only face tbh

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

Connection is cope. It’s only face tbh

yea water there's no connection for sub-HTNs.

but what i'm saying is when you're above that threshold and also a girl's particular type and then on top of that you match her personality, that will make it good.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

If you vibe with them

 

[Deleted member 22780]

yea water there's no connection for sub-HTNs.

but what i'm saying is when you're above that threshold and also a girl's particular type and then on top of that you match her personality, that will make it good.

If you vibe with them

I thought it went decent. We talked a lot. She kept putting her head on my shoulder at the bar. We walked holding hands then made out. I told her I was moving soon and she jokingly said I should move closer to where she lives (she lives 2 hrs away).
I walked her to her car then we made ur there.

Like I’d feel that atleast warrants a text back. But nothing. God I can’t understand women

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I thought it went decent. We talked a lot. She kept putting her head on my shoulder at the bar. We walked holding hands then made out. I told her I was moving soon and she jokingly said I should move closer to where she lives (she lives 2 hrs away).
I walked her to her car then we made ur there.

Like I’d feel that atleast warrants a text back. But nothing. God I can’t understand women

Bruh you’re moving
She prob wants ltr not a hookup

Can’t have that if you’re not gonna be there

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Bruh you’re moving
She prob wants ltr not a hookup

Can’t have that if you’re not gonna be there

I’m not moving much farther than the distance we already have. And even so atleast have the decency to reply especially after a mf pays for ur expensive ass bill

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I’m not moving much farther than the distance we already have. And even so atleast have the decency to reply especially after a mf pays for ur expensive ass bill

Leaving on read is easier
How far are you gonna be from her ?

 

[Ritalincell]

I’ve only been on second dates 2 times in my life. Most of my first dates ghost or say they’re not interested.

How does a good first date go like?
I’ve made out with girls yet still been ghosted
Had sex with them but they’ve still ghosted
Had meaningful conversations but they still ghosted.
Had some ask for my ig follow me then still ghost.

This is like a Reddit question jfl but idk who to ask. I don’t want bluepilled advice. What makes a girl want to talk to you again after a first date other than the obvious answer which is look like Maher

You must mog her lookswise enough

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Leaving on read is easier
How far are you gonna be from her ?

Prob like an 1.5. But if she’s interested I wouldn’t mind looking for a place closer by to her. She’s just being a piece of shit by ghosting.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

You must mog her lookswise enough

I’ve gone out with girls who I mog we’re looksmatched or who mog me. All same results

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Prob like an 1.5. But if she’s interested I wouldn’t mind looking for a place closer by to her. She’s just being a piece of shit by ghosting.

That’s pretty far tbh makes sense she ghosted you

 

[Ritalincell]

I’ve gone out with girls who I mog we’re looksmatched or who mog me. All same results

If u mog a foid and she doesn't want to see u again u are a freak or she is a whore

 

[Deleted member 22780]

That’s pretty far tbh makes sense she ghosted you

But then y talk to me for a week then agree to drive all the way down here for a date. I originally thought it was a hookup hence y I suggested she comes to my apartment.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

If u mog a foid and she doesn't want to see u again u are a freak or she is a whore

Hypergamy is a bitch

 

[Deleted member 7580]

But then y talk to me for a week then agree to drive all the way down here for a date. I originally thought it was a hookup hence y I suggested she comes to my apartment.

She realized she can’t do it all the time
I wouldn’t drive 1.5 hour for dates tbh

 

[Ritalincell]

Hypergamy is a bitch

It is truly terrible and nobody seems to care

 

[Deleted member 22780]

She realized she can’t do it all the time
I wouldn’t drive 1.5 hour for dates tbh

I’ll cope with that. It won’t make me feel like shit for being unattractive atleast

 

[fukmylyf]

I've had the same experience many times. I'm actually surprised more guys can't relate.
Take the personalitypill tbh